Written by: Mirror
In the face of my son's rambling emotions in learning, I believe that I am not the only one who is anxious. In fact, on this issue, there are too many moms and dads complaining, and I don't know how other people's children are educated, how to learn so self-disciplined, study so seriously, the key is not to worry about parents?
In fact, the parents of this child have too much to do, and it is not a matter of saying this, this is still the experience of our family having a second child.
The birth of the second eldest makes us unable to free up our energy, and naturally we are not as serious as managing the boss. As a result, it was found that the second eldest should be more self-disciplined in learning, and I summarized that compared with the older brother, the advantages of educating the second eldest are as follows.
First, it is often praised
The eldest of our family has not been praised a lot, after all, the eyes of the family are staring at him, and there is a slight deficiency, and he is immediately pointed out and paid attention to. The second eldest is different, he has basically not been hit, the family is full of confidence in him, and he is more motivated to improve. Even the boss himself said that my self-confidence was suppressed by you, and when it came to my brother, it was very different, and I envied him. For the boss, we really regret it.
Second, learn with your child
In fact, when we were the eldest of us, we also studied with our children, but it was better to learn with our children. There is a sense of supervision in learning with children, but learning with children is different.
Our eldest learned, the second eldest followed, and there was a pattern of learning, which led to the second eldest not bothering the two of us at all.
Third, help children solve the difficulties and problems encountered
After all, children are children, encounter difficulties, encounter problems will retreat, which is also inevitable, but I don't have to worry, if you are willing to face problems with your child, and are willing to find answers with him, I believe that children can not only grasp the knowledge points well, but even develop a good habit of self-discipline.
Fourth, never discourage children's enthusiasm for learning
The child wants to learn, why do you have to stop him, the child does not learn, you don't need to yell, let alone conclude that the child has no learning ability, or the enthusiasm is too poor, is to give up blindly blowing, to find a way to mobilize the child's inner motivation.
5. Adults should be role models for children
Put down the mobile phone in your hand, turn off the TV you are watching, pick up a good book, you are the template of the child, your every move and word and deed is the object of the child's emulation, don't hesitate, start from yourself and become a role model for the child.
In family education, parents' good communication methods reflect the excellent parent-child relationship link, and your details are the best force to supervise the growth of children.
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