Li Xiaolu recently posted a video with her daughter Tianxin.
The little girl who shouted "we are white" has really grown up, and the 10-year-old is about to catch up with her mother, and her eyebrows look very similar to her parents.
Especially her other solo photo, which is simply a copy of Li Xiaolu, the two mothers and daughters make people stupid and indistinguishable.
Under the video, Li Xiaolu also exposed a certain tone account of Tian Xin.
Netizens looked along the network cable, only to find that the background picture of Tian Xin's account was actually an intimate photo taken with her parents when she was a child.
In addition to setting the cover as a family portrait, Tianxin also posted a news message, writing:
"I wish me and Mom and Dad eternal happiness!"
Some netizens asked her to share her family's daily life, and she responded happily, yes.
Tian Xin looks like a happy family, and netizens contacted her again at the beginning of the year, Li Xiaolu Jia Nailiang took her to ski and had dinner together.
Many people speculate that this pair must remarry!?
Compared with the unlikely reunion of the broken mirror, Gigi feels that Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang, who have been divorced for 4 years, are more worthy of scrutiny in the matter of becoming parents.
Although the couple's relationship broke down and ended in divorce, their love for their children was never absent.
Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu officially announced their divorce in November 2019, and the reason for the separation was not very good, but it was rare that there was no tear comparison.
After separation, she also fulfilled her parental responsibilities, raised and accompanied the child together, and gave her father's love and mother's love.
There are always people who accuse Li Xiaolu of being "unworthy of being a mother" because of her black history, and they are even more worried that she will bring crooked sweetness.
But looking back at the sweetness that followed her life, I knew that netizens were overly worried.
Li Xiaolu, who is an Internet celebrity with peace of mind, in addition to loving to dance, spends most of her time accompanying Tian Xin.
The two love to wear parent-child clothes every day, play around, and the mode of getting along is not so much a mother and daughter, but more like girlfriends.
For Tian Xin's study and daily life, Li Xiaolu is even more concerned about everything.
Usually, rain or shine send my daughter to participate in various training courses, and during the epidemic, she is even more likely to accompany online classes every day.
If Tian Xin is lazy and doesn't want to learn, Li Xiaolu will turn into a tiger mother, severely reproach, and not soft at all.
But when Tian Xin is afraid to participate in the piano performance, she will encourage her daughter to be brave.
Li Xiaolu will accompany Tian Xin to set up a stall under the scorching sun, so that she understands that it is not easy to make money.
He will also take Tian Xin to the mountains to do charity activities and educate her as a sensible, well-behaved and unsqueamish child.
Yan Kuan is generous but loveless, no wonder Tian Xin is full of worship and pride for Li Xiaolu.
Will show off proudly: "Mom, classmates say that I comb a high ponytail especially like you." ”
And Li Xiaolu never hesitates to praise her daughter, and will praise her: "You are much better looking than your mother." ”
Some netizens complained that Li Xiaolu was so unrecognizable that she sneered at her past.
Tian Xin will also domineering back and defend her mother.
And Jia Nailiang's side, although he has been busy with his career in recent years, has not neglected his concern for Tian Xin.
Every year, I send birthday wishes to my daughter on time, saying that she is the big baby who can handle herself the most.
Usually I often go out with Tianxin, visit the mall, visit the park...
He was also photographed playing in Tianxin, he used a fan to repel mosquitoes for his daughter, which was very intimate.
Therefore, there are fewer appearances with Jia Nai, and Tian Xin will not feel rusty, and she welcomes each other warmly every time they meet.
After the divorce, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu were always photographed meeting in private, so rumors of remarriage were frequently reported.
The entanglement of feelings is right and wrong, and outsiders cannot speculate.
It is worth mentioning that they ended their marriage, but they did not die of old age, but were willing to live in harmony for the sake of their children.
In front of the child, the two talked and laughed like old friends.
Jia Nailiang accompanied Tian Xin to play badminton, and Li Xiaolu was next to cheer for them.
The harmony simply does not look like a divorced family.
The two are often met by netizens and travel together with Tian Xin.
Even on Tianxin's birthday, the greetings on the cake still read, "Mom and Dad love you".
Even if they are divorced, the two couples tacitly agree not to bring the grudges of the adult world to the children, and the two parties do not give up their love for the children, and also give the children a sense of security with the appearance of harmony.
Therefore, Tian Xin, who grew up surrounded by the love of her father and mother, will live so lively and cheerful, sunny and confident.
Interaction with netizens, polite and educated.
Her parents' divorce didn't seem to have much impact on her.
When she talks about any party, she is full of joy, without the slightest resentment or dissatisfaction.
People always say that parents divorce, and the most hurt is definitely the children.
What can bring harm to children is never the divorce itself, but the attitude of both parents towards each other and children after divorce.
The relationship between Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang after their divorce made Gigi think of another former couple - Chen Sicheng Tong Liya.
After their divorce, they often took their son Duoduo on trips together.
When getting along, there is no saber rattling, no quarrels and fights, but warm and peaceful.
Even, Tong Liya took the initiative to sort out clothes for her ex-husband Chen Sicheng.
They proved to their children with their words and deeds that even if the parents are separated, the hearts of the family are still together, and the love for the children will not be less.
Duo Duo, who lives in a single-parent family, is naturally no different from ordinary children, and is full of love for her parents.
He will put his arm around Tong Liya's neck and ask for a hug, showing intimacy.
will also take the initiative to give Chen Sicheng a bear hug, and then obediently let his father check his teeth.
After the divorce, the article and Ma Yili also managed to live in peace.
Ma Yili will go to the drama starring in the article, and will comment on the "dad has worked hard" when the article posts the experience of accompanying her eldest daughter to participate in a dance competition.
Thanks to the love of both parents, the two daughters also grew up cheerful and cute.
There are also Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung, Faye Wong and her two ex-husbands Dou Wei and Li Yapeng.
also did not bring the divorce grudge to the children, and after separation, he did not say half a word in front of the children.
Instead, they maintain decency, maintain the image of their other half, and accompany their children to grow together.
It can be seen that the relationship between husband and wife is broken, and divorce does not mean harm to children.
If you get together and get along harmoniously, then the child can also get complete love in an incomplete family and grow up healthy and happy.
On the contrary, if both parties exhaust their love in the marriage, they can't let go of resentment and hatred after separation, and it will be the children who will eventually be hurt.
After divorcing Pan Yueming, Dong Jie took his son to live on top.
Probably resentful, she did not allow Pan Yueming to visit her son for many years, and hinted to her son, "You don't have a father, your mother raised you alone." ”
She regarded her son as the only sustenance, constantly asking for kisses from her son, and coquettishly shouting "top daddy" to her son;
She asked her son to be by her side at all times and to protect himself like a man;
Seeing Dingding playing with other children, she will be crazy jealous and lose her temper, and use anger to collapse to win her son's attention...
Forced to lose his father's top top, he can only learn to grow up, with a maturity that goes against his age.
Don't dare to release your nature without worry, dare not cry when wronged, and rarely show a smile on your face.
When his mother is unhappy, he has to take on the responsibility of care and comfort in turn, and it is distressing to be sensible:
Little baby, well, daddy loves you.
In addition to preventing the other half from meeting the children, some people can't deal with their emotions after divorce, and they slander the other half, but they don't know that the children caught in the middle are the most uncomfortable.
Huang Yi's daughter Bell is the biggest victim of her parents' bloody divorce farce.
In order to take revenge on Huang Yi, Huang Yiqing induced his daughter to shoot various videos more than once, lying and saying, "My mother beat me, my mother is pregnant again, and my mother's boyfriend sexually assaulted me..."
Huang Yi, who was mad, wanted to drive his daughter out of the door, and his daughter cried and said the words in her heart:
"Mom, don't be like this, I don't know what is right or wrong, I just know that I have to listen to my father when I go to Dad." I seem to say a little bit about you bad, dad is happy, I can say less bad things about you on the Internet. ”
In the logic of the bell, if I am obedient, my father will be happy, will love me more, and will not quarrel with my mother.
In order to please her father and save her parents' relationship, she did not hesitate to lie and even hurt herself.
Gigi felt sorry for this child who was less than 10 years old, and because of his parents' divorce, he lived so sensitively and humbly.
What's more frightening is that the parents did not deal with the divorce well, and the children not only had to live an unhappy childhood with resentment, but also had to spend the rest of their lives healing the pain.
Jiang Sida experienced his parents' divorce when he was young, and the two always quarreled at every turn, and they also complained to each other after separation.
In Mom, all he hears is how Dad is wrong, resulting in resentment and indifference to Daddy;
In his father, he learned about his mother's various mistakes, and he had to blame himself for his indifference.
The broken native family caused Jiang Sida to know how to observe words and colors since he was a child, afraid that his parents would quarrel in the next second, always thinking about how to deal with it if adults quarreled.
Even when I grow up, my parents are relieved.
But he has long been accustomed to being suspicious and uneasy, but he still cannot trust others and is difficult to establish normal intimate relationships.
In today's society, where divorce is becoming more and more common, if a marriage really can't go on, we certainly don't have to bend for the sake of our children.
But after divorce, it is more necessary for both parties to work together to reduce the harm to the children.
Understand that divorce ends marriage, not the love of parents for their children.
Even if you can't give your child a complete home, you can try to give your child complete love.
Then children face the separation of their parents, although they have regret and reluctance in their hearts, they will not lack love and security!
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Responsible Editor / Niu Hu Lu Sang