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27歲，疾病帶走了他的生命
這幾天，網上有則消息令人難過。
These days, there is sad news on the Internet.
就在剛剛過去的12月25日，運動員王一博因患中樞淋巴瘤，永遠地離開了我們。
Just in the past December 25th, athlete Wang Yibo suffered from central lymphoma and left us forever.
這個年輕帥氣的運動員，從此生命定格在了27歲。
This handsome young athlete was 27 years old.
不少人痛惜他的離去，要知道，二十幾歲，正是大好的年華，正是有無數可能的年紀。
Many people regret his departure, you know, twenty years old, is a good time, is the age of countless possibilities.
也惋惜我們又失去一員猛将，因為他在試訓中心期間，曾多次獲得全國冠軍。
We're also sorry to lose another great player, because he won several national championships during his time at the tryout center.
多麼優秀的孩子！
What a wonderful child!
回溯他的經曆——
Looking back on his experience --
14歲學冰壺，22歲進入冬訓中心集訓，23歲拿下全國冰壺冠軍賽冠軍。
At the age of 14 to learn curling, 22 years old into the winter training center training, 23 years old won the national curling championship.
倘若按照現在的節奏往前走，他本該有一個光輝燦爛的未來。
If he kept going at the current pace, he could have had a bright future.
可惜，無情的病魔在這時給了他緻命一擊。
Unfortunately, the ruthless disease at this time to give him a fatal blow.
今年7月，因為身體不适，他被查出腦炎，病情好轉後便出院了。
In July this year, he was diagnosed with encephalitis because he was not feeling well and was discharged after his condition improved.
今年11月，他的病情突然惡化，并被确診為中樞淋巴瘤，後因搶救無效，離開人世。
In November of this year, his condition suddenly worsened and he was diagnosed with central lymphoma, but his rescue efforts failed and he died.
看他這短短半年的經曆，總忍不住感歎歲月的無情、病魔的殘忍。
Look at him this short half a year's experience, can not help but sigh the ruthless years, the cruel disease.
人世間，總是有那麼多意外出現，打亂我們的計劃，帶走我們的親人。
In this world, there are always so many accidents, disrupt our plans, take away our loved ones.
你永遠不知道哪一場疾病會緻命，哪一次離去會永别，哪一次再見，從此真的再也見不到了。
You never know which disease will be fatal, which will leave forever, which goodbye, from really never see again.
世事無常，我們的生命中總充滿太多意外。
Things change, and our lives are full of surprises.
倘若真有選擇，比起建功立業，比起功成名就，我更想祝你一生健康，歲歲平安。
If you really have a choice, I would rather wish you health and peace all your life than success and fame.
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歲歲平安，也是一種奢求
曾在知乎上看到一個文章，滿紙都是一個父親失去孩子後的悲傷。
I once saw a post on Zhihu, full of a father's grief after losing his child.
他說兒子隻有16歲，從小就很優秀。
He said his son was only 16 years old and had excelled since childhood.
他3歲參加跆拳道比賽，一年級參加英語大賽。
He took part in a taekwondo competition at the age of three and an English contest in his first grade.
除此之外，還拿下了過全國書法大賽和奧數比賽的獲獎證書。
In addition, I also won the award certificate of National calligraphy competition and mathematical Olympiad Competition.
學業上也同樣優秀，一路走來，從國小到高中，無一例外都是當地的重點學校。
Also academically excellent, all the way from primary school to high school, without exception, is a local key school.
父母以此為傲，覺得自己的孩子大有所為。
Parents take pride in it and think their children have done something.
但就在這時候，孩子的心理卻出現了問題。
But at this time, the child's psychological problems.
他先是毫無緣由地在家裡大哭。
First he cried at home for no reason.
再是将手臂劃得傷痕累累。
Then I cut my arm all over the place.
父母雖然帶他看了醫生，醫院的檢測報告也顯示孩子的精神測試出現了問題。
Although the parents took him to the doctor, the hospital report also showed that the child's mental tests were problematic.
但身為父母，他們總覺得沒什麼大事，沒将這一項項診斷報告當成一回事。
But as parents, they always thought nothing of it and ignored the diagnosis.
直到有天淩晨，爸爸躺在床上收到孩子的短信：
Then, in the wee hours of the morning, Dad was lying in bed when he got this text from his kid:
“我實在是走不出來。”
"I just couldn't get out."
他回複資訊後起床檢視，發現兒子不在屋裡。
He answered the message and got up to check and found that his son was not in the house.
他四處尋找，卻看到了趕來的120和110。
He looked around and saw the 120 and 110 coming.
這時他才知道，兒子用自己的方式結束了人生。
Then he knew that his son had ended his life on his own terms.
稚子初長成，卻這樣離去，身為父母，他們心如刀割。
When a child grows up and dies like this, as a parent, it hurts them.
那段時間，父親整日以淚洗面，腦海中不斷浮現起兒子成長16年的點滴。
During that time, the father was in tears all day, thinking about his son's 16 years of growth.
他不敢開車路過和孩子一同經過的地方，怕觸景生情，淚眼朦胧。
He did not dare to drive past the place where he and his children passed together, for fear of touching the scene and getting misty with tears.
再想見兒子，隻能在夢境中。
I can only see my son in my dreams.
他貪戀每一個夢到孩子的夜晚，他不敢醒也不想醒，甯願就這麼沉沉睡去。
He craved every night that he dreamed of his child. He dared not wake up, he did not want to wake up, he would rather sleep.
兒子走後，他開始複盤這些年來對孩子的教育。
After his son left, he began to recover all those years of education.
他想起孩子曾在屋裡大喊着：你們生我出來，又沒有經過我的同意。
He remembered that the child had shouted from the room, You gave birth to me without my consent.
這時他才意識到，原來這些年來給孩子的關懷，就像是一座密不透風的牆。
Then he realized that all those years of care for his children had been like an impenetrable wall.
看似無微不至，實則令人窒息。
It may seem trivial, but it is suffocating.
他多希望兒子能回來，哪怕不那麼優秀，哪怕做一個平庸的人，隻要健康平安就好。
He wished for his son to come back, even if he was not so good, even if he was mediocre, as long as he was healthy and safe.
可惜，在這個世界上，哪有那麼多如果。
Unfortunately, in this world, where there are so many if.
花謝尚有重開日，人走再無重來時。
The flower is still open again, people go again no heavy come.
人走之後才知道，那一句祝你歲歲平安，該是多麼大的奢求。
After people go to know that the sentence I wish you peace all the year round, it is how big luxury.
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面對逝去，我們真的無能為力
這些天，身邊陸續有長輩去世。
These days, there are elders around the death.
發小發朋友圈說，這一世，再也見不到疼愛她的外婆了。
Hair small hair circle of friends said, this life, never see love her grandmother.
唯一感到慶幸的，是在外婆病重的那一周裡，他們一家人都陪伴在身邊。
The only thing I was grateful for was that during the week when my grandmother was seriously ill, all of them were with me.
這一周，他們看着老人被推進搶救室，再被推出來，急匆匆地。
This week, they watched as the old man was wheeled into the emergency room and wheeled out again, in a hurry.
他們曾想過拼盡全力，能為老人延年益壽，哪怕多過一個新年都是好的。
They had thought of doing their best to prolong the old man's life, even if it is good to have one more New Year.
隻是或許天命已至，外婆在一次呼吸衰竭後，再也沒能醒來。
But maybe it was destiny. After a respiratory failure, Grandma never woke up.
家人雖痛徹心扉，但也不得不接受這個現實。
Although the family is heartbroken, but also have to accept the reality.
是啊，即便醫學飛速發展至今，面對疾病，太多的時候我們還是無能為力。
Yes, even with the rapid development of medicine, there are too many times when we can't do anything about diseases.
曾經看過一個視訊：ICU門口的人生百态。
I have seen a video: life at the door of ICU.
視訊不長，卻道盡了人在疾病面前的渺小。
The video is not long, but it shows the insignificance of people in the face of disease.
淩晨的急診視窗，無論刮風下雨，挂号的人基本沒有斷過。
Emergency window in the early morning, regardless of wind and rain, registered people have not broken.
醫院，成了多少人面臨疾病時的最後一道防線。
Hospitals have become the last line of defense for many people facing illness.
為了省錢，多少家屬帶着生活必需品，躺在門外的地闆上。
In order to save money, many family members with daily necessities, lying on the floor outside the door.
親人住院多久，他們就這樣陪護多久。
They stay with their loved ones as long as they're in the hospital.
圖檔來源：抖音@李娃娃
有人跪地祈求上蒼保佑，她手裡拿着經文，一跪就是一天。
Someone kneels to pray to God, and she kneels all day long with the scriptures in her hand.
路過的人覺得心疼。
People passing by feel distressed.
但或許在這個時候，跪下來，誦經文，是這個女子唯一能想到的辦法。
But perhaps kneeling down and chanting the sutra was the only thing the woman could think of doing.
圖檔來源：抖音@每日熱搜
還有一位母親，跪在ICU門口号啕大哭。
Another mother, kneeling at the ICU door wailing.
她是個單親媽媽，女兒不幸身患重病。
She's a single mom with a very sick daughter.
她花光了所有家産，甚至割肝來救8個月的女兒。
She spent everything she had, even cutting her liver to save her eight-month-old daughter.
可惜事與願違，術後女兒嚴重感染，生命垂危。
Unfortunately, things backfired, after the daughter serious infection, life-threatening.
走投無路的母親拼盡了全力，如今隻能跪在ICU門前，祈禱她的幼兒能夠挺過去，活下來。
Desperate, the mother tried her best, now kneeling in front of the ICU, praying for her baby to survive.
圖檔來源：抖音@彌勒市融媒體中心
有人評論說，生死由命，你跪在這裡有什麼用？
Some people commented that life and death depend on life. What's the use of you kneeling here?
但真正經曆過生死考驗的人卻說：我能了解她，當年我跪在門口大哭，恨不得自己躺進去，能讓我媽媽平平安安。
But those who have really experienced the test of life and death say: I can understand her, when I knelt at the door crying, wish I could lie in there, can let my mother safe.
茨威格曾說：“一個人年輕的時候，總以為疾病和死神隻會光顧别人。”
Zweig once said, "When one is young, one always thinks that illness and death are only for others."
可年歲年長後才發現，生老病死，不過是人世間最稀松平常的事。
But when I get older, I find that life and death are the most common things in the world.
大病小災，是每個人都躲不過的七災八難。
Major diseases and small disasters, is everyone can not avoid the seven disasters eight difficult.
健康的時候，我們誰會想過，有一天疾病會突如其來，帶走身邊人的性命。
When we were healthy, none of us would have thought that one day disease would suddenly take the lives of those around us.
但真正等到那天來臨才發現，身邊親人的離世，隻是時間問題。
But it's only a matter of time until the day comes when you find out that your loved ones are gone.
醫院比教堂聽了更多真誠的禱告，手術室的門外站滿了虔誠的信徒。
Hospitals hear more sincere prayers than churches, and the doors of operating theatres are lined with the faithful.
可有的人，你祈求再多，也換不來他一條命。
But some people, you pray for more, also can not change his life.
有的人，你甚至還沒來得及見Ta最後一面，這一世的緣分就到此為止了。
Some people, you don't even have time to see the last time, the fate of this life is over.
長大後就知道了，原來真正的告别是悄無聲息的。
Grow up to know, the original real farewell is quiet.
當與死神擦肩而過之後才發現，原來最好的祝願，不是祝你人盡皆知聲名鵲起，而是願你平安健康，一生無憂。
When I brush with death, I find that the best wish is not to wish you fame, but to wish you peace and health, a carefree life.
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珍惜瑣碎的日常，身邊的人
前幾天去咖啡館。
Went to a cafe the other day.
門口的架子上擺了一排許願薄。
There was a row of wishbooks on a shelf by the door.
出于好奇，我上前翻看，這才發現，相比往年的“暴富”、“變瘦”，今年的許願薄上，寫滿了“健康”、“平安”。
Out of curiosity, I came forward to look, this only to find that, compared to the previous years of "rich", "thin", this year's wish book, written full of "health", "peace".
有人祈禱自己的孩兒免受疾病侵襲。
Some prayed that their children would be protected from disease.
有人祝願自己的父母能夠身體健康。
Some wish their parents good health.
是啊，在這個凜冽的冬日，再也沒有什麼能比得上身體健康更重要的了。
Yes, nothing is more important than good health in this cold winter day.
想起曾經看過一句話：想吃什麼就去吃吧，想買什麼就去買吧。去愛想愛的人吧，去過想過的生活吧。
Remember once read a sentence: eat what you want to eat, buy what you want to buy. Love who you want to love and live the life you want to live.
因為你永遠不知道明天和意外哪個先來，我們也無從得知下一秒會失去什麼。
Because you never know what tomorrow and accident will come first, and we never know what will be lost in the next second.
人生苦短，歲月無情，我們唯一能做的，就是珍惜這大好的年華，珍惜每一個出現在我們身邊的人。
Life is short, time merciless, the only thing we can do, is to cherish this good time, cherish every person who appears in our side.
功成名就固然是好，但平凡的生活，又何嘗不是一種進階的浪漫？
Success is good, but ordinary life, is not a kind of advanced romance?
很快，新的一年就要來了。
Soon, the New Year will come.
這個冬天，沒有驚喜，沒有溫度，沒有關系。
This winter, no surprise, no temperature, no relationship.
但願山河無恙，人間皆安。
I hope the mountains and rivers are safe and the world is safe.
願你平安康健，得償所願。
May you be safe and healthy and get what you want.