Cao Qing, a former CCTV hostess, once said this when she sued her rich husband Tu Zhongheng in the United States: "Do you believe it? My husband, Tu Zhongheng, threw me a pack of sanitary napkins and actually let me use them for a year. ”
In 2015, despite her family's objections, she gave up her great future and insisted on marrying an American billionaire 20 years older.
I thought that I would marry into a wealthy family, but after two years of marriage, I was repeatedly subjected to domestic violence and grounding by my husband, and I could only eat leftovers and expired food every day to fill my hunger.
At the beginning, she once swore and said: "CCTV salary is too low, I want to marry to the United States!" But after marriage, her husband was completely revealed, and Cao Qing's dream of becoming an American wealthy family was completely shattered!
When Cao Qing and her husband Tu Zhongheng went to court in the United States, it was only two years after she married into a wealthy family, which was embarrassing.
Did Cao Qing regret giving up her CCTV job and marrying into a wealthy family? She used her personal experience to vividly interpret that if you don't die, you won't die.
01 The talented CCTV Hua Dan
CCTV has been the dream work unit of many hosts, as the ceiling of China's hosting industry, if you can become a member of the CCTV hosting group, it means that your life has reached its peak.
Zhou Tao, Zhu Xun, Yang Lan, Dong Qing and other female hosts were all former hosts of the CCTV stage.
Even if Cao Qing cannot be compared with these star-studded host stars, she was also one of the popular female hosts of CCTV.
In 1978, Cao Qing was born in Suzhou City, Jiangsu, as a girl who grew up in Jiangnan Water Town, whether it is outside or personality, Cao Qing has a gentle temperament unique to southern girls.
Because Cao Qing showed a relatively outstanding literary and artistic talent when she was a child, her parents were determined to cultivate this only daughter well.
Cao Qing also did not live up to the ardent expectations of her parents and teachers, from elementary school to high school, she was the backbone of literature and art on campus, especially in hosting, she showed super talent.
During the college entrance examination, Cao Qing was admitted to the Communication University of China with excellent results, and Cao Qing's results have always been among the best in this university that trains journalists.
During her time in school, Cao Qing actively participated in school activities, and entered the music station of Beijing People's Radio in her freshman year, during which she had the honor of hosting the program "There is Love in the World", which began her hosting career.
In 1996, 18-year-old Cao Qing became a special reporter for China Education Television's "Reading Time".
After a year of training, she successfully entered the program "Fashion Zhuangyuan" on Beijing TV, and successively served as a location host and reporter.
Due to her strong English communication skills, Cao Qing often participates in some open forums jointly organized by famous universities, and these experiences have also become a valuable opportunity for her to become a popular host of CCTV in the future.
In 2002, Cao Qing participated in the forum co-sponsored by the School of Journalism and Communication of Tsinghua University.
At the time, the forum was unprecedented. Media professionals from all over the world, as well as experts and scholars from universities such as the United States and Hong Kong, China, plus the editor-in-chief of Asia Weekly, participated in the forum.
Cao Qing, as a media participant, was the first opportunity to ask questions. When she finished asking questions in fluent English, she won thunderous applause and praise from experts and scholars on site.
However, it stole the limelight of the organizers, and later Professor Li Xiguang of Tsinghua University said with emotion: "This student from Guangyuan is too capable of showing the limelight." ”
In 2002, Cao Qing entered Beijing TV with solid hosting skills and became the location host of the "Four Seas" column.
These valuable work experiences not only made Cao Qing very yearning for journalism and media work, but also increased her knowledge and broadened her horizons.
Cao Qing used her professional knowledge and generous hosting style to quickly gain a foothold on Beijing TV and become one of the audience's favorite hosts.
As Cao Qing's popularity became more and more high, the programs she hosted also began to attract the attention of CCTV. In 2006, Cao Qing, who was only 28 years old, was transferred to CCTV and began to host the program "Focus on Three Rural Areas".
"Focus on Three Rural Areas" is a "news flash" program, which requires the host to have more professional knowledge.
Cao Qing not only fully conforms to the hosting style of this show, but also has a great increase in ratings during her hosting of the show.
Compared with other CCTV gold medal programs, "Focus on Three Farmers" is a niche program, so Cao Qing's influence is much lower than Yang Lan and Dong Qing, but she has gradually won the favor of CCTV leaders with her solid hosting skills.
"Into Science" is one of the gold medal columns of CCTV prime time, and soon after Cao Qing entered CCTV, he was assigned by the leader to enter the column group and became the host of the program.
When Cao Qing hosted "Into Science", she left a very deep impression on the audience with her rigorous and funny hosting style.
During this period, Cao Qing met many friends in the hosting industry on CCTV, and also met some Bole who appreciated her. Therefore, her work in CCTV can be described as smooth, as long as she has every hope of becoming a good host like Yang Lan in time.
In 2008, as a well-known host of CCTV, Cao Qing presided over the "Wenchuan Earthquake Mourning Day" activity, and was the first to lead the masses to participate in the event, shouting "Come on China!" ”。
As Cao Qing's hosting skills and experience became more and more solid, she often spoke fluent English and interviewed some foreign dignitaries.
In September 2008, she interviewed the Ambassador of Jamaica and interviewed Usain Bolt the "Flyer". After this interview, Usain Bolt said in front of the media: "Cao Qing is my best friend in China. ”
For a while, Cao Qing's hosting career reached a peak that many people could not reach!
I have to say that Cao Qing has become a winner in life in the eyes of outsiders, and if she can continue to make efforts in the hosting industry, then her hosting career will go to a higher level.
However, just when fame and fortune were gained, Cao Qing met the first "Waterloo" in his life. But Cao Qing, who was in high spirits at that time, did not realize that the danger was quietly approaching.
And this man who ruined her life is the rich man Tu Zhongheng who Cao Qing did not listen to advice and had no hesitation in marrying.
02 Giants' dreams are shattered, and they ask for hardships
In 2015, "CCTV talent" Cao Qing was 37 years old when she married the American billionaire Tu Zhongheng, and Tu Zhongheng was already an old man who was almost a flower armor.
On the wedding day, there were many guests and celebrities, and the famous comedian Hou Yaohua personally served as a witness for them, which can be said to be a very beautiful wedding.
How brilliant Cao Qing smiled at the wedding, how miserable her married life was!
One is a popular female host of CCTV, and the other is a wealthy American businessman on the other side of the ocean, and the combination of the two seems to be advancing according to the pre-set script.
After all, CCTV beautiful hostesses married into wealthy families or married rich businessmen abounded, so Cao Qing was just following the old path of many people.
At that time, Tu Zhongheng, who was 20 years older than Cao Qing, fell in love with her at first sight, and then launched a crazy pursuit of Cao Qing regardless of the age difference. Luxury cars, famous bags, famous watches, and soon Cao Qing was smashed.
As a native Chinese girl, she has lived in an ordinary family all her life, even if she later entered CCTV through personal efforts and became a well-known female host in the limelight.
But where has Cao Qing seen this kind of scene?
Cao Qing, who fell into the gentle countryside, did not realize that this so-called luxurious wedding, as well as this marriage between a beautiful woman and a rich businessman, was an outright scam from the beginning.
Regardless of the obstruction of her relatives and friends, she resolutely resigned from CCTV, gave up a good hand, and was determined to marry this rich American businessman, but was soon slapped in the face.
According to public information, Tu Zhongheng, a wealthy American businessman, is a general practitioner in Palm Valley, in addition to which he has also invested in real estate and is a wealthy man.
In order to marry Tu Zhongheng, Cao Qing did not hesitate to resign as the CCTV female host she had fought for for 15 years, and returned to the United States to live with her husband Tu Zhongheng after marriage.
But to her surprise, this was also the beginning of her nightmare! But Cao Qing, who was deposited in happiness at that time, did not realize at all that she had become Tu Zhongheng's "prey".
Cao Qing wanted to return to the United States with her husband to live a wealthy life, so she also made a big statement: "CCTV has a low salary, it can't give me the life I need, and only by marrying into the United States can I live a good life." ”
However, when Cao Qing married into the United States, not only did she not live the life of a wealthy lady with no worries about food and clothing, but even her basic survival could not be guaranteed.
Tu Zhongheng first appeared as a "prey", deceived Cao Qing's feelings, and when he returned to the United States, he immediately revealed his original form. It vividly shows the brutality of "hunters" to "prey".
Since Tu Zhongheng grew up in the United States and Cao Qing lived in China before marrying him, there are great cultural differences between the two people, which in turn leads to a conflict of values.
According to the photos and videos sent by Cao Qing on social platforms, not only is her body thin, her face is haggard, and her skin is often bruised and purple, which is evidence of Tu Zhongheng's violence against her.
The once radiant Cao Qing, after marrying a wealthy American businessman, not only looked like an old woman, but also became a wealthy and grudge.
According to Cao Qing's revelations, there were often conflicts between her and Tu Zhongheng over some small things, and sometimes she was punched and kicked by Tu Zhongheng after just a few words.
What's more, Tu Zhongheng even imprisoned her in a room, providing only some leftovers or expired food to feed her. This is simply naked abuse, Cao Qing called himself deceived!
Under the torture of Qu Zhongheng, Cao Qing was almost like two people before and after marriage. From a spirited and glorious CCTV female host, she became a victim of abuse.
Judging from the photos released by Cao Qing, she has become scrawny and dull because of long-term malnutrition and abuse.
I can't imagine that this is still the CCTV beautiful host?
After many people learned the news, they were indignant for Cao Qing. However, some netizens believe that Cao Qing is self-inflicted, not wanting to work with CCTV, but marrying a psychopathic American old man.
03 Sued her husband for domestic violence in the United States
After suffering domestic violence and abuse for a long time, Cao Qing finally couldn't bear to take her American husband Tu Zhongheng to court. According to reports, a Los Angeles court accepted the case.
Cao Qing sued her husband in court for abusing herself, and said that since coming to the United States, she not only had nothing but also been grounded by her husband. During the lockdown, her husband only gave her food related to expired leftovers.
However, after the trial, the female judge rejected the argument that the two parties accused each other of domestic violence, and pointed out that this was only a general marital conflict, and did not involve domestic violence at all.
This "strange case" was a sensation in the United States, as early as July 2017, Cao Qing continued to break out on the Internet, about Tu Zhongheng's refusal to let her eat and frequent domestic violence against her.
At the time, she had also called "119" and was taken to the hospital by the police for treatment. After this turmoil, Tu Zhongheng not only did not restrain his temper, but abused Cao Qing more and more frantically.
Even in August of the same year, Tu Zhongheng loudly threatened to kill Cao Qing when he was violent to her, and then the couple both applied for a "prohibition order".
Later, the Lancaster High Court sent mediators to mediate between Cao Qing and Tu Zhongheng, but neither party accepted mediation.
After the trial, Cao Qing told the female judge, a former Chinese CCTV host who was treated as a housewife after marrying into the United States. Since she couldn't drive, her freedom was restricted when she came to the United States.
There is also that she can't stand her husband's excessive picking, and a pack of sanitary napkins actually let her use it for a year.
What makes her even more unbearable is that Tu Zhongheng often subjected her to domestic violence and abuse. He also drove her to a deserted suburb after domestic violence and left her to fend for herself.
In addition, Tu Zhongheng also implemented "PUA" on Cao Qing, trying to control her spirit and insult her personality.
According to Ms. Cao Qing's testimony in court, she mentioned that Tu Zhongheng had thrown her a dollar and told her it was pocket money for one year.
And Tu Zhongheng accused Cao Qing of not only refusing to do housework after marriage, but also not wanting to learn to drive at all, which made him unbearable.
In fact, from Cao Qing's personal experience, it is understandable to pursue her own happiness, but she is not a person.
In order to fulfill her dream of marrying into an American wealthy family, she lost her hatred for thousands of years! From a "CCTV talented girl" to a victim in a wealthy marriage, it is sad to think about.
To this day, the case of Cao Qing and Tu Zhongheng is still inconclusive, but the two are still tearing each other apart. Cao Qing has exposed battered photos many times, but Tu Zhongheng flatly denied it.
Cao Qing, who is alone in the United States, has no job, no savings, and no backers, so he can only swallow this bitter fruit that is difficult to swallow.
Conclusion
When she was young, Cao Qing devoted herself to her career, and through unremitting efforts, she eventually became a much-anticipated "CCTV talent".
At the age of 37, she seems to have met the true love of her life, but this is the beginning of her nightmare. How beautiful it used to be, how embarrassing it was after marrying into the United States.
Is Cao Qing's experience very miserable? At least the vast majority of people do not sympathize with her, in order to realize their "American dream", do not listen to dissuasion and insist on going their own way, is it not self-inflicted and cannot live?
Does she regret it now? Unhappy, she began to sell miserable sympathy on the Internet again.
When she got married, did she ever think of today? For her, the best salvation is to eat and grow wise.