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At the age of 27, illness took his life
In the past few days, there is sad news on the Internet.
These days, there is sad news on the Internet.
Just this past December 25, athlete Wang Yibo suffered from central lymphoma and left us forever.
Just in the past December 25th, athlete Wang Yibo suffered from central lymphoma and left us forever.
This young and handsome athlete has since frozen his life at the age of 27.
This handsome young athlete was 27 years old.
Many people deplored his departure, you know, the twenties are the best years, it is the countless possible ages.
Many people regret his departure, you know, twenty years old, is a good time, is the age of countless possibilities.
We also regret that we have lost another fierce player, because he won the national championship many times during his time in the trial center.
We're also sorry to lose another great player, because he won several national championships during his time at the tryout center.
What a wonderful child!
What a wonderful child!
Looking back at his experience -
Looking back on his experience --
He learned curling at the age of 14, entered the winter training center at the age of 22, and won the national curling championship at the age of 23.
At the age of 14 to learn curling, 22 years old into the winter training center training, 23 years old won the national curling championship.
If he had moved forward at the current pace, he would have had a brilliant future.
If he kept going at the current pace, he could have had a bright future.
Unfortunately, the ruthless disease gave him a fatal blow at this time.
Unfortunately, the ruthless disease at this time to give him a fatal blow.
In July this year, because of his physical discomfort, he was diagnosed with encephalitis, and he was discharged from the hospital after his condition improved.
In July this year, he was diagnosed with encephalitis because he was not feeling well and was discharged after his condition improved.
In November this year, his condition suddenly deteriorated and he was diagnosed with central lymphoma, but died due to ineffective rescue.
In November of this year, his condition suddenly worsened and he was diagnosed with central lymphoma, but his rescue efforts failed and he died.
Looking at his experience in just half a year, I can't help but sigh at the ruthlessness of the years and the cruelty of the disease.
Look at him this short half a year's experience, can not help but sigh the ruthless years, the cruel disease.
In the world, there are always so many accidents that disrupt our plans and take away our loved ones.
In this world, there are always so many accidents, disrupt our plans, take away our loved ones.
You never know which disease will be fatal, which time you will leave and which time you will say goodbye, which time you will never see again.
You never know which disease will be fatal, which will leave forever, which goodbye, from really never see again.
Things are unpredictable, and our lives are always full of accidents.
Things change, and our lives are full of surprises.
If you really have a choice, I want to wish you a healthy life and a peaceful life than a successful career.
If you really have a choice, I would rather wish you health and peace all your life than success and fame.
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Years of peace are also a luxury
I once saw a post on Zhihu, full of a father's sadness after losing his child.
I once saw a post on Zhihu, full of a father's grief after losing his child.
He said his son was only 16 years old and had been excellent since he was a child.
He said his son was only 16 years old and had excelled since childhood.
He competed in taekwondo at the age of 3 and competed in English in the first grade.
He took part in a taekwondo competition at the age of three and an English contest in his first grade.
In addition, he has won awards from the National Calligraphy Competition and the Olympiad Competition.
In addition, I also won the award certificate of National calligraphy competition and mathematical Olympiad Competition.
Academically excellent, from elementary school to high school, without exception, it has been a local key school.
Also academically excellent, all the way from primary school to high school, without exception, is a local key school.
Parents are proud of this and feel that their children have made a difference.
Parents take pride in it and think their children have done something.
But at this time, the child's psychology has problems.
But at this time, the child's psychological problems.
He first cried at home for no reason.
First he cried at home for no reason.
Then scratch the arm scarred.
Then I cut my arm all over the place.
Although the parents took him to the doctor, the hospital's test report also showed that there was a problem with the child's psychiatric test.
Although the parents took him to the doctor, the hospital report also showed that the child's mental tests were problematic.
But as parents, they always feel that it is nothing serious, and they do not take this diagnostic report seriously.
But as parents, they always thought nothing of it and ignored the diagnosis.
Until the early hours of one morning, the father was lying in bed and received a text message from the child:
Then, in the wee hours of the morning, Dad was lying in bed when he got this text from his kid:
"I really can't get out."
"I just couldn't get out."
He replied to the message and got up to check and found that his son was not in the house.
He answered the message and got up to check and found that his son was not in the house.
He looked around, but saw 120 and 110 coming.
He looked around and saw the 120 and 110 coming.
Only then did he realize that his son had ended his life in his own way.
Then he knew that his son had ended his life on his own terms.
When children first grow up, they leave like this, and as parents, their hearts are like knives.
When a child grows up and dies like this, as a parent, it hurts them.
During that time, the father washed his face with tears all day long, and the bits and pieces of his son's 16 years of growth kept coming to mind.
During that time, the father was in tears all day, thinking about his son's 16 years of growth.
He did not dare to drive past the place he passed with his child, for fear of touching the scene and teary eyes.
He did not dare to drive past the place where he and his children passed together, for fear of touching the scene and getting misty with tears.
If I want to see my son again, I can only be in a dream.
I can only see my son in my dreams.
He coveted every night he dreamed of his child, he did not dare to wake up or want to wake up, he preferred to fall asleep like this.
He craved every night that he dreamed of his child. He dared not wake up, he did not want to wake up, he would rather sleep.
After his son left, he began to review the education of his children over the years.
After his son left, he began to recover all those years of education.
He remembered that the child had shouted in the house: You gave birth to me without my consent.
He remembered that the child had shouted from the room, You gave birth to me without my consent.
Only then did he realize that the care he had given to his children over the years was like an airtight wall.
Then he realized that all those years of care for his children had been like an impenetrable wall.
It seems to be meticulous, but it is actually suffocating.
It may seem trivial, but it is suffocating.
He hopes that his son can come back, even if he is not so good, even if he is a mediocre person, as long as he is healthy and safe.
He wished for his son to come back, even if he was not so good, even if he was mediocre, as long as he was healthy and safe.
It's a pity that in this world, there are so many ifs.
Unfortunately, in this world, where there are so many if.
There is still a reopening day for the flowers, and there is no time for people to come again.
The flower is still open again, people go again no heavy come.
After people leave, they know what a great luxury it should be to wish you peace in your years.
After people go to know that the sentence I wish you peace all the year round, it is how big luxury.
03
In the face of passing, there is really nothing we can do
These days, there are elders who have passed away one after another.
These days, there are elders around the death.
Fa Xiaofa said that in this life, she will never see her grandmother who loves her again.
Hair small hair circle of friends said, this life, never see love her grandmother.
The only thing I was happy about was that during the week when my grandmother was seriously ill, the family was by my side.
The only thing I was grateful for was that during the week when my grandmother was seriously ill, all of them were with me.
This week, they watched as the old man was pushed into the rescue room and pushed out again, hurriedly.
This week, they watched as the old man was wheeled into the emergency room and wheeled out again, in a hurry.
They had thought that if they could do their best to prolong the life of the elderly, even if it was better than a new year.
They had thought of doing their best to prolong the old man's life, even if it is good to have one more New Year.
It's just that maybe the fate has come, and my grandmother never woke up after a respiratory failure.
But maybe it was destiny. After a respiratory failure, Grandma never woke up.
Although the family is deeply distressed, they also have to accept this reality.
Although the family is heartbroken, but also have to accept the reality.
Yes, even with the rapid development of medicine so far, in the face of diseases, too many times we are still powerless.
Yes, even with the rapid development of medicine, there are too many times when we can't do anything about diseases.
I once watched a video: Life at the door of the ICU is full of variety.
I have seen a video: life at the door of ICU.
The video is not long, but it shows the insignificance of people in the face of disease.
The video is not long, but it shows the insignificance of people in the face of disease.
At the emergency window in the early morning, no matter whether it was windy or rainy, the registered people were basically not broken.
Emergency window in the early morning, regardless of wind and rain, registered people have not broken.
Hospitals have become the last line of defense for many people facing diseases.
Hospitals have become the last line of defense for many people facing illness.
In order to save money, how many family members lay on the floor outside the door with the necessities of life.
In order to save money, many family members with daily necessities, lying on the floor outside the door.
How long loved ones are hospitalized, how long they stay like this.
They stay with their loved ones as long as they're in the hospital.
Image source: Douyin @Li Wawa
Someone knelt down to pray for God's blessing, and she knelt for a day with the scripture in her hand.
Someone kneels to pray to God, and she kneels all day long with the scriptures in her hand.
People passing by felt distressed.
People passing by feel distressed.
But perhaps at this time, kneeling down and chanting scriptures was the only way the woman could think of.
But perhaps kneeling down and chanting the sutra was the only thing the woman could think of doing.
Image source: Douyin @Daily Hot Search
There was also a mother who knelt at the door of the ICU and cried.
Another mother, kneeling at the ICU door wailing.
She is a single mother and her daughter is unfortunately seriously ill.
She's a single mom with a very sick daughter.
She spent all her possessions and even cut her liver to save her 8-month-old daughter.
She spent everything she had, even cutting her liver to save her eight-month-old daughter.
Unfortunately, things backfired, and her daughter was seriously infected after the operation and her life was in critical condition.
Unfortunately, things backfired, after the daughter serious infection, life-threatening.
The desperate mother has done her best and now kneels in front of the ICU, praying that her toddler will survive and survive.
Desperate, the mother tried her best, now kneeling in front of the ICU, praying for her baby to survive.
Image source: Douyin @Maitreya City Rong Media Center
Someone commented, life and death, what is the use of you kneeling here?
Some people commented that life and death depend on life. What's the use of you kneeling here?
But the people who have really experienced the test of life and death said: I can understand her, I knelt at the door and cried, wishing that I could lie down and let my mother be safe.
But those who have really experienced the test of life and death say: I can understand her, when I knelt at the door crying, wish I could lie in there, can let my mother safe.
Zweig once said: "When a person is young, he always thinks that disease and death will only patronize others. ”
Zweig once said, "When one is young, one always thinks that illness and death are only for others."
But when I got older, I found that birth, old age, illness and death are just the most common things in the world.
But when I get older, I find that life and death are the most common things in the world.
Major illnesses and minor disasters are seven calamities that no one can escape.
Major diseases and small disasters, is everyone can not avoid the seven disasters eight difficult.
When we are healthy, who of us would have thought that one day the disease would suddenly come and take the lives of those around us.
When we were healthy, none of us would have thought that one day disease would suddenly take the lives of those around us.
But when that day came, I found out that it was only a matter of time before the death of the loved ones around me.
But it's only a matter of time until the day comes when you find out that your loved ones are gone.
The hospital listened to more sincere prayers than the church, and the operating room doors were filled with devout believers.
Hospitals hear more sincere prayers than churches, and the doors of operating theatres are lined with the faithful.
But some people, no matter how much you pray, you can't buy his life.
But some people, you pray for more, also can not change his life.
Some people, you haven't even had time to see Ta for the last time, and the fate of this life ends here.
Some people, you don't even have time to see the last time, the fate of this life is over.
When I grew up, I knew that the real goodbye was silent.
Grow up to know, the original real farewell is quiet.
When I passed by the Grim Reaper, I found that the best wish was not to wish you everyone to be known and famous, but to wish you peace and health and a worry-free life.
When I brush with death, I find that the best wish is not to wish you fame, but to wish you peace and health, a carefree life.
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Cherish the trivial daily life, the people around you
Went to a café the other day.
Went to a cafe the other day.
On the shelf by the door was a row of wishing books.
There was a row of wishbooks on a shelf by the door.
Out of curiosity, I stepped forward to look at it, and found that compared with the "getting rich" and "thinning" in previous years, this year's wish book was full of "health" and "peace".
Out of curiosity, I came forward to look, this only to find that, compared to the previous years of "rich", "thin", this year's wish book, written full of "health", "peace".
Some pray that their children will be protected from disease.
Some prayed that their children would be protected from disease.
Some wish their parents good health.
Some wish their parents good health.
Yes, on this harsh winter day, nothing is more important than good health.
Yes, nothing is more important than good health in this cold winter day.
I remember reading a saying: eat what you want, buy what you want. Love the person you want to love, go live the life you want to live.
Remember once read a sentence: eat what you want to eat, buy what you want to buy. Love who you want to love and live the life you want to live.
Because you never know which tomorrow or the unexpected will come first, we have no way of knowing what we will lose in the next second.
Because you never know what tomorrow and accident will come first, and we never know what will be lost in the next second.
Life is short, the years are ruthless, the only thing we can do is to cherish this good year and cherish everyone who appears around us.
Life is short, time merciless, the only thing we can do, is to cherish this good time, cherish every person who appears in our side.
Success is good, but ordinary life, why is it not a high-level romance?
Success is good, but ordinary life, is not a kind of advanced romance?
Soon, a new year is coming.
Soon, the New Year will come.
This winter, there are no surprises, no temperature, no matter.
This winter, no surprise, no temperature, no relationship.
May the mountains and rivers be safe and the world be safe.
I hope the mountains and rivers are safe and the world is safe.
May you be safe and healthy, and get what you want.
May you be safe and healthy and get what you want.