Isn't marriage just two people working together to live? In this case, it should not be two people running a home together, whether it is to earn money or do housework, it should be borne by two people together

Isn't marriage just two people working together to live? Since this is the case, it should not be two people running a family together, whether it is to earn money or do housework, it should be borne by two people together, but my marriage seems to have just added a burden, money I earn myself, but also to help him pay back gambling debts, housework I do by myself, he eats every day is lying on the sofa to play with the mobile phone, children and children do not care, even where the home broom is placed he may not be able to find it, no matter any holiday, don't think about the gift, even a happy holiday is saved, Do you say that such a couple's life really makes sense? #夫妻相处, what is the most afraid of #