Yang Tianzhen, Yang Li, Yi Lijing, Fu Seoul's new talk show "Unfold Talk", the latest issue invited guest Ma Yili.
A group of women, gathered together to eat and chat, the atmosphere is relaxed, and the topic is healing.
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Especially Ma Yili, who once experienced the boiling "see you on Monday", and now when it comes to love, she is relaxed and calm with the naked eye.
She generously admits that she has a love brain side, and will pay no matter how much she pays in return when she meets love; There are also those painful moments in love.
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All the past became part of her life, without being erased or reconciled.
Later, Yi Lijing asked her to use one word to describe her current state of life, and she blurted out: "Full of expectations." ”
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At the age of 46, she has experienced flowers and betrayals, no disguise, no beautification, she is like a person who has waded through the river of life, opening herself up in the dust, and telling the latecomers: She has walked like this, she is fine now...
Is Ma Yili a love brain?
Perhaps.
When she was with the article 9 years younger than herself, everyone was taken aback.
The age gap is on the one hand, Ma Yili, who had already acted in "Huan Zhu Gege 3" and "Struggle" at that time, is not known much higher than the article that just read the junior.
"Huan Zhu Gege 3" stills
But Ma Yili loved it irrevocably, she didn't care about the doubts of the outside world, and stood up to justify the article:
"I was attracted to his talent, and I don't think the talent of acting has anything to do with an actor's age."
She has been on many variety shows with articles and has shown a lot of affection.
When it comes to the article, her whole body language is cheerful and fast. Loving someone can't be hidden. At that time, Ma Yili was all yearning for the future marriage life.
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On September 20, 2008, Ma Yili and the eldest daughter of the article were born, named Wen Ai Ma, which shows how much love the two have.
After giving birth, Ma Yili faded out of the entertainment industry, taking care of the family while helping her husband wholeheartedly.
She strongly recommended the article to her best friend's ex-boyfriend Teng Huatao and helped the article take over the script of the TV series "Worm House".
"Snail House" was real and bold, which resonated with many audiences at the time. The article plays a little man who was betrayed and abandoned by his girlfriend, and the kind of forbearance and grievance are very real.
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Teng Huatao appreciates the acting skills of the article, "Naked Marriage Era" specially found the article partner Yao Di, this little couple on the screen became popular, and the article was also famous in the TV drama industry.
After that, he starred again as the male number one in Teng Huatao's movie "Thirty-Three Days of Broken Love". This movie was the big hit of the year. The article was also a hit in the film industry.
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Standing at the top, the article is in the limelight and gets carried away.
The article after the fire was interviewed, and when asked about Ma Yili, the article said that it had been said too many times, and in addition to being grateful to Ma Yili, it was gratitude. But his tone is playful. There is a kind of impatience that "I'm already thankful and want me to do something."
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In March 2014, the article and the photo of Yao Di being kissed on the streets of Shenzhen were exposed, causing an uproar for a while.
Digging deeper, the two first reported a relationship in August of the previous year, when Ma Yili was still pregnant with her second child.
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On the one hand, the article cheated on his wife during pregnancy and was spurned by thousands of people;
On the other hand, Ma Yili, who shows affection and promotes her husband, is now slapping her face. How exactly would she respond? All eyes are watching.
Two days later, the article issued a statement saying that it was to blame.
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Ma Yili posted on Weibo that "and do and cherish", publicly forgiving the derailment of the article.
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This move disappointed many netizens who hoped that Ma Yili would tear the scumbag by hand. "Do and cherish" has also become a classic meme that mocks "forgive the godmother".
What makes viewers feel even more uncontested is that in the two years since the derailment news was exposed, her relationship with the article seems to be constantly being repaired.
On Ma Yili's 39th birthday in 2015, the article was photographed holding a birthday party for her, and gave her a wedding ring to propose again.
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The two are often photographed picking up and dropping off children together.
They also filmed the TV series "Razor's Edge" together.
A still from the TV series "Razor's Edge"
But netizens are even more wishful thinking that although Ma Yili is not divorced, she must be "revenge" the article in her own way to make up for the harm caused by her husband's cheating.
For example, after the cheating turmoil, Ma Yili returned to the entertainment industry with "Beishang Guang Don't Believe in Tears".
About this TV series, many people remember about only one topic: the office "passion scene" with Zhu Yawen, which was widely circulated by everyone at that time.
"Hiro Kitakami doesn't believe in tears" stills
Unexpectedly, on July 28, 2019, after everything calmed down, Ma Yili announced her divorce through Weibo, ending her 11-year marriage with the article.
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On the other hand, Ma Yili's career line will find that she began to take a "de-article" path before her divorce.
After "Beishang Guang", Ma Yili became popular again with "My First Half of Life".
In this TV series, she plays Luo Zijun as a housewife whose husband cheats and returns to the workplace to re-employment - the mapping of the role and reality is obvious, and it is difficult not to make people associate with each other.
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In fact, if in order to carefully care for the scars scratched by her husband's cheating and reduce the public's attention to her personal marriage problems, Ma Yili should not choose such a role, but her decision to play Luo Zijun also shows where her balance tends in her career and marriage.
From beginning to end, Ma Yili was not led by various public opinions. She has always had her own rhythm.
In this era where everyone has to express their opinions, if you want to live your life well, you must cross the massive public opinion field, and then grasp your most important hole card.
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No voice can resist, you can "carry it clearly", this skill can not be learned by watching a few big heroines and memorizing a few chicken soup golden sentences.
The process can be tangled, unbearable, humiliating, and broken.
Ma Yili integrated her broken self with super courage, energy and determination.
Years later, when the media tried to use the triangular relationship in a certain drama to spy on Ma Yili's inner thoughts. Ma Yili did not cut with the past.
"You can't say that men are too scum, women are too humble, love and unlove are not so black and white, and human nature is also very complicated."
The love of those years was real, and the tears were also real. Countless joyful and painful moments are connected to life.
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Last year, Ma Yili acted in a movie called "The Myth of Love".
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She plays Miss Li, with purple hair, style, experience, and a failed international marriage, living a single life alone with a British daughter who failed English.
At the beginning of the movie, she had a one-night stand with Lao Bai, played by Xu Zheng. Miss Li was greedy for a while, but Lao Bai was moved by true feelings. He cooks for Miss Li, helps with the children, provides houses, and pursues all kinds of pursuits.
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But Miss Li has always been leaving.
Lao Bai, this man, seems to have become a kite in Miss Li's hand, and when he is too far away, he pulls the string and declares sovereignty; If it's too close, let him fly farther, keep a safe distance, and investigate again.
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Why did Miss Lee do this?
In fact, Miss Li just hopes that Lao Bai will respect her, she will follow her heart to fall in love, and she will control her own destiny.
Miss Li will not commit herself to him because of Lao Bai's house. Because relying on no one is better than relying on yourself, remember to look at the price code first and weigh whether you can afford it.
The sketch that Lao Bai secretly drew for Miss Li was used by her as a mobile phone screensaver, and she lamented that she ate this set the most when she was young. Lao Bai asked her, now what? She smiled slightly: You say.
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When she was young, a little bit of thought into a little romance could make a girl desperately in love, but now it's different, this little romance can still make her heart, but it's just a heartbeat.
Here, I will think of a Western prophecy:
The young King Arthur became a prisoner, but he was released if he could answer one question correctly.
The question is: What do women really want?
King Arthur asked many people, and no one knew the answer. Finally he asked about an ugly witch.
The witch said, you marry me, and I will tell you the correct answer. Arthur agreed.
The witch tells Arthur that what a woman really wants is to control her own destiny.
Arthur, who learns the answer, is freed. He kept his promise and married a witch.
Unexpectedly, on the wedding night, the ugly witch turned into a beautiful girl. She said to Arthur that because Arthur was also very good to her when she was ugly, she could be an ugly witch half of the time in a day and a beautiful maiden half of the time.
She asked Arthur, did she choose to be an ugly witch by day and a beautiful girl at night? Or is it the other way around?
Arthur replied: Since what a woman really wants is to control her own destiny, it is up to her to decide.
Because she was respected and loved, the witch decided to be a beautiful woman day and night.
Is this fable like a variation of "The Myth of Love" and Ma Yili's own story?
At the end of the "Expand and Talk" program, Ma Yili said that she is still all in when she is in love. What's the point of talking about falling in love that is not on top? Waste of time!
But this all in cannot include her career, and as soon as someone delays her career on the grounds of being in love, she will immediately say goodbye.
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