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"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort

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"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort
"After listening to your comfort, I feel much more uncomfortable" | go home and chat for the New Year, remember to avoid invalid comfort

Final words

Readers often wonder if there are some magical sentences in psychological counseling that can instantly appease them.

I understand everyone's curiosity, after all, counseling sounds a lot like another form of "comforting" and "being comforted."

But what I want to say is: there is no such thing as a second to appease the other person.

Most of the moments of psychological counseling are the client through narration to integrate and sort out his own experience, and what the counselor has to do is listen, accompany, guide, and respond.

There is a point in narrative therapy called "believing that everyone is an expert in solving their own problems."

I think good comfort is built on that.

Today's comics are not to criticize everyone for not making any mistakes when comforting, and to strictly follow the method, but to convey this concept to everyone:

Don't treat someone in need of comfort as a problem that needs to be solved urgently;

Think of those in need of comfort as a mystery that slowly unfolds.

In this way, no matter what you say or do, you can naturally appease the other person.

Source: CCTV