There is such an actress who has just debuted, at first running dragon sets, always playing some small roles, always passing in front of the camera, she dreams of becoming a big star.
At that time, she often stood outside the crowd, looking at the photos of the stars, from the last row to the first row, her eyes fell on the female stars sitting in the middle of the front row...
She longs to sit in the first row, to sit in the middle of this position, to desire the focus of photography and video, to desire the flash of magnesium lights...
Finally one day, her wish came true, but before it succeeded—
She forgot the person standing behind her,
She cursed the people around her,
She pulled away the people around her,
She stepped on the people who walked with her,
She pulled down the man who was running alongside her...
Soon, she was short-lived, becoming a second line and a third line, or even a fourth line and a five line, until kurama was snubbed in front of the door, until no one paid attention to her existence, until the end of "tragedy"...
For the battle for fame and fortune in society, the dispute over the C position in the entertainment industry is only the classic details of the life drama. Just like the public space squeezing a seat, the queue when the queue is long, etc., it is all people's acquisition or competition for various resources.
This is true when material conditions are poor, and it is also true when material life is enriched.
This is especially true for the pursuit of success.
Because human desire seems to be endless.
Success itself is relative.
For example, if you are a substitute, you are very satisfied, and the selected team shows that you are good;
For example, if you start, no matter how long you play, it means that you have gained recognition and trust;
For example, although you are not the main scorer, but the hard work of the defender, you do a good job...
But if you look at it from another perspective, you may be spoiled:
For example, you are a substitute - that is, a sad cold bench member, a "water dispenser administrator";
Although you started, you are always entangled in why the main player is not me, and you can't integrate with the team;
Although you are a defender, you always fantasize about scoring the main attack in front of you, because you want to be the core and occupy the c position in the team...
If every member of the team thinks so, the team will not succeed, or even run.
People dream of success, which is the driving force of social development.
But success is not a squeeze, not a force, not a robbery.
Everyone's life has a basic disk, and it is necessary to grasp the positioning of life. Especially the basic positioning of being a human being.
Life needs to stand in its basic position in order to truly stand on the foundation of success.
In fact, everyone has their own C position, but many people do not feel, do not cherish, and do not realize to stand in their own C position.
For example, for parents, you are a child;
For children, you are the parent;
For the husband, you are the wife;
For the wife, you are the husband;
For superiors, you are subordinates;
For subordinates, you are superiors;
For classmates, you are the same window
For colleagues, you are partners;
For friends, you are friends...
Each of the above related characters is your own C bit. Even if it is a subordinate, the subordinate is its own C bit. You need to stand up first —
For parents, you have to be good children;
For children, you have to be a good parent;
For husbands, you have to be a good wife;
For the wife, you have to be a good husband;
For superiors, you have to be a good subordinate;
For subordinates, you have to be a good superior;
For classmates, you have to be a good classmate;
For colleagues, you have to be a good partner;
For friends, you have to be good friends...
We've all observed, or realized—
Even if it is born in a corner, even the smallest seed can grow leaves and blossom.
Even if it is very ordinary, as long as each sunflower meets the sun and tiptoes, it will form a brilliant sea of flowers in the field.
Even a large tree that requires several people to hug together needs to bury every root whisker deep into the earth in the process of its growth.
No matter what you do, the first thing is to do every role in life -
You have your C bit – stand up!
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