In your relationship, have you ever had such confusion:
Obviously love each other deeply, but always unknowingly separated.
What ignites the fire of love between each other? And what is quietly extinguishing it in secret?
01
Why is it that the more nice I am to you, the less you care?
In fact, breaking up is not because you are not good enough and love enough, but because you do not see the potential crisis in love.
Psychology believes that the pain and shadows that one party in an intimate relationship has suffered will slowly internalize in the subconscious and become real internal psychological characteristics.
When you enter a relationship, you will unconsciously "project" it into the relationship, affecting your cognition and behavior, and subtly destroying your relationship.
This is the potential crisis in love.
The deeper I love, the more I panic, and this doubt and panic penetrate into my whole life without noticing it.
Are you in a "love crisis" without knowing it:
dare not say their feelings, always aggrieved themselves to accommodate each other;
Rely on each other very much, and you can't do anything well without ta;
Or you are particularly afraid of bothering each other and want to make ta relaxed, but ta says that you are very cold...
I always think that it is good to change someone, and the truth is that people who can't see the love crisis clearly, how many objects can not solve the problem.
How can people who are caught in a love crisis, can't see themselves clearly, and constantly experience helplessness and sadness in love, escape the vortex of pain?
02
See your love crisis
in order to harvest good love
There is a question on Zhihu with more than 1400w views: Why do people who have been together for a long time break up inexplicably?
In fact, breakups are not "inexplicable", and all breakups are premeditated for a long time. Those love crises that you ignore will eventually kill your love without you realizing it.
A friend, after regretting the breakup, analyzed his inner emotional needs through the psychological love crisis theory, analyzed his own problems in love, and found out how pity it is to lose his feelings, she said:
Adler once said: Happiness is to find your true self. When you begin to learn to heal and repair yourself through self-awareness, your emotional path will become smoother.
In this world, you are not alone, someone loves you, you deserve to be loved, what could be happier than that?
In order to help you explore yourself, resolve love crises, and harvest happy love, 8 psychology experts jointly developed the "Love Potential Crisis Test":
Starting from the crisis in intimate relationships, 11 types such as excessive control, self-repression, emotional indifference, avoidance problems, and emotional splitting will be summarized
Let your subconscious mind discover what your potential love crisis is and what kind of love crisis you are most likely to encounter
Help you solve the crisis and make your love more harmonious and happy
01丨Your love potential crisis type
02丨The impact of the crisis on your intimate relationships
03丨The cause of the formation of the crisis
04丨Face the crisis squarely and save love advice