Someone is talking about "dead husband literature" - I saw a recommended story on the Internet: "Osmanthus Lane".
There are novels and movies, and the plot is much the same.
The fishermen's daughter Gao Qihong, whose father died and her brother died, became an orphan, and with the fierce strength of her own feet, she had a pair of three-inch golden lotuses.
She had a hazy first love, but with a pair of small feet, she successfully married into the rich.
A few years after marriage, her husband died, and she took her son and became the head of the rich family - and has lived a life of doing whatever she wants.
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Her first lover at this stage was a female actor who played a male role.
One full moon night, her two servants took the little young master to play Xiao for fun, and after waking her up, she was furious and asked the monk to beat her son: Huichi Shouxiao was less than a year old, you led him to play the flute for fun, and when he grew up in the future, you didn't take him to gamble and prostitute!
(At this stage, she often beat her son in the name of disciplining him, and the scolding was: Your grandfather and your uncle are so bitter, you are not good at studying...) )
Until an elder said that her husband's childhood was a life, and his fate should be premature.
She let go of her knots, invited the drama team, and sang the drama lively.
At the end of the song, she left the female actor who played the male role behind.
There is a scene like this: the female dramatists put on makeup for her, and the son said: "The young grandmother is really beautiful, if I were a man, I really want to-" "Want to be greedy!" The female dramatist gently twisted the red hand.
But Culling did not indulge in love.
When she learned that the uncle had taken her son away and was ready to fight with her for delivery, she immediately sent the female dramatists away and began to fight.
Second, after the death of uncle, Tuohong received uncle's smoking equipment, and brought it back by the way... Uncle Man.
Really, it turned out to be the male servant who waited for uncle to smoke.
(Women always smoke second-hand smoke).
The male servant thought that if he had entered the woman's way, he would enter the woman's heart, so he began to be arrogant and show off his private feelings to people.
What a red figure, he immediately framed the male servant and put the male servant in prison.
Poor him, when he was taken away, he didn't know what was going on and asked For Help.
Third, Culling red dealt with the evil seed of the male servant - giving away the daughter who gave birth.
Some slaves in the family dared to talk about her, and she immediately sold these slaves into a family famous for torturing and beating slaves.
Everyone else was immediately silenced.
And there is a Yahuan who has been serving her closely, loyal, she married this Yahuan to a merchant to fill in the house, Yahuan is grateful to her, and vows to follow her to the death.
Fourth, in order to avoid the competition between her uncles and the birth, she entrusted her son to send her son to study abroad.
More than ten years later, after his son returned, he was very filial and respectful to her.
But when Chinese men get older, they can't help but get married.
She married a daughter-in-law to her son, because she saw that her daughter-in-law was not pleasing to the eye, she abused her daughter-in-law, and finally forced her son to divorce his wife, and she was happy.
Five, didn't she have a hazy love affair when she was younger?
She found an opportunity to see her first love again, well, her heart was good.
……
This is really a story of a big victory, and the husband died and got everything.
After her husband's death, everyone around her, whether male or female, the son of the drama, the male servant and the daughter-in-law, were serving her, and those who obeyed her were dying.
This story vaguely tells us a bloody truth - that is, only the more thoroughly a woman throws virtue, the more she can get happiness, and the higher the possibility of getting happiness.
It is as long as you think about yourself, don't care if others are happy or not.
The heroine Gao Quehong died from her father, so she did not suffer much from the poison of patriarchal society, such as what "women should ...", "brother is the root of our family, you should be in the future...", did not become "Virgin" or "Voldemort".
She is more like a naturally nurtured woman, in her heart, there is not so much big truth, and what kind of shackles a woman should be, only the instinct and natural wisdom of being a human being.
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Just like when lionesses need to mate, raise male lions, and when they don't need to, they drive them away.
When strange male lions appear in the territory, they will bite the young lioness so that they can mate with the lioness, because the lioness needs offspring, and the lionesses work together to avoid this from happening.
When there are two male lions in the lion group, they will bite each other's children to ensure their own status, and in order to protect their cubs, the lioness separately lures the two male lions to mate with herself, so as to confuse their cognition and keep their cubs (in the heart of this lioness, there is no bullshit loyalty, these two male lions are just a borrowing tool, the important thing is that it can have its own children. )
If the heroine wants to be a good woman in the traditional sense, then she cannot abandon her first love and marry into a large family, because a woman cannot be poor and love the rich, but must be loyal. Don't say take the initiative to climb the branches, that is, the prince of the prince wants to marry her, and you can't go if you touch the head to death.
After the husband dies, he cannot have a lover, because he must be loyal!
Clear-headed, there is no negative mentality that ordinary women get by, but when the uncle competes with her for family property, he bravely faces it. This is not in line with the virtues of women, women should be weak and cannot be aggressive.
In the face of the lover who is dragging his legs, he has no love brain at all, and he solves the lover with a knife in his hand and sends his illegitimate daughter away.
What are the virtues of traditional women? Whoever you are, you have to listen to whomever you are, confess your fate, even if your man wants you to go out and sell yourself to support him, you must do it without complaint or regret.
As a mother, society's requirements for women are even more stringent, men can abandon their wives and children anytime and anywhere, what about women? You can't throw away the child unless you die. The heroine should raise this illegitimate daughter, even if it is discovered, the mother and daughter are soaked in the pig cage and lit a sky lamp. This is a good mother.
The means of dealing with people under the broken mouth are also too poisonous and unkind. But for a family member, the distinction between reward and punishment is the most important, listen to my benefits, dare to spoil my things, and die.
As for the end, she abused her daughter-in-law and forced her son to divorce his wife, traditional society is quite tolerant of this kind of thing. Because it is so common, it is nothing more than the last madness and viciousness of a woman who has been suppressed for a lifetime.
The reason why men are tolerant is that it is still women who are suffering, it is not their business, they are happy to watch the play.
Many people hate "bad people", but all the successful people in the world are not good people, and no one can have worldly goodness and succeed at the same time.
In harsh environments, when a bear is approaching, when it is known that it is impossible to run faster than a bear, the only option is to run faster than a companion
- If you were to ask, wouldn't anyone run faster than a bear? Yes, no.
It's cruel isn't it? Yes, but realistically!