There are too many horse-catching scenes in the entertainment industry.
Among them, the most enduring is the "wedding of the century" 12 years ago by Big S Wang Xiaofei.
The level of chaos is still unmatched.
It was a big cloudy day, and the wind was raging.
The big S veil flew around, and the bridesmaids' gray face was almost gone.
The guests are constantly "accidents", stealing the limelight of the bride and groom:
Liu Qian was pushed into the water by Ella, and the playing cards floated a pool;
Gao Xiaosong turned his speech into an advertisement for "Da Wusheng";
Zhang Chaoyang secretly photographed the wedding, causing Wang Xiaofei to be angry and cut off the relationship...
Horse catching even continued after the wedding.
Wang Sicong, who recently beat people and made trouble, "became famous in a war" because he scolded Wang Xiaofei's family.
The eight groups of the top Douban in the melon-eating world were also built to complain about this wedding.
Xiangyu originally thought that there would be no more bloody wedding.
Unexpectedly, a new drama opened my eyes.
contributed to the wedding that caught the horse the most since the arrogant S Wang Xiaofei——
"Your marriage is not your marriage"
Like the wedding of Big S Wang Xiaofei, this wedding was not peaceful from before the opening.
The bride An An (played by Jian Yanshu), a self-motivated flight attendant.
She came from an ordinary background and had a devout religious family.
The groom Xiaoming (played by Li Chun), a rich young master who is idle.
I work in the hospital, but I often fish. Because the hospital is opened by their family.
To be a wealthy daughter-in-law, how easy it is.
Before the wedding, An An was forced to sign a strict prenuptial agreement:
Immediately resigned after marriage, promised to give birth to a son, obediently brought a baby at home ...
Only in this way can you enter the man's house.
It was obviously her wedding, but she couldn't be the master herself.
The venue was actually located in the hospital, designated by the man's family.
The witnesses are requested by church personnel, the woman's family.
You can imagine how unremarkable this wedding will be.
But bigger trouble is yet to come -
On the eve of the wedding, An An found out that she was pregnant!
However, the doctrine commands against premarital sex and is known by the family.
She tried to hide it from her family, but in the end, the paper could not contain the fire.
Father found out.
During the quarrel, he pulled An An's hair.
I never expected that a beautiful curly hair would fall out entirely.
It turned out that An An had been wearing a wig.
The top of her head was completely bald, and the remaining hair was very thin.
The beautiful flight attendant turned into a fire cloud evil god in seconds.
To the surprise of the guests.
This is much more "social death" than Big S's veil.
The wedding ended in a mess.
However, An An's robbery did not end.
At the party that night, she suddenly found that she was menstruating.
It turned out that the pregnancy test stick was wrong, and she was not pregnant.
Before I could tell my husband, an even more amazing reversal came.
The husband became drunk and shouted in front of all his friends:
"The child in my wife's belly is not mine!"
It turned out that he had learned as early as after the marriage examination that he had azoospermia.
It is simply impossible to get a wife pregnant.
But he chose to hide it.
In the shock of the melon-eating masses at the scene, this seemingly divorced marriage revealed its true face.
In fact, not only Xiaoming has secrets, but An An also has secrets.
She doesn't love Xiaoming so much, but just wants to use this marriage to get pregnant and have children as soon as possible.
So who is the person she loves?
The answer is a surprise.
It turned out to be a silver-haired "grandmother" in the wedding guests...
This plot, I don't know if everyone is confused.
Anyway, Xiangyu was stunned.
Why set a beauty to be bald?
Silver-haired grandmother, what's going on again?
In fact, this is all related to the concept of this drama.
"Your Marriage Is Not Your Marriage" is produced by Taiwan Public Television, which has been constantly boutiqued in recent years.
It is a sister part of the 2018 word-of-mouth drama "Your Child Is Not Your Child".
The biggest selling point of this drama is that it inserts many sci-fi elements into the plot.
Therefore, it is called the Chinese version of "Black Mirror".
An An's baldness is related to the sci-fi setting of this story.
In the future human society, there is a terminal disease for women - "neutralization".
Once a woman reaches the age of 35 and is not pregnant, she will age rapidly.
The middle age of life disappears completely.
Scientists have developed a vaccine to prevent "neutralization".
However, the side effects of this vaccine are very large, and it can cause severe hair loss symptoms in some women.
The baldness of the heroine An An is the result of side effects.
Moreover, even if you are vaccinated, everything is not fine, and there is still a 20% probability that you will get sick.
An An, who is about to turn 35, is immersed in a huge sense of crisis every day.
On the one hand, "consumption" has entered the countdown to the attack, and An An must get pregnant as soon as possible.
But on the other hand, limited by the rules of family religion, she had to get married before she could get pregnant.
All kinds of pressures are superimposed, and none of them are from An An's inner voice.
In fact, she once fell in love with a girl and was ordered to separate by her family.
Later, An An was forced by "convulsions" to hold the above-mentioned chaotic wedding.
And the girl did not escape the onset and became a wrinkled grandmother with silver hair.
The two met at the wedding, but they were separated by the farthest distance in the world.
In the world where "neutralization" is widespread, such tragedies are not uncommon.
Women who choose not to have children due to factors such as life planning, marital views, and sexual orientation are directly deprived of the right to a normal life.
And those women who force themselves to give birth, although they are saved from overnight aging, can they live happily?
It is not difficult to see that this seemingly absurd story has a heavy core.
"Neutralization" is a fictional disorder and a wonderful metaphor for reality.
In a world without "neutralization", there is still a giant sword called "fertility pressure" hanging over women's heads.
Physiologically, childbirth implies pain and danger during pregnancy and childbirth, as well as possible sequelae.
Psychologically, maternal punishment brings great mental pressure to women, and life planning is disrupted.
More extreme cases are those that are on the hot social news.
Not long ago, a shocking video circulated.
A man punched and kicked his wife, with such a force that people were terrified.
During the beating, he uttered a vicious word: "Reverse, reverse!"
It is reported that the man beat the nursing object.
At the time of the beating, the discouraged women still held their newborn children in their hands.
Whenever such incidents are exposed, one of the most common words that appear in the comment area is "fear of education".
And the story of An An told by "Your Marriage Is Not Your Marriage" has achieved an effect similar to social news.
It concretizes women's fertility fear.
Use individual experiences to outline the pressure that the group bears.
In reality, there are many women who are like An An in the play.
At the same time of "fear of fertility", but also forced by fertility pressure, had to give birth.
Because in the construction of women's value by society and culture, the value of childbirth still accounts for a considerable proportion.
Even dancers like Yang Liping will be criticized: not having children is too much of a failure.
You can imagine how suffocating the fertility pressure faced by ordinary women is.
Yang Liping's comments under the TikTok video
The most direct source of this fertility pressure is the concept of succession that has remained unchanged for thousands of years.
Especially in the face of parents' eagerness to give birth, how many women can be without fluctuations?
Some of them can't bear to break their parents' expectations with their own hands, and some don't want to "confront their strong parents."
In the play, An An is anxious to get married, not only because he is afraid of "consipation", but also because he does not want his father to think too much.
In addition, the "deification" of mothers in society is also a factor that cannot be ignored.
Mothers love their children, and they naturally give for their children out of sincerity.
But the greater the image of the mother is created, the more demanding the requirements for female fertility become.
And women who choose not to have children and not give up their lives for children are labeled as selfish, not once or twice.
It seems that no one has ever asked women if they are willing to be the embodiment of greatness.
Fertility stress is ingrained in our social culture.
At present, it is difficult to solve or even unsolvable.
However, women's "fear of fertility" is not impossible to improve and alleviate.
The key is to face up to the cost women pay for having children.
A few days ago, a video was chilling.
The mother in the video asks the child: Why do you tell your father that your mother is lazy?
The child replied that because Mom asked Dad to do housework when she went to bed last night, and Dad worked for a day.
The rest of the conversation gradually became off.
The little boy saw his mother's care of him as effortless and worthless.
In his mind, only those who work outside the home have the right to speak.
There are many people who think this way.
Women's commitment to the family, especially in childcare, is vastly underestimated.
Another story in "Your Marriage Is Not Your Marriage" touches on this topic.
In the play, the husband earns money as a dentist, and the wife takes her two children to England for further study.
After graduating with a doctorate, his wife hopes to find a job in the UK to beautify her resume.
But the husband insisted that his wife return immediately.
The wife noticed her husband's mood swings and rushed home during the winter vacation.
But talking face-to-face doesn't bring the two closer together.
In the same room, the gap between the two became more and more irreparable.
In a fierce argument, the husband said the words hidden in his heart:
He believes that his wife's future has no place for him at all, but is just using his money.
If his wife insists on returning to England, he will not give her any more financial support.
From the husband's point of view, he only sees his wife spending his money.
But forget that the wife's care of children takes a lot of time and effort.
"Labor and housework are not free."
If their labor is not recognized and their contributions are not respected, women's "fear of fertility" will always exist.
An An's story Finally, with the help of technology, she successfully became pregnant before the age of 35 and gave birth to a son.
However, instead of being relieved, he slipped into deeper sorrow.
Every day, she uses high-tech products to change the world in her eyes, replacing her husband's face with the look of her lover.
Only such self-deception can sustain life.
Finally, she lived a happy family of three in the eyes of outsiders.
But what the price of "happiness" is, only she knows.
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