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In our lifetime, it is like a walking train, some people will get on the train in the middle of the way, and some people will get off the train in the middle, and we will find that people come and go, and there are almost no people who can really accompany us to the end.
Sometimes we always think that we have met a very good friend, they will accompany us for a lifetime, but slowly, we will find that we and each other can only go halfway, and in the middle of the way, we slowly lose contact for various reasons.
Sometimes it's because we have our own different circles, sometimes it's because we have conflicts with each other, and eventually we slowly drift away.
Sometimes we always think that our other half can accompany us to the end, but we will find that such a relationship does not seem to be so solid, many people love each other before marriage, but in marriage, the feelings will have problems, and finally go to the end, the two live their own lives.
And some marriages, although not separated, but have been in harmony with the heart, although in the marriage, but very lonely, slowly we will find that the original marriage is not what we imagined, and our partner may not be able to accompany us to the end.
Sometimes we think that our children will accompany us to the end, but slowly, we will find that as our children grow up slowly, they have their own lives, and they slowly leave us to pursue their dreams and pursue the life they want.
In the end, we found that in fact, the only person who can really accompany us to the end is ourselves, which may be very heartfelt, but it is a fact.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" > many people, and slowly they will move away from us</h1>
In this life, we will meet many people, our friends, colleagues, lovers, etc.
When we meet a friend, we may cherish each other at first, but slowly over time, we will find that we have other friends around us, and we and that friend will slowly drift away, and slowly we will find that the relationship between us and a person will slowly become estranged.
Sometimes, we meet a person who loves each other very much, at the beginning the two people love each other, always care about each other, but slowly we will find that the love between us and each other seems to be not as pure as at the beginning, we have a lot of requirements and ideas, and the other party also has a lot of requirements and ideas, and slowly we will find that the feelings have deteriorated.
Once there is a problem with the relationship, sometimes we will find a way to save it, and sometimes, we don't want to do anything, just want to go with the flow, slowly we are not willing to maintain the relationship, a relationship will come to the end, but in fact, no matter which one, we will find that a relationship to the end, in fact, has something to do with our way.
That is, how we treat a relationship, what the relationship will become.
For example, sometimes, we want to maintain well, then a relationship will only get better and better, and sometimes, we don't want to maintain it well, feel that the other party makes us sad, so we want to give up, at this time our feelings will have problems.
Eventually, we will find that the person we once loved, the person we once cherished, slowly drifted away from us, all left us, there was no longer their existence around us, and the future that accompanied us was replaced by others.
In fact, anyone's life seems to be like this, that is, every section of the road has different people to accompany, and each section of the road has different people to walk with us.
However, no matter who it is, it seems that they cannot accompany us to the end from the beginning, but in the middle of the journey, they lose contact with us, and we and each other will slowly drift apart.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > in the end, and the only thing that really accompanies us is ourselves</h1>
In the end, we will find that almost everyone will accompany us for a ride, some people will have a longer time, and some people will have a shorter time, but whether it is long or short, we will find that they will only accompany us for a ride.
And will not always accompany us, or accompany us to the end, and the only one who really accompanies us to the end is us.
When we were young, we were accompanied by our parents and grew up slowly with us, and when we grew up, we had friends and lovers, and they began to accompany us and accompany us through the whole youth.
After that, we met the other half, and they accompanied us through some time, and the children will accompany us through a period of time, and finally we will find that the children have their own lives and slowly leave us.
And our other half, sometimes will accompany us to old age, sometimes will go halfway and part ways with us, or go before us, and in the end only we are left, leaving us alone.
At this moment, we will find that the only person who can really accompany us to the end is ourselves.
Because everyone has their own life path to go, everyone has their own life to live, whether it is our parents, or our children, or our partners, have their own life, and we are actually in the end, only we are left.
It may be very heartfelt, but it is actually the most realistic situation.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > the rest of your life, love yourself more, be nicer to yourself</h1>
In this life, we will rely on others, we will rely on others, we will care about and fall in love with others, but in the end we will understand that the only person who can really accompany us to the end is ourselves.
In the end, when our bodies are healthy, then we will feel happy, but if our health is not good, we are in pain every day, and such a life will make us feel miserable in our old age.
Therefore, no matter at any time, we must always understand that in the old age, we can really give ourselves love, really accompany ourselves, and really take care of ourselves, in fact, only we are ourselves.
Therefore, in this life, we must learn to love ourselves, we must care about ourselves well, and we must be good to ourselves.
Only when we are young, be good to ourselves, love ourselves well, in our old age, we will not be unhappy in our old age because of bad health, or eat too much suffering.
In fact, life is like this, only we learn to be good to ourselves, only we love ourselves, in our old age, we have the strength to live well, but also have the strength to be good to ourselves, so that we always feel happy and beautiful.
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