Wen 丨 Mu Lian Mama, original content
After a man and a woman get married, many times it is not just a small family of two, or a family of three, but the relationship with the in-laws is also very delicate.
Especially mother-in-law, some mothers-in-law see that their sons are good to their daughters-in-law, they will be jealous, and feel that their sons who have worked hard to raise are towards "outsiders"; and if the husband listens to the mother-in-law in everything, he will naturally attract the dissatisfaction of his wife, thinking that the husband is a "mother treasure man".
Moreover, as a mother and daughter-in-law, we will consider the same question: in the hearts of sons or husbands, who is more important, between herself and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
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"I fell into the water with your mother, who do you save first"? For this question, presumably many boys have been asked, although it seems to be a very brainless question, but for the choice of the two, it is really difficult to give an answer.
Some straight men will answer: "Of course save my mother", because my mother gave birth to me and raised me, how difficult it is, such an answer seems to be very filial, but it is very likely to provoke the girlfriend to be unhappy.
In the eyes of many men, such a question is very boring and meaningless, after all, the probability of such an assumption happening in real life is too small, and even think that the girl who asks such a question is "nothing to find" and "unreasonable trouble".
But in fact, does such a problem really not exist? No! In fact, behind the essence of this problem is the "mother-in-law contradiction", to put it bluntly, this problem is extended to "I quarrel with your mother, who do you help"?
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1) When two people have a conflict, the husband prefers whom
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been a combination of "contradictions" since ancient times, and there are very few mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have no conflict, and even a small matter will make each other "remember revenge".
When the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law have a conflict, the husband's attitude is very important, if the husband hears that there is a contradiction between the mother and the daughter-in-law, indiscriminately, he accuses the daughter-in-law of not, thinking that his mother is right about everything, then there is no doubt that the husband's heart is definitely more important than the mother.
2) Whose taste is preferred when eating
The choice of taste during meals seems to be a small thing, but you can see your husband's thoughts. If the tastes of the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are different, and the husband will be biased towards the taste of the mother every time he cooks, then it means that in the mind of this man, the mother will always be more important than the daughter-in-law.
I would rather my daughter-in-law be wronged than let my mother suffer losses, although such a man is filial piety, but as a husband is unqualified.
3) Whose opinions are more likely to be listened to in raising children
In terms of raising children, there are always various differences between the elderly and young parents, the elderly often dot on the children, and the parents will be relatively strict, so the parenting concepts of the two generations are also very different.
When two people have great differences in parenting, it depends on the husband's attitude, if the husband still insists on listening to his mother's advice, then it shows that in his mind, it is more important to kiss his mother.
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Parents are the ones who gave birth to us
To say who in the world is the best for themselves, no matter at any time is their own parents, because only the love of parents is selfless and does not ask for return, so parents are very important to themselves.
The wife is the one who accompanies the second half of her life
Although our parents are very close to us, it is impossible to live with our parents all the time, and for men, the wife is the one who accompanies you throughout your life.
In fact, for men, as long as they are married, the primary identity is the husband, followed by the son, and in a marriage relationship, only when the husband and wife relationship is stable, the family will be more harmonious, and only then will they have the energy to deal with other problems.
Therefore, if a man wants to live a good life, he must properly draw a line with his parents, learn to put the interests of husband and wife first, and do not let his parents participate too much in the life of husband and wife.
Today's topic: Do you think that for men, is the wife important or the mother important?