Names are the most unique label for each student, and young parents nowadays always get caught up in the struggle when choosing names for their children that they want to reflect their expectations and appear cultured.
Before students enter school, they do not feel too much about their own name, thinking that this is just a title, and parents usually give their children another nickname, so the big name is not very common.
But school is different, many students in a class, the first time the teacher sees the roster, it determines the first impression of different students, and then the students have a deep thought about their name for the first time.
The female college student was misunderstood by the teacher for four years, and wanted to change her name but her parents did not let it: I thought about it for half a year
Perhaps in the eyes of teachers, the name is just a convenient pronoun, and in the eyes of parents, naming is a very particular thing, pinning on all their good visions for their children.
However, when parents choose names, they cannot ask for students' opinions, everything is decided according to their own preferences, but when students grow up and study in school, individual students will have opinions on their own names.
There are even some students, crying and shouting that they hope that their parents can bring them to change their names, not because they are ignorant, but because they have suffered too many grievances because of their names when they study at school.
For example, this female classmate is now in college, but she doesn't like her name very much, just because her surname is Xiong, her parents named it "Chumo", Chuxue, Shuimo, originally a very meaningful name.
But helplessly, the broadcast of "Bear Haunted" made this classmate be teased by other students since junior high school, and he also cried and told his parents that he wanted to change his name.
But parents think that this is just a joke between children, and they do not take it seriously, in fact, in the hearts of female classmates, these ridicules have brought her deep hurt, and she is still sensitive and inferior until college.
There are also some parents, more avant-garde, according to tradition, children have the father's surname, but in order to express their love for their mother, parents usually choose to integrate the surnames of both people into the student's name.
If the integration is good, the name can also have both meaning and appear very "tall", if the integration is not good, it will become the "topic king" in the class.
For example, this classmate, his father's surname is Wu, and his mother's surname is Li, so he named his child "Wu Li Trouble", which was interesting when he was a child, but after going to school, it was not only easy to be nicknamed by classmates.
Names mean a lot to students, and strange names can add a lot of trouble to study life
It will also affect learning, because the name is too special, in order not to affect classroom discipline, the teacher will deliberately avoid asking her questions during class.
I don't know if parents are unintentional or deliberate, but the author suggests from the bottom of my heart that parents should not give students strange names, which can easily cause students' inferiority and sensitive personality.
Especially in primary and secondary schools, if students are introverted, they will think that other students give them nicknames, which is a bully and insult, but college students are different.
Today's college students are a high-quality group, and they will not say anything about other people's names, at most, they will give a nickname to a friend who has a good relationship, which is also a manifestation of cordiality.
A female classmate shared the story of being misunderstood by a university teacher for four years because of her name. In today's university classrooms, in order to facilitate communication between teachers and students and improve efficiency, teachers will form a class group in the first class.
In order to standardize and statisticalize, the teacher will ask all students to change the remarks to their real names, and when the second lesson comes, the teacher accidentally finds that there is a female classmate who has not modified the remarks.
So he @ this classmate in the class group: Please modify your group business card, and the classmate replied helplessly: Teacher, I changed it.
The teacher said in surprise: Qu La La is your real name? The student reluctantly admitted and took a picture of his ID card to prove his innocence.
Students with the surname Qu are rare, it turns out that this classmate is a Miao, but he was also nicknamed by classmates since he was a child, what grievances, Qu Baba, and even looked away, called himself "fart".
She was also helpless, and when she was a child, she also thought about changing her name, but her parents said: We thought about this name for half a year, and only then did we think of such a cute name, which must not be changed.
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But when it came to college, it was much better, and her classmates thought her name was cute and called her la la affectionately, which was a bit presumptuous in the ears of classmates who didn't know her.
Even worse is still to come, because every new class will be misunderstood like this, causing all the teachers to be the first to remember her, so she will be named in almost every class for four years, even if she does not order, the teacher likes to call her to answer questions.
This is not a good thing for college students, it means that a class can not escape, otherwise the first to be discovered, although helpless, but academic performance is guaranteed, perhaps this result, is also expected by parents.
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