The really powerful people are excellent themselves in the "silent mode", and when they are born into middle age, the most advanced way of living is a "quiet" word.
People have a calm breath, elegant and self-respecting, no dispute, no attachment, no complaints, focus on themselves, transparent and calm people, quiet and indifferent life, quiet people, their own power!
In this world, the most powerful force is silent, the heavens and the earth are speechless, feeding all things; the father's love is wordless, as tall as a mountain; life is middle-aged, and the still water is deep.
Really powerful people can make their mouths "quiet".
You never preach your own affairs; others are right and wrong, and you don't talk about them.
When proud, not speaking nonsense is a kind of kindness, a kind of intelligence, and the best protection for yourself. Life in the world, everyone has their own trajectory to follow, everyone has their own joy and sorrow, human sorrow and joy are not connected, your joy may be the heart knot of others, the resentment of others.
The people who can hide things in their hearts are the people who have a pattern, the people who can hold their breath, the people who have become big things, and the people who are really smart are often very low-key, and in the low-key implications, they have ushered in one brilliant stage after another.
When frustrated, not losing words is a kind of self-improvement, a kind of cultivation, and more importantly, respect for yourself. Life is really hard, everyone has a difficult scripture, everyone has a difficult song to sing, some people, suffer a little, suffer a little injury, as if the sky has fallen, I wish everyone knew that they were hurt, unhappy.
On the road of life, many times, it is a person's lonely struggle, those crying in the middle of the night, those countless sleepless nights, those panicked days, are all a person's hard shoulders, a person's suffering.
If you have to find someone to complain about everything, and if you have to find someone to talk about your pain, it will only turn yourself into a xianglin sister-in-law in the new era, not only destroying your own will, but also attracting the annoyance of others.
In short, the really powerful people can keep their mouths in the group, keep their hearts alone, and let their mouths calm down.
Really powerful people, less "dazzling" more, let their vanity "quiet" down.
Showing off, is vanity, because of lack, only to show off, because of frivolity, only to show off, people with ability, low-key people, never care to show off their own things to others, too like to show off people, after all, the heart is not strong enough.
Truly mature people, do not bask in their own lives, just calmly live their own lives, they do not want to show off what they have seen, what they have, where they have been, what food they have eaten, do not care that others are stronger than themselves, do not care that they are weaker than others, prefer to let others say that they are stupid, rather than show off their intelligence; prefer to be low-key and uninvolved, rather than sharp; prefer to pretend to be confused, rather than play a little clever.
In real life, some people like to show off their own way, in order to prove their wealth, show their ability, in fact, they do not see the fact that a mountain is higher than a mountain, the really powerful people, is from the heart to recognize their own ability, not humble, not to say, their own power.
In the face of the impetuous interpersonal circle, disdain to show off anything, will not change their own way of life in order to fit in; will not force themselves to be perfect in order to get the approval of others, they will find a quiet corner, do what they like, enjoy the joy of a person, and quietly do what they should do.
The really powerful people are all excellent themselves in "quiet".
This year, who do you know, it doesn't matter at all, who knows you, it doesn't matter, what matters is, who are you?
Connections, in essence, is the equivalent exchange of value, you are excellent people, there will be excellent people to establish interpersonal relationships with you, if you are useless, no one is willing to be friends with you, so, really powerful people, never believe in connections, but work hard to manage themselves, make themselves excellent, and then integrate the circle suitable for themselves.
As the saying goes: If you bloom, the butterflies come; excellent yourself, self-networking.
When people reach middle age, the more they live, the more "widowed", that is, the more they live, the more "quiet", reduce external interference, abandon useless things, clear the past to zero, focus on their own path, when they have enough ability, there will naturally be a different life.
Really powerful people can calm down their circles, and then manage themselves and make themselves more excellent.
A truly powerful person can "calm" his impetuous heart.
Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments" records: "The journey of a husband and a gentleman is to cultivate oneself quietly." ”
This means that the character of a person with both moral integrity and ability relies on inner quietness and concentration to cultivate the body and mind, so that it can be seen that tranquility is through all realms.
Buddha: One thought becomes a Buddha, one thought becomes a demon. A lot of pain in life is not caused by others, but caused by your own mental turmoil, and your mind is not quiet, unclear, can't put it down, and your troubles are constant.
Only when the mind is quiet, can we listen to our own hearts, stay awake, truly understand what others need, what they have, what they should do, have their own thinking ability, and have a calm, comfortable, and happy heart to take a longer life path.
Let the mind calm down, get rid of distractions, do not panic in case of trouble, in order to understand that the most beautiful state of life is quiet, the heart is quiet, in order to enter a kind of "closed door is the deep mountain, reading everywhere pure land" perception, the really powerful people, are able to control their own hearts, be a quiet and healthy person, the heart is as quiet as water, calm, calm in the world.
Looking at the world with meditation, the world is an oasis full of vitality, and living with meditation will suddenly open up everything.
Lao Tzu said, "Return to the root and be quiet, and return to life." "The essence of all things is stillness, and only stillness can return to life."
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