Wang Xiaofang, who is 78 years old this year, is a retired teacher with 200,000 savings and a monthly pension of more than 4,000, which could have had a happy old age.
However, more than two months ago, she was eating alone at her home when her three children, including two sons and one daughter, suddenly came to her door and forcibly sent her to a nursing home.
At that time, the eldest son said that he asked Wang Xiaofang to go to the nursing home to see the environment, and if he liked it, he would live in it, and if he didn't like it, Wang Xiaofang didn't resist too much.
As a result, as soon as she stepped into the door of the nursing home, the door was about to be locked, she felt that something was wrong, and quickly ran out, but was dragged by her three children and locked up.
Since then, for more than 2 months, Wang Xiaofang has not been able to come out, crying in the nursing home from morning to night, and her eyes are almost blind.
Until a few days ago, a person she knew came to visit another old man, and Wang Xiaofang took the opportunity to write a letter for help, asking the person she knew to bring to her nephew Wang Jianmin.
Wang Jianmin was originally still wondering: In the past, Aunt Wang Xiaofang came to his house every day to chat, why hasn't she come in the past 2 months?
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When he saw the letter, he suddenly realized: he was originally sent to a nursing home and could not get out. Immediately, he rushed to the nursing home and wanted to bring Wang Xiaofang out.
But the staff refused, because the staff said: whoever sent her, who can take her out. Wang Jianmin had to contact Wang Xiaofang's three children again, but was rejected again.
In order to take Wang Xiaofang out, Wang Jianmin had to find the TV station for help, and everyone quickly rushed to the nursing home and saw Wang Xiaofang herself.
As soon as Wang Xiaofang saw her nephew, she held her nephew and cried, and the mediator asked curiously: Is it because she is old and in poor health that she was sent in by her children?
Hearing this, Wang Xiaofang immediately shook her head and denied it: Her body is very good.
Saying that, Wang Xiaofang ran from downstairs to upstairs on the spot, and then ran back to prove that her body was great, and also took out a pen, wrote, and counted, proving that her mind was also clear.
Since Wang Xiaofang's body and mind are fine, she can move freely, she can take care of herself in life, and she has her own house, why do the children have to send her in?
Wang Xiaofang cried and said: Because her children are greedy for her money. After sending her in, he deleted all the contact information of her relatives and friends on her mobile phone and gave her a new mobile phone card.
She really doesn't want to live here, because life here is too monotonous, and she can only play cards with other old people every day except for eating and sleeping.
She doesn't like to play cards, she only likes to sing and dance, play waist drums... Therefore, the days here made her feel very miserable and wanted to go out and live freely.
In order to persuade Wang Xiaofang's children, Wang Jianmin took everyone to the home of Wang Xiaofang's youngest son, who readily admitted that he and his brothers and sisters sent his mother over because his mother spent money indiscriminately.
It turned out that 2 years ago, Wang Xiaofang began to buy a large number of Baojian products under the introduction of a friend, at that time, Wang Xiaofang's husband had diabetes and had to take hospital medicine every day.
However, Wang Xiaofang did not let her husband eat in the hospital, but went to eat the treasure products she purchased, eating three times a day, 5 pills at a time, and not long after, her husband died.
After the children learned about it, they all blamed Wang Xiaofang and said: The death of his father must be because he ate those bought by Wang Xiaofang, so that Wang Xiaofang would not spend money on messy things in the future.
Wang Xiaofang nodded and agreed out of self-blame at that time: Never buy it again in the future, and she will give her hand to duo if she buys it again. The three children did not pursue too much.
It's just that since that day, Wang Xiaofang has changed like a person, leaving early and returning late every day, mysterious, and putting 2 locks on her room to prevent her children from entering her room.
Until more than 2 months ago, the more the three children thought about it, the more strange they became, in order to find out the facts, they ran to Wang Xiaofang's house together and forcibly entered her room to check.
As a result, in the clothes of Wang Xiaofang's wardrobe, under the bed, and inside the quilt, a large number of various treasure products were found.
The three children took Wang Xiaofang's passbook and salary card in a fit of anger, temporarily kept it, and then sent Wang Xiaofang to a nursing home.
Saying that, Wang Xiaofang's daughter took it out for everyone to see, a lot, casually opened a box, all worth more than 1,000, but there was not even a batch number, and there was solid drink written on it.
It seems that Wang Xiaofang was indeed pitted by friends, but Wang Jianmin defended Wang Xiaofang and asked everyone:
She lived to be 78 years old now, so she bought this bunch of things, is it much? What's more, she didn't ask her children for money, she spent her own savings.
Wang Xiaofang's other relatives also said dissatisfied: Since the death of her husband, Wang Xiaofang has been living alone, with a monthly pension of more than 4,000, she can buy whatever she wants, and has nothing to do with her children, it is the children who want her money to send her to a nursing home.
The daughter retorted that they were not greedy for their mother's money, but they were afraid that her mother's indiscriminate eating would affect her health.
In addition, although the three brothers and sisters did take their mother's salary card and passbook, they only kept it and did not use their mother's money arbitrarily.
In order to confirm her words, her daughter followed her sister-in-law to visit Wang Xiaofang, and as a result, as soon as Wang Xiaofang saw her daughter and daughter-in-law, she was angry and unwilling to say a word.
Seeing her mother's attitude, the daughter told everyone aggrievedly: she had come to see her mother several times, and every time her mother would scold her, and gradually, she would not come.
The eldest daughter-in-law also told everyone dissatisfied: As a daughter-in-law, she also came to see her once, but Wang Xiaofang also scolded her, and she gambled that she never came again.
In the eyes of their daughter and eldest daughter-in-law: they sent Wang Xiaofang in for Wang Xiaofang's consideration, but Wang Xiaofang did not understand them, which made them very uncomfortable.
Wang Xiaofang did not say a word from beginning to end, until her daughter and eldest daughter-in-law left, and then she choked up and explained: Although she wanted to go out, she did nothing wrong and was unwilling to beg her children in a low voice.
Finally, Wang Xiaofang thought of her younger son, who was her most beloved, and after retirement, she also took the initiative to transfer her house to her younger son.
In order to go out, she tearfully wrote a letter to her youngest son, in which she promised that she would never spend money indiscriminately in the future. Ask the mediator to bring the letter to the younger son, hoping that the younger son will pick her up.
Everyone immediately sent the letter to the youngest son's home, but after the youngest son read the letter, he refused to let Wang Xiaofang come out, and said with a straight face: I don't believe my mother, she will spend money indiscriminately after she comes out.
Wang Xiaofang's daughter was also present, and she said helplessly: The mother is just pretending to be pitiful, as long as it comes out, those people will continue to ask the mother to recommend those things, and the mother will definitely not be able to control it and continue to buy.
Seeing that the attitude of the youngest son and daughter is very firm, they do not approve of Wang Xiaofang going home, and everyone can only go to Wang Xiaofang's eldest son to negotiate again.
The eldest son's home is very close to the nursing home where Wang Xiaofang lives, less than 200 meters away, and he also said straight to the point: For the sake of his mother, he does not want his mother to come back.
Later, the eldest son also told everyone: when his father was young, he worked outside the home all year round, and he only came back once a year, and they had never felt his father's love.
When her mother was young, she was also busy with work all day, and in order to work better, she ate and stayed at school alone, and never took care of their three siblings.
All three siblings were raised by their grandmother, and now that their grandmother is gone, their father is gone, and they are left with only one mother.
They are very eager for maternal love, so, for the sake of their mother's physical health, they can't let their mother come back, they have food and drink in a nursing home, and they can live carefree and can live many more years.
Since none of the three children agreed to let Wang Xiaofang return, Wang Jianmin, as a nephew, had no choice but to ask the mediator to let the children visit Wang Xiaofang more often.
Early the next morning, Wang Xiaofang's daughter and eldest daughter-in-law came to negotiate again, and after persuasion from the mediator, they promised to come over once a week to accompany Wang Xiaofang.
Wang Xiaofang had no choice, so she reluctantly agreed to continue living inside, and her daughter and eldest daughter-in-law happily hugged her.