This blogger said very honestly and soberly, my classmates and colleagues fell in love and married foreigners after going abroad, almost the same as her.
Foreign men who fall in love and marry Chinese women do not care about these types: those with better conditions are either older (and most of them have a history of marriage), or they are not good-looking, such as fat, bald, red nose; Young age, handsome and poor conditions, unstable work, unstable income, middle and lower class families, and flowers, alcohol and other bad habits.
In the mainstream concept of white men, white skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes are still the top, so why do they choose Chinese women? Without him, they are virtuous and gentle, loyal, diligent and thrifty, easy to coax, willing to spend money for them, listen to them, in the final analysis, appreciate their "practical value".
My junior high school classmate Xiao Zhou, after studying abroad, got along with a white man, looked handsome, dressed up that called a fashionable, personable, smeared honey on his mouth, coaxed Xiao Zhou around, thinking that he had met true love. Because he was not doing his job and was idle, Xiao Zhou did not spend less money on him, and Xiao Zhou paid for his rent, water, electricity and air conditioning. After talking for a few years, there was no mention of marriage.
There is also a colleague, an only daughter, with a good family, and also talked about white men during studying abroad, why did they divide it later? Because he once overheard a conversation between the white man and his friend, and his friend asked him why he found a stocky Chinese girl? He said that she is an only child, there is money in the family, her parents are the only one of her, willing to subsidize her, and spend money with her without worry. Hehe.
