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Prince Wen Wu Yongen seems to have really broken up.
Just two days ago, the media broke that Wang Ziwen had deleted Wu Yongen's related photos.
Once upon a time her photo album looked like this.
Such.
Love is sweet, shining everywhere, and sprinkling sugar with envy and jealousy.
This is true today.
Such.
Wu Yongen has disappeared.
Only Wang Ziwen is unique.
Counting up, from October 2022, they appeared outside the airport. Never saw the two in the same frame again.
At that time, Wang Ziwen accompanied Wu Yongen to the United States.
Some netizens also took photos of them pushing luggage carts, one after the other, expressionless, and no more intimate in the past.
Should I go to see my parents?
But not long after, Wang Ziwen returned to China. Wu Yongen was not accompanied.
After that, neither of them interacted at all.
And December 31, Wu Yongen's birthday, Wang Ziwen did not move at all.
But in 2021, she is a high-profile and sweet public blessing.
All kinds of signs, I can't help but think:
There was a celebrity romance that ended.
It has only been more than a year since Wang Ziwen officially announced his relationship on Weibo on April 10, 2021.
One year, the romance ended.
Love is so easy to disappear.
Love is like the wind, and it disappears in an instant.
Many netizens sighed: Even a beautiful and rich person like Wang Ziwen can't have a long-term relationship, and it is really easy to fall in love and keep each other.
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In 2021, when they were officially announced, some directors sang down.
Put:
"If Wu Yongen Wang Ziwen doesn't break up in 2024, I will climb from Chengdu to Dongguan."
Of course, Wang Ziwen was unmoved.
"To identify a person is to follow the feeling, there is no right or wrong."
They met on the show "Heartbeat".
As soon as they met, Wang Ziwen couldn't do it.
"He's my ideal type."
Those calm, cool, and calm were all swept away in front of Wu Yongen.
In just 21 days, Wang Ziwen decided: "He is the person I am looking for." ”
Even when everyone marveled at how quickly the two were developing, she said, "I'm going to marry him soon." ”
Treat your favorite person without hiding your love.
She should really like Wu Yongen.
Leave the past and the tray.
"I have a child."
And Wu Yongen's performance is also impeccable.
He didn't back down.
Respond with trust, support, and support.
He also insisted on taking Wang Ziwen to meet with his family.
The day of the final election. The "piano kiss" of the two was even more loved by the wind.
Luckily, their love continued outside of the show.
From show to reality.
They are in love like ordinary couples, flashing.
At that time, everyone felt that Wang Ziwen had excellent vision.
She found a rare true love in the world.
They will also keep sweet.
However, in just one year, they have gone from being like glue to looking at each other.
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Rong Zuer once asked Wang Ziwen: "Which point of Wu Yongen attracts you the most?" ”
Wang Ziwen replied: "Because I don't have someone like him around me." ”
What kind of people?
She added: "The attitude towards friends, relatives, even marriage, is very healthy. ”
This is thanks to Wu Yongen's native family.
Parental affection.
Peer support.
Whether it is family, school, what he got from childhood, is the best education.
So, he's inclusive.
But it will also put the ego first, emphasizing equality in relationships.
This is a good thing.
But for Wang Ziwen, this is not the case.
Her parents are divorced, she came out to break into the entertainment industry at a very young age, experienced all kinds of fraud, and had a marriage.
The man she longs for can protect her, accept her, and spoil her.
"There is a stronger man who told me not to pretend to be you, lean over and lean on my shoulder."
When she met her first love when she was young, she took the initiative to confess.
The ideal is to "marry him, become a housewife, and live a lifetime without shame."
"I love him very much, and my biggest dream is to marry him and give him a baby."
But the first love chose to split legs.
In order to forget, she left Chengdu and went to Beijing.
Later, he experienced a relationship with Wang Shuo.
Later, she married incognito and had children.
All choices are for the sake of feelings, regardless of everything.
She once said:
"If you draw my career in a circle, my boyfriend will probably be half."
For the anticipation of love, she said:
"I want him to follow me all the time and love me."
Essentially, she is a traditional woman.
It has a traditional Chinese view of marriage and love.
It is believed that women will get married and have children.
Then, a divorced woman with children, the disadvantage in the mate selection market, she should also recognize.
So, in the face of Wu Yongen, passion brought her closer. But deep down, she would feel that she didn't deserve it.
She mentioned this when talking to Joey Yung.
She didn't think —
You deserve happiness.
What's more, this sense of unworthiness is deeply rooted and buried since childhood.
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Because parents hurt each other.
Wandering around at a young age.
She longs for a home, but her native family can't give her.
She can only keep falling in love.
In this way, fill the inner desolation.
But she searched, tried, fell, and ended in disappointment. After disappointment, they search, try, fall, and fall again, falling into a vicious circle.
Love is a capacity with quota.
Depletion will be sometimes.
Along with it, there is also the perception of happiness.
For men, Wang Ziwen saw very through.
In battle after battle, she has long grasped the essence of men.
She knew what men wanted.
Making a person fall in love with herself is what she does best.
However, once the relationship is on track, she loses her balance, suffers from gains and losses, and fears that happiness will slip away again.
So --
When she met Wu Yongen, the man who satisfied her in all aspects. With a little trickery, she successfully confirmed the relationship.
But when it came to deep dating, she began to wear out internally.
Doubt Wu Yongen's sincerity.
Denying oneself captures happiness.
The closer their relationship became, the stronger Wang Ziwen's trepidation. In the end, she didn't even dare to imagine the future.
You can only be afraid to stay put.
Like a sensitive and fragile hedgehog, it will explode at one point.
Obviously, Wu Yongen was caught off guard.
He felt sorry for Wang Ziwen.
But did not have the ability to heal her wounds.
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Once.
On the Wang Ziwen program, he talked about that he had made a suicide note and put it in his safe.
She said choked.
Wu Yongen on the side listened silently.
Tears in the eyes.
I think he resonated with it at that moment.
But in addition to distress, he couldn't give more reaction, even a hug, he couldn't give it.
Perhaps, in the course of this year, he gradually understood -
He couldn't carry Wang Ziwen's grief.
It can't be, the "powerful man" she calls it.
And Wang Ziwen is still attacking.
We want to connect more deeply with each other.
Once.
They conducted a psychological experiment that required looking at each other for 3 minutes.
Wang Ziwen stared at Wu Yongen deadly.
Wu Yongen was always dodging.
Try to end this confrontation with a joking attitude.
It is completely different from the hot heat that I didn't want to miss for a second when I was in love before.
Later, they also went to learn African drums.
The teacher assigns homework.
Let them play as much as they want.
Wu Yongen picked up the drum, tensed his face, and beat the drum head faster and faster.
After the end, the teacher asks about the imagery.
"What I want to express is, fear," he said. Someone runs after you and then you just run wild. ”
She chases, he runs.
Perhaps, this is their current situation.
It was Wang Ziwen's turn.
But she lowered her head and tapped the drum with her fingers, still cautiously tempting until the end.
There was almost no sound.
Wu Yongen on the side could only laugh dryly.
Persuaded Wang Ziwen: "Honey, you let go." ”
Yes.
Wang Ziwen needed to relax.
Only by unloading the heavy burden in our hearts and surpassing the pain of growing up can we learn the ability to love.
And what brought her out of the predicament -
Not the "powerful man" in her fantasy world.
It's herself.
Because a person immersed in grief, even if he meets true love, it is difficult to hold.
The prerequisite for happiness is firm belief.
Believe that you can love.
Believe that you deserve the best love in the world.