Boys are naturally the best to marry in the door, but girls are actually more inclined to marry high in their hearts, and if they are right in the household, they actually feel that they are married low. But whether it is better to marry high or low is really an unsolvable problem.
My second aunt's family has four daughters, the Zhuang family, the second aunt is an old idea, all four daughters are married peasants, all are just like their own family, rooted in the right and serious peasants, loyal and honest, down-to-earth and willing to work, three generations of people who have not taken the wrong path, been in prison, eat, drank and gambled. Including the beautiful and capable third cousin, she was completely able to find a city person with her beauty and intelligence at that time, but she was nipped in the bud by the second aunt.
Now more than twenty years have passed, and time has finally verified the wise decision of the second aunt. Her four daughters have always been the most worry-free compared to other cousins. In today's rural areas, where divorce rates are high and marriages are like jokes, the four cousins have always been very stable. The cousins inherited the hard work and simple ability of the second aunt, and several cousins-in-law did not have a high ambition, but earned money and lived a life steadily, although they were not particularly rich, but they were all small rich and secure, and they lived well. The most blessed is the second aunt, because the door is right, several sons-in-law are not arrogant, they all treat the work of the old husband's family as their own work, and the old man and mother-in-law are also like their own parents, they are sick and pulled to see, and come back today this pull to serve for a few days, tomorrow that pull to serve for a few days, no one dares to say disgusting words. Several cousins have never been looked down upon by their in-laws in their in-laws' house, and they are all people who are in charge of the family as soon as they enter the door. So my mother always said that life should be pragmatic, and I can serve whatever kind of bowl I want, and don't be too ambitious.
But what about a few cousins, you said okay, it's not much better. Girls can't decide to be born in their lives, but they give up the springboard to change classes through marriage, so they continue their mother's old path and are kind and simple rural women all their lives.
I also have a cousin, who is also good-looking and smart, but the family is not good, there are many sisters, and the culture is not high. I knew my uncle and was a teacher, and my family were all intellectuals, because they were college students, so they were poor, but they were very high. My uncle was very satisfied with my cousin's appearance and dexterity, but the family was a little shaken when she did not agree, so my cousin took the initiative to run to my uncle. How could a man refuse an active woman, so he successfully took my uncle and married him. You don't know how much my cousin was wronged after entering his house, and she couldn't even be the master of how much gift money her brother got when he got married. However, because she married into an intellectual family, her aunt has grown a lot of knowledge, dressed with taste and spoke at a level, her son was also trained into a 985 university, her daughter also entered the hospital as a doctor after graduation, her aunt also had a pension, her uncle has not yet retired, and she will also be a pensioner in the future, and her aunt can be regarded as a perfect leap from an authentic peasant.
So, you say girls should marry high or low?