Original title: The woman died when her husband died when she was four months pregnant, and the little uncle begged his sister-in-law to marry him in order to protect his brother's bloodline
Whether the child should be born or not, there will be different answers from different angles, the wishes of pregnant women should be respected, and no one should be morally kidnapped.
No mother has the patience to have children, but it is a relatively easy path to choose considering the actual situation. Whenever the financial conditions allow, there are people who help with the children, and I believe that they will keep the children.
I am afraid that some in-laws' families are not authentic, begging their daughter-in-law to give birth to a child, but after giving birth, they do not care, and can only let a single mother take the child alone.
A woman in Anhui encountered such a situation, when she was four months pregnant, her husband died unexpectedly, and the little uncle knelt down to beg her sister-in-law to marry him in order to leave her brother's bloodline.
The woman's name is Xiaorou (pseudonym), and her husband Ah Wei (pseudonym) are in free love. The conditions of Ah Wei's family are not good, but people are very motivated, they can also endure hardships, and they are also good to Xiaorou, which has been recognized by his mother-in-law.
Ah Wei also has a younger brother, his parents have limited ability and cannot afford to buy a marriage house, so Xiaorou's parents gave them a down payment for a house so that they could live a good life.
Half a year after marriage, Xiaorou became pregnant, the little two were very happy, and Ah Wei worked harder and prepared to welcome the arrival of a new life.
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However, there are unforeseen storms and clouds, and people have bad luck, just when Xiaorou was four months pregnant, Ah Wei had a serious car accident because of fatigue driving, and the person was gone on the spot.
Xiaorou suffered the pain of losing her husband, and the child in her belly was not born without a father, and the whole person collapsed, not knowing where to go in the future.
Parents and Xiaorou carefully analyzed that instead of letting their children grow up in a single-parent family, it is better to re-plan their lives while they are young, and the children should not stay, otherwise she will work hard and the children will not be happy.
And the in-laws naturally hoped that Xiaorou could give birth to the child, and begged her with a handful of snot and tears, and must leave a queen for Ah Wei, and not waste their husband and wife.
Xiao Rou was in a dilemma, and when he was hesitating, Xiao Shuzi came to the house to find him, and as soon as he entered the door, he knelt down for her and asked Xiao Rou to marry him, and he would treat the child as if it were his own.
The in-laws nodded repeatedly, feeling that this idea was particularly good, her own uncle must be more reliable than others, and she didn't have to worry about her stepfather being bad for the child.
Before he finished solving the problem of leaving the child, he encountered the matter of the little uncle asking for a marriage, which made Xiaorou even bigger, how could the marriage matter be so hasty? She has no feelings for the little uncle at all, how can she marry the little uncle for the sake of the child in her belly?
Netizen comments
Some netizens commented that they can marry Xiao Shuzi, and their classmates married their sister-in-law after his brother died, and now their family is very happy.
Some netizens commented that there are not many men with such heavy feelings, so get married, for the husband you go to, and for the sake of giving the child in your belly a complete home.
There are also netizens who commented that it is better to marry someone else than to marry a little uncle, he will hurt you, he will also hurt your children, for the sake of the deceased husband, but also to leave the children.
The author's opinion
When Xiaorou was four months pregnant, her husband died unexpectedly, and the child could not give birth to problems. For her sake, her parents advised her that long pain is better than short pain, ruthlessly not to have children, and can meet a suitable marriage in the future.
The in-laws' family naturally hoped that she could give birth to the child, but they had limited ability and could not help materially, and they did not even have the energy to help bring the child.
Knowing that such a situation was not conducive to his family, the little uncle resolutely begged to marry his sister-in-law, hoping that her sister-in-law could keep the child and raise them together.
The reality is here, what kind of decision to make, Xiaorou has to think clearly by herself. Marriage can't be exquisite, if she can accept the little uncle, it is also a good choice.