In 1930, the literary giant Mao Dun hugged Qin Dejun, who was 3 months pregnant, in his arms and said softly: "I can't stand the yellow-faced mother-in-law at home, when I am 4 years, I save enough 2,000 yuan for divorce fees, I will marry you, before that, this child can't be wanted!" Who would have thought that after 4 years, Mao Dun people would go empty of money, as if they had evaporated in the world.
In Mao Dun's later years, his son asked him if he wanted to write about Qin Dejun in his memoirs. Mao Dun said without hesitation: "No, just if this person has never appeared!"
But if Mao Dun unilaterally denies everything, can he think that this vigorous love between him and Qin Dejun does not exist? Mao Dun seems to have erased everything, but he also lost the right to explain this bitter love.
Qin Dejun, the top 3 women of the Republic of China, has been around 5 celebrities in her life, including middle school language educators, literary giants, high-ranking officials, revolutionary fighters, etc., the most famous of which is the long-lasting sadomasochistic relationship with Mao Dun.
She has overturned many times in her life, but she has ridden the wind and waves and been reborn from the ashes.
In 1949, the leaders of the authorities talked about Qin Dejun's deeds at a welcome meeting and praised her:
"We are old comrades-in-arms, she has a way of working and is willing to work!"
What kind of female hero can get such approval, and why is Qin Dejun called the top 3 strange women in the Republic of China era?
Qin Dejun, born in 1905, participated in the May Fourth Movement as a student representative in 1919, advocating equality between men and women, and women's foot sports. In 1923, he entered Southeast University, founded a newspaper to propagate new ideas, and served as a counselor of the Ministry of Education after the founding of the People's Republic of China.
Compared with her excellent resume, everyone talks about her love life more often. Especially Mao Dun.
1. Accidental conception is closed
In 1920, when Qin Dejun was 15 years old, at a practice meeting, Mu Jibo, editor of "Xinshu Dao" and a scholar in the field of middle school language education, took the opportunity to humiliate her, causing Qin Dejun to become pregnant, and the 15-year-old girl could not imagine, and there was nowhere to complain about wrongs, so she could only commit herself to marrying Mu Jibo.
After marriage, Mu Jibo did not retreat, and bullied a female classmate, and the female classmate committed suicide in shame, these are all afterwords.
Later Qin Dejun recalled:
"We didn't have a moment of joy together, we often quarreled and even fought. Later, we broke down in our relationship, separated in life, and rarely saw each other. ”
2. Two lovers are happy with girlfriends
In 1926, the appearance of Liu Bojian brought a ray of light to Qin Dejun's life, but it soon dimmed, Liu Bojian is a well-known member of our party organization, Liu Bojian sent Qin Dejun to and from school every day, and the two came and went and had feelings.
Unexpectedly, Qin Dejun's best friend, Xi'an Cai Queen Shuzhen snatched love, but Liu Bojian was still pleased with Qin Dejun, this year, Qin Dejun and Mu Jibo did not complete the divorce procedures, and Qin Dejun could only tearfully reject Liu Bojian.
Qin Dejun's autobiography says:
"When my personal happiness was within reach, I endured the pain and let it disappear from between my fingers."
Later, under pressure from all parties, Liu Bojian married Wang Shuzhen, and the relationship ended without success.
3. Sakura Love Love for a lifetime
Qin Dejun, who had no worries, decided to study in Japan, and in 1928, on a ship bound for Japan, the 22-year-old sat on the bow of the ship with her knees hugged, looking at the newly rising moon in the sky. The 32-year-old Mao Dun stood behind her and couldn't help but look at this gorgeous woman.
The first encounter period, the flower before the moon under the sea vow mountain alliance
At this time, the Japanese army said viciously: "What is the relationship between the two of you?"
Before Qin Dejun could open her mouth, Mao Dun's answer surprised her and she blushed shyly.
I only listened to Mao Dun's voice and said, "She is my dearest little wife."
Later, the two opened the chatterbox, and Mao Dun confided to Qin Dejun: "The helplessness and pain of my arranged marriage, I can't talk with my feudal and old-fashioned wife at all, and I went here to avoid the surveillance of my wife at home."
Qin Dejun is a woman in the new era, her marriage is also unhappy, the two are also fallen people in the world, and soon tell each other heartily, know each other.
Photo of Qin Dejun dressed as a woman
Is the truth really as Mao Dun said? In fact, Mao Dun's trip to Japan was to avoid disaster. Although he and his wife at home are the fate of their parents, the two are childhood sweethearts, and they have no guesses, and they gave birth to a man and a girl after marriage.
Although the wife is a woman of the old times, she can learn to read and write for her husband Mao Dun, and read a lot of new school books. Although she can't be said to be a talented woman, she and Mao Dun definitely have a common topic.
But these Mao Dun were silent.
Qin Dejun is an impeccable oriental beauty, and during his studies in Japan, Mao Dun often went to her, and the two ate together, watched movies, and talked about literature.
Night markets, parks, schools, department stores, subways, and cinemas have all left this pair of talented people.
Honeymoon period, sweet talk mirage
Once, Mao Dun burst out of inspiration and wrote a masterpiece "From Guling to Tokyo", he seemed to be no one around, hugged Qin Dejun tightly, and whispered:
"I saw the Norse Goddess of Destiny standing solemnly in front of me, urging and guiding me forward, that Norse Goddess of Destiny is you!"
Although Mao Dun's words have an element of flirting, Qin Dejun has indeed become Mao Dun's interpreter flower to comfort him, enlighten him, and encourage him when he is confused and troubled in Japan.
Gradually, Mao Dun got out of the pessimistic psychological dilemma, and Mao Dun wrote the famous novel "Hong", which is said to have been given by Qin Dejun.
Mao Dun later became the third banner of New China after Lu Xun and Guo Moruo. The Mao Dun Literature Award named after him is a literary award with super high honors in the mainland.
Yu Dafu once lamented: "If China wants to progress, there will be one more writer like Mao Dun."
The "Poplar Salute" in the middle school textbook is also written by Mao Dun.
These are inseparable from his early literary accumulation in Japan.
In particular, there was a goddess beside him, and the two soon lived together, and Qin Dejun took care of Mao Dun in life, helped him copy manuscripts in writing, and provided some writing materials and writing inspiration.
In 1929, Qin Dejun became pregnant, and Mao Dun was very panicked at this time, he did not want the reputation he had accumulated over the years to be ruined, and he persuaded Qin Dejun to kill the child.
The reason is that the child cannot be nameless and has no share, and it is more justified to wait until he returns to China to dissolve the marriage contract with his wife Sun Delan, and then marry and have children.
Qin Dejun, who was immersed in love at the age of 22, agreed, and she firmly believed that Mao Dun would marry her.
Qin Dejun knew that Mao Dun's self-care ability was very poor, and she had just undergone an abortion, and before she could recuperate, she hurriedly returned to Japan to take care of Mao Dun.
The great talent Mao Dun was deeply moved, and said to Qin Dejun affectionately:
"May the days be long, the earth be long, the road of life will be as brilliant as cherry blossoms, and the two of us will love each other and never separate."
Later Qin Dejun's autobiography wrote:
"He, a great writer, was once a character in that mirage. He, and I, swore a mountain alliance under the cherry blossoms, and depended on each other in the country of cherry blossoms. It's just that in the end, everything is a mirage!"
But the good times did not last long, in 1930, Mao Dun and Qin Dejun returned to China, and it happened that Qin Dejun was pregnant for the second time.
Mao Dun originally wanted to discuss with his wife at home what to do, but his wife Sun Delan has been working hard to take care of her mother and children during her own period of leaving home, and she has done everything possible to please herself in order to have a common topic with herself.
Thinking of this, the words of divorce can no longer be spoken. So, Mao Dun began to perfunctorily coax Qin Dejun, and he made a promise:
"I can't be a ruthless and unrighteous person, I want to earn enough alimony of 2,000 yuan, settle my wife of, we make a four-year contract, and when the time comes, I will leave, and I will not be separated from you."
Qin Dejun once again believed Mao Dun's sweet words. Although there was a trace of uneasiness in her heart, she was willing to fall into the big lie that Mao Dun had woven for her.
The end of the period, desperate suicide reborn from the ashes
The big-bellied Qin Dejun was pointed at everywhere.
Shanghai's tabloid reporter got his address from Sun Delan and spent all day chasing Qin Dejun, the dewy lover who wanted to interview the great writer Mao Dun.
Qin Dejun, who could not be disturbed, walked into the hospital again and removed the witness of his love life with Mao Dun. Mao Dun was still comforting Qin Dejun by the bed and drawing a large cake for her.
Ding Ling, a friend of the writer, saw at a glance that Mao Dun did not want to divorce at all, and repeatedly advised Qin Dejun to leave Mao Dun, but Qin Dejun did not believe it.
As Karen Mok sang in the lyrics of "Cloudy Day":
"The beginning is always wonderful every minute, everyone thinks that enthusiasm will never decrease, except for the little tiredness after the passion fades, maybe like who said insatiable greed, should respond to who said ignorance, in short, in those years sensibility won the rational side."
Sure enough, a week after Qin Dejun was discharged from the hospital, Mao Dun disappeared, leaving not a penny, and disappeared into Qin Dejun's world like this.
It turned out that the prodigal son turned back, and Mao Dun, who had enjoyed romantic passion, began to miss the dull family life, so he returned to his original wife and children and became a good husband and father.
That night, Qin Dejun swallowed 200 sleeping pills left by Mao Dun, and fortunately, he was saved by his friend.
4. Patriotism for the people and saving tens of millions of people with their bodies
After a serious illness, Qin Dejun actively participated in the work of underground organizations and women's liberation.
In 1934, in order to save our troops, Qin Dejun promised to marry the enemy army at that time, on the condition that we could pass through the Youxiu area smoothly.
5. Short-lived but lonely and disabled for life
In 1937, the Lugou Bridge Incident occurred, and the whole country set off a vigorous anti-Japanese rescue movement, and Qin Dejun also actively participated in it.
In 1939, Qin Dejun married Guo Chuntao as a revolutionary partner and gave birth to a lovely daughter.
In 1949, Qin Dejun was arrested for doing underground work, and in prison, Qin Dejun was tortured by the enemy and never said a word. Qin Dejun was sentenced to death;
However, just the day before the execution, our army liberated Shanghai and rescued Qin Dejun from prison.
In 1950, 52-year-old Guo Chuntao passed away, and Qin Dejun became a loner again.
In 1967, the dark period came, Qin Dejun spent 8 years in Qincheng Prison, suffered a series of inhuman persecution, the most serious was that he was ruthlessly pushed downstairs by the jailer, leaving him with a lifelong disability. Can't walk properly.
In 1975, Qin Dejun came out to devote himself to education, and in 1999, Qin Dejun died at the age of 95. The autobiography reads: "I wanted to live as a fire phoenix born from the ashes, but I did unspeakable bitterness, and all my life, fate played a joke with me." ”
Seeing this, why Qin Dejun is known as a legendary patriotic woman, the answer is self-evident.
Summary: Traditional women are sad, but now they must be spiritually independent
Work aspect:
At that time, it was important that women's talentlessness was virtue. Qin Dejun advocates equality between men and women in her work, women can hold up half of the sky, she went to Japan to study, went to university for further study, the pace of active advancement has never stopped, and the setback of feelings has not made her slumped.
On the contrary, she had a calm and composed mind, dared to deal with the enemy until she was desperate, after the founding of the People's Republic of China, devoted herself to the cause of education, dedicated her life, love and marriage were hit hard, she was able to regain her career and finally died peacefully at the age of 95.
Emotional aspects:
On the other hand, Qin Dejun's career is doing well, but there are still limitations in terms of feelings.
Although Qin Dejun is a woman in the new era, in that special period of alternation between old and new, she was deceived by emotions and suffered unspeakable physical injuries.
Qin Dejun still could not get rid of the persecution of feudal ideas in love and marriage, and was brainwashed by the traditional education of male superiority and female inferiority, three subordination and four virtues. Trapped by love all his life, he has always been attached to men and has become a vassal of men.
The first marriage, the mistake is not the female Qin Dejun, she is a victim, self-settlement is very undesirable, should be brave to protect themselves, get rid of children, re-pursue a new life, and unloved people to live a lifetime, is a very painful thing, fortunately repentance, Qin Dejun's life can usher in new opportunities.
The relationship with Mao Dun in paragraph 3, "The delay of the warrior can be especially taken off, and the delay of the woman cannot be taken off." "Hiring is a concubine for his wife, and he cannot bear the Lord's worship of Pingsu."
Mao Dun and his wife Sun Delan
The words of the ancients still ringed in their ears. In the hot love with Mao Dun, Qin Dejun began to believe that Mao Dun's sweet words were wrong, distressed Mao Dun was wrong, unmarried pregnancy was wrong, firmly believed that Mao Dun would divorce her is wrong, did not take care of his body, and wanted to reclaim Mao Dun's heart with death, which was even more wrong.
During that love time, Qin Dejun has liked the great talent Mao Dun, her whole world is this man, she has always been waiting for Mao Dun to come back, and even broke off on her own, but the romantic and unruly Mao Dun has long changed his evil and returned to his family.
No matter how bad your career and love are, you should continue to maintain upward hope and enthusiasm for life, and you can't cut yourself off from Qin Dejun's 1st and 3rd relationships, and you can't give up your life for anyone.
We must remember that no matter how much you like a man, you must stay at the bottom line, no matter how hard you love you can never destroy other people's families, today's we only have spiritual freedom and independent thinking, in order not to be easily deceived, not afraid of men's parting and abandonment.
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