Dig deep into Hu Ge's past feelings and remarks to see his love performance, is he a good man?

Hu Ge once said in an interview that he may have a hidden love, but he will not hide his marriage. When the paparazzi did not take any clues, he suddenly revealed that he "got married and had a daughter", which can be regarded as fulfilling this "declaration", although the official announcement was late, not only did not collapse the house and lost the powder, but also rose by 700,000 fans.

In fact, he almost had to "collapse". Because as early as August last year, netizens broke the news that Hu Ge had a daughter in marriage, but the rumored heroine at that time was Wang Xiaochen.

After Wang Xiaochen helplessly refuted the rumor on social media that "my marriage is so blocked", it also made everyone think that the news of Hu Ge's marriage and daughter was a rumor.

Now it seems that in response to the ancient saying "there must be a reason for the wind", the news of the hidden marriage and becoming a father is true, but the heroine is wrong.

From this point of view, if it were not for Wang Xiaochen's cover, he would almost have been passively dug out of the hidden marriage and gave birth, instead of his own frank personality who "sent Weibo after receiving the certificate" and took the initiative to officially announce it.

Of course, at this time, at another time, what he said was only his thoughts at that time, and the actual situation was often a different situation, and it was completely understandable that "in order to make the child born smoothly, the good news was hidden and unannounced".

Hu Ge's single character ended, and there were still more netizens who moved and blessed, after all, he urged marriage for many years, and for fans who broke their hearts for his life's events, this is a consummation.

What else is there to say, only blessings.

Although Hu Ge officially announced his marriage and daughter, his wife's information only revealed that he was "not a public figure", and his protection was still tight.

What is the secret? The secret is the information that motivates people to work harder. The Internet has already started reasoning from his assistant, the executive broker.

As a male star with 70 million fans and already a god, the woman is not a recognized goddess, and after the information was dug up, it is not surprising that many people felt that they were not right, so they made some remarks that were not very friendly to women.

This situation when he participated in "The Venus Show" a few years ago, he expected that he said that being his girlfriend would have to bear some additional pressure, which she did not need to bear, just because it was him.

So this belated official announcement is also a kind of protection he is trying his best to provide.

In fact, Hu Ge never hesitates to talk about his thoughts on feelings in interview shows, and from his speeches, you can roughly see his performance in love. In fact, the male god is very grounded.

Start by "trying to get the other person to take the initiative"

Hu Ge's physique is still very magical, in fact, there are many girlfriends and girls who have been rumored by him, but he has always given the impression of a golden single man.

I don't see which girl he has been particularly enthusiastic and affectionate, and the most popular CP may still be "Hu or not Huo".

As everyone knows, he is actually a little "scheming" in love.

In an interview, the host asked Hu Ge whether he would take the initiative to attack when he met someone with feelings, or whether he would remain cold and passively be chased. His answer turned out to be "I'll use my methods to get her to take the initiative."

He said that he wants face more and rarely takes the initiative to attack, but he will make the other party feel that he is interesting to her, so that the other party takes the initiative to pursue him.

If you meet someone who also "wants face", this fate should end here.

It is estimated that it did not happen rarely, and the other party felt that he was crazy to release the signal that he couldn't wait for the following, a messy situation.

When Venus said that he made a mess of people, he did not shy away from giving a direct affirmative answer "yes". This is also thanks to him, thanks to him first confessing that he is that mentality, but if you change someone, you don't know whether it is sullen, shy, and want face, you have to ask the last sentence "why not marry".

"Numbness" when in love?

Hu Ge once said that after acting in too many emotional dramas, falling in love with different actresses in each play, saying different lines to express emotions, after a long time, "this aspect seems to be numb", and when saying something to a girl in life, you will feel that "I seem to be saying lines", and the feeling is not from the heart.

However, two public relationships are exceptions:

One is "love and hate early", and Xue Jianing's sibling love, after all, there were not many love scenes performed by Hu Ge at that time.

When Hu Ge and Xue Jianing fell in love in 2006, when Hu Ge had just had "Immortal Sword One", a new popular student. Xue Jianing has already made a name for herself from "Pink Girl", and her career is just right.

Whenever they mention this relationship, they always talk about Hu Ge's major car accident and his career was forced to pause, and Xue Jianing pushed off some work in order to take care of Hu Ge, sacrificing his career for love.

This made their breakup in 2009 even more regrettable. survived the trough, but failed to share the prosperity.

Later, Hu Ge became popular again from the "Langya List", and the media reporters did not forget their ancient love history, but when Xue Jianing was asked about Hu Ge, she just said lightly, "He is very, very hot now, I don't want to participate in this topic."

When Hu Ge talked about Xue Jianing, he sincerely said that "she is really good".

After the breakup, they all maintained decency, did not say much, and paid attention to proportion. They are really good people.

As for their state of getting along, perhaps some clues can be found in another interview with Hu Ge.

Once when talking about sibling love, Hu Ge said that "it is equivalent to finding another mother", although it is euphemism-based to the girl's motherhood, but the word "control" is still used later. And he still wants "the dignity of a so-called man."

Although the expression is tactful and subtle, it should also have a sense of picture, right? Many couples' run-in period may be in this state, but they have not survived it after all.

Another exception is with Jiang Shuying.

The reason why it is exceptional is because the relationship between the two happened when they filmed "Whirlwind Eleven" together. Hu Ge said at the time that it was the best emotional scene he had filmed in those years, because "no matter how good the performance is, it is not as good as showing true feelings."

That is to say, that time he was in real love in the play.

Everyone who has seen the drama has also seen it, and those who have not seen the drama can feel it from the news of the exposure of the romance.

Sweet feeding at the airport, forgetting to board the plane so that the airport broadcast to find someone, and was photographed kissing on the side of the street, it can be seen that they were also in love to the point of selflessness, and the male god was also mortal in love.

It's just that after the relationship was exposed, the two should have had a little unpleasantness, so that Hu Ge was drunk and sent four Weibo messages in response to the rumors, and the summary was "loved, divided".

However, he wants to terminate the contract with the agent for a while, and say "love the she I know" for a while, which inevitably makes people think about wrong and have more speculations that are not favorable to the woman.

Later, Hu Ge probably sobered up and figured out the reason, only then deleted the front and re-posted a long article in response to his previous wave of confusing operations, and confessed: "Xiaojiang, is a silly girl, she said she likes my silly, then I will like her stupidly." ”

Official announcement of romance.

Only, soon it was separated.

These two relationships exposed to people, one started early, and one had visible investment, which is not "numb" as he said.

Others who don't know the situation, just believe him.

"Consider the big picture" when making decisions

Talking about failed relationships in the past, many online remarks point to the fact that Hu Ge's mother does not agree, and Hu Ge is a "mom boy" who listens to his mother, so he can only break up.

When Lu Yu had an appointment, Lu Yu also asked Hu Ge, "If your mother doesn't like this girl, you won't marry her, right?" ”

Hu Ge was silent for a while, and Lu Yu answered in the affirmative, and then Hu Ge also acquiesced.

Lu Yu's side expressed a desperate view for love, but Hu Ge firmly said that he would not, "Because I still have to take care of the overall situation." ”

It can be seen that he will also have his own grasp of the rhythm and direction of his feelings and the things determined by fate. Not a "love brain" that careless.

However, considering the opinion of the mother, it is not the same as "mom boy".

In itself, his mother was diagnosed with cancer when he was still a child, and under the premise of fighting cancer for many years, such a mother-child relationship must have different sensitivities from healthy ordinary mothers and children, not so much Ma Bao, but filial piety.

"parents, partners, children, themselves" has their own order in everyone's mind, and there is no standard answer. Mango TV's previous broadcast of "My Girl" has focused on this issue.

In Hu Ge's heart, parents should be at the forefront.

He once said his views on family affection and love, "Family affection is like water, love is like wine, we need to live on water, wine can give you instantaneous, short-term pleasure." ”

Moreover, when talking about several relationships that were separated by his mother in several rumors, Hu Ge did not vaguely say anything, and talked about the core reason.

For example, when talking about the breakup with Xue Jianing, he talked about his psychological lack of confidence, and then "She is older than me, she will have some other pressure, and I can't give her the life she wants." ”

And broke up with Jiang Shuying because of excessive attention, and he "lacked some responsibility" as a boyfriend at the time.

In the final analysis, it was they themselves who had problems with each other, so that he either wanted to run away or wanted to escape.

Finally, at the age of forty, he found a suitable person, got married and had children, and did not escape his "control". He once seriously analyzed how many daughters-in-law he would find if he was forty years old, and first denied that the estimate of being older than himself and small could be relaxed to ten years old from the perspective of fertility. Judging from the revelations, there is basically no derailment.

Therefore, don't say what is unworthy, Hu Ge in love is not an impulsive person, can choose to get married and have children, naturally the timing is right, he considers the right thing.

Everything was best arranged.

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