She is the intelligent and shrewd Sheng Rulan of "Do You Know If It Should Be Green Fat Red Thin";
is the bold and atmospheric Concubine Ying in "The Legend of Ruyi";
is also the girly female student Lin Beixing in "Twinkle and Twinkle", she is 30-year-old actress Zhang Jianing.
Hate her biological father for 20 years, is a very filial daughter, desperately earns money to improve the life of her family, buys a big house for her mother, but matches her mother and stepfather to remarry.
said that her stepfather was her own father, and her uncle Zhang Xiaolong treated her as her own daughter.
She is afraid of marriage and does not want to fall in love: I am fine alone, I have to take care of two families when I get married, what about my career?
If my husband treats me badly after I get married, I have a child and my figure becomes bad, or if I have a child and my job is not good, will he continue to love me?
This is the big truth she said in the interview, why is she so afraid of getting married, but she matched her mother's second marriage? It all starts with her native family.
01 When he was very young, his biological father abandoned him and his mother and established another family
Zhang Jianing was born in Jilin in 1989, her original name was Wang Da, and she took her father's surname.
When she was very young, her parents left because of emotional discord, and soon after, her biological father remarried in another city and gave birth to her own child, completely forgetting her biological daughter, and never asked.
Zhang Jianing has no impression of her father, seeing that others are accompanied by her father, and she and her mother depend on each other, she cried and asked her mother, where is her father? Why not come and see us?
My mother hugged her: "Child, with your mother accompanying you, your mother will not let you be wronged."
Since then, her mother has changed her name and followed her mother's surname, that is, to be a cow and a horse, and to train her daughter to become a talent.
In addition to her mother, the one who hurts her the most is her uncle, who often held her when she was a child, reluctant to let go, and often bought her snacks.
Not only was he kind to her, but he was also very strict with her, and when she was in high school, her uncle was at school to see if she had worked hard.
The moment he saw her in the window, his uncle became angry, and he saw Zhang Jianing secretly playing with his mobile phone under the seat.
As soon as the class started, he escorted Zhang Jianing to his car and asked her, why don't you listen to the class and play with your mobile phone?
Zhang Jianing pretended to be stupid, did not admit it, thought that his uncle did not know, and said: "There is no fun."
Uncle Zhang Xiaolong was angry, a big slap exhaled, hit Zhang Jianing's eyes flashed gold stars, tears flowed down his eyes.
Zhang Xiaolong was not angry that she played with her mobile phone, but that she lied, and no matter what, this child will not be saved in the future.
In fact, it was hit on his niece's face, hurting in his uncle's heart, he had long regarded Zhang Jianing as his own daughter and strictly educated.
Later, Zhang Jianing also understood her uncle, it was for her good, and her heart was full of gratitude.
02 Mom is very hard, she hated her biological father for 20 years
Her mother turned out to be a vocal teacher, and in order to earn more money and give her children better living conditions, she quit her iron rice bowl and went to the sea to do business.
When you start a business as a boss, the employees are themselves, and the boss is also themselves, but they are just setting up stalls to do a small business, selling fruits in summer and seasonal goods in winter.
They also have to be driven by the urban management frequently, and they hide everywhere, although they earn a little more money, but every penny is hard money.
But Zhang Jianing's mother is a stubborn woman, in order to make more money, she ran to Haikou to work as a tour guide, so as not to let her daughter lose at the starting line, and sent her daughter to an expensive private school.
After having some capital, I borrowed some money and rented a small shop.
The warehouse, kitchen, living room, and bedroom are all together, and the expensive living expenses still cannot sustain the cost of the daughter's private school.
Zhang Jianing's mother opened another dumpling shop to sell Northeast dumplings, and she couldn't wait to rest 24 hours a day.
Overwork, overload paying, no matter how hard and tired you are, never say a word, uncomfortable, endure it and pass, never dare to see a doctor, and never complain.
For her daughter, she gave everything, Zhang Jianing admired her mother very much, thinking that her mother was ironclad.
One day, she came home from vacation and saw her mother's face was very bad, she was a 14-year-old child, she was also sensible, and knew her mother's hard work.
Hurriedly asked: "Mom! Where are you uncomfortable? Let's go to the hospital. ”
Mom smiled bitterly and said: "It's okay, just take a break"
Seeing her mother covering her stomach and showing a painful expression, Zhang Jianing couldn't sit still, and she said, "Let's go to the hospital and take a look."
At Zhang Jianing's strong request, her mother agreed to see a doctor, because she also found that something was wrong, and her belly seemed to be a little bigger.
Examined in the hospital, it turned out that a tumor had grown in the stomach, which was already the size of a bowl.
Her own uncle learned of the situation and hurriedly took her sister to Beijing for surgery, and at that time, it was almost the New Year, and they hid from Zhang Jianing and told her nothing.
Zhang Jianing stayed alone in Haikou, went to school by himself, went home to cook by himself, and it was about to celebrate the New Year, and the sensible Zhang Jianing bought New Year goods by himself and waited for his mother to return.
Her mother's operation was successful, and after the operation, she was already 30 years old, and she said that she would return to Haikou for anything, and she couldn't rest assured of her daughter.
Zhang Jianing's own uncle accompanied her sister back to Haikou, and the moment she saw her mother, Zhang Jianing cried.
She said to her mother: "Mom, I don't want you to work so hard, I want to grow up quickly, make a lot of money, buy you a big house, and let you enjoy happiness." ”
Seeing her sensible daughter, Zhang Jianing's mother was also very pleased, at this time, how Zhang Jianing hoped that her biological father would come to see her mother and comfort her mother.
However, her biological father disappeared from her world and has not appeared since divorcing her mother, and at this time, she is full of resentment towards her biological father.
Not only divorced her mother, but even her biological daughter was abandoned, and she couldn't understand why her father was so desperate.
Later, she heard that her father had remarried and had a son, which was very happy, and she felt that her father was far away and a stranger.
She is even more resentful of her father, she does not have the word father in her noun, and whoever wants to precede her father in front of him, she is anxious with whom.
03 Her mother and uncle touched her for her dedication
At this time, her own uncle Zhang Xiaolong also took pity on his niece, and he wanted to help her and bring her to Beijing.
Zhang Xiaolong may not be familiar to everyone, he is the teacher of Chinese opera, and Dr. Wen in the TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan" is played by him.
At that time, Zhang Jianing's mother had just finished surgery and needed to be recuperated, and at her brother's in Beijing, Zhang Jianing could not be taken care of without an adult by her side.
Zhang Xiaolong took Zhang Jianing with him and took care of her by the way, and he asked his niece, what are you going to learn in the future? What school to go to?
Zhang Jia Ningbo was not shocked: "Take a step to see a step, didn't think about what to learn?" ”
In this case, her uncle Zhang Xiaolong directly arranged for her and suggested that she learn acting and engage in artistic work.
Zhang Jianing heard that it is easy to find a job in art work, and if you do well, you can become a star, and make money quickly, so she immediately agreed.
Zhang Xiaolong asked her to apply for the Central Academy of Drama and engage in performing arts in the future.
Who does not want their daughter to have a bright future, Zhang Jianing's mother also fully supports her daughter, although art school, tuition is expensive, but for the sake of her daughter, Zhang Jianing's mother did not hesitate.
Sold the tourist car in Haikou, the rented storefront, with all the savings, accompanied my daughter, Beijing rent is expensive, living expenses are high.
She only rented a small house of less than 20 square meters, and the bed was set up in the door, a small table and some sundries, and the room was full.
Zhang Xiaolong couldn't bear to see them so difficult, wanted to help their mother and daughter, was rejected by Zhang Xiaolong's mother, he has already helped a lot, she doesn't want to owe favors anymore, she can't afford it.
In this way, when the rent expired, they had to find a cheap house to rent.
They are this economic condition, and they can only survive slowly
Zhang Jianing is also very sensible, studying carefully, she is determined to earn a lot of money in the future and repay her mother's kindness to her.
After her hard work, she was finally admitted to Chinese opera, and her mother and uncle were also very gratified.
No, on university campuses, living conditions are different, some students like to compare, those students wear designer clothes, buy beautiful clothes, and expensive bags.
Zhang Jianing also envies other classmates, she also loves beauty, she also wants to dress herself, and she also wants to buy a brand-name bag, but her wallet is only living expenses.
04 My uncle treated her as my own daughter, and taught her stepfather to pursue her own mother
Since then, she has not compared or envied others, and she has no pants to wear, so she bought a pair of 30 yuan pants at the stall, and wore them for 4 years.
After graduation, he also wanted to be a teacher like his uncle, but it was easy to talk about, and she took over filming in her sophomore year.
I didn't dare to spend money indiscriminately, sent all the money to my mother, wanted my mother to buy a big house, in order to reunite with my mother as soon as possible, she worked especially hard after graduation, and filmed 18 plays in two years.
Finally bought a house for her mother, she knows how to be grateful, her mother sacrificed a lot for her in the past, and now, she has to do more for her mother.
It's just desperate, working hard, making money desperately, overloading work, and almost making her lose her life.
That day, she and her uncle went back to their hometown in Jilin to record the Spring Festival Gala program, and her uncle said to her dissatisfied: "What happened today?" Go back to your hometown to participate in the Spring Festival Gala program, don't even laugh, is that how you behave? ”
Zhang Jianing said: "Uncle, I am very uncomfortable, I want to go to the hospital. ”
My uncle thought that she was losing her temper again, and said to her sternly: "I will have a curtain call later." ”
Zhang Jianing was so uncomfortable, he lifted up the clothes around his waist for his uncle to see, Zhang Xiaolong looked at it, frightened, and sad tears flowed.
I saw that on my niece's waist, the herpes were all connected, dense, and the skin turned blue, like a snake wrapped around the waist.
He took her to the hospital, and after the doctor's examination, he said: "If you come later, it will be life-threatening." ”
In fact, Zhang Jianing's illness was so serious, she herself did not pay attention to it, she did not dare to tell her family, afraid that her family would worry.
I endured pain every day to participate in the performance, returned to the dormitory at night, covered the quilt, shed tears in pain, almost slept all night, and got up again on the second day to participate in the performance.
Really too strong, this time she fell ill, she was out of danger a month later, and since then, many things, she has also seen a lot, slowed down the pace, and even tried to forgive her biological father.
I also pay more attention to my family, filming is more serious, and my efforts are rewarded.
Filming "The Legend of Ruyi" played Ying Guifei, which made people understand her acting skills. The eccentric Sheng Rulan in "Do You Know", in "Twinkle and Twinkle", the 30-year-old plays the girl middle school student Lin Beixing, making people forget her age and call her Lin Beixing.
Her career has also reached the peak, and some people envy her, saying that she relies on her uncle to be popular.
The uncle said the truth: "Girl, you help the uncle, the uncle has not filmed in the past two years." ”
Luck is always given to those who work hard, Zhang Jianing has a successful career, and has not forgotten her mother's happiness.
Several times I wanted to introduce my mother to someone, but my mother couldn't hide it and said: "There are already people, it's elementary school classmates." ”
She was even happier and took the initiative to meet her mother's object to see what kind of person it was.
After meeting, I felt that this prospective stepfather was reliable and compatible with his mother, and wanted him to marry his mother as soon as possible and teach him how to chase his mother.
How to show romance, in the variety show "That Girl in My Family", invite the prospective stepfather.
Tell the stepfather-to-be: "My mother cut her hair, when you come home, you must praise her, she must be happy, my mother is wearing a red dress, you say her clothes look good."
You must propose to her, he proposed to her only happy, the prospective stepfather who does not understand romance, proposed on the spot, moved her mother, and saw the two old people, like young people, hugging sweetly together.
Zhang Jianing was happier than anyone, and also moved the audience and blessed them one after another.
The stepfather is very good to his mother, and his mother has a reliance in his old age, which makes Zhang Jianing particularly happy, and people ask her one after another, when will you find a partner? When to get married?
She was not in a hurry at all, and someone broke out that she was holding hands with a strange man, attending a party, and seemed happy.
After all, such a filial daughter, such a kind girl, people wish her to find her other half as soon as possible and be happy and happy like her mother.
Summary:
Zhang Jianing has not had her father's love since she was a child, and she has not enjoyed her father's love, and her uncle and mother are the ones who love her the most.
Mother has suffered a lot for her, she is a kind daughter who knows how to be grateful and filial, she will definitely be able to overcome her fear of marriage as soon as possible, find someone who loves herself and cherishes herself, and her kindness should be rewarded, don't you say? #2022 Vitality Conference##Entertainment Awards#