The protagonist of the story is a lady who is already a mother of 3 children. She went to the hospital to induce labor.
She asked the doctor suspiciously: I am all on the ring, how can I still get pregnant?
The doctor couldn't say why.
After preoperative confirmation, the doctor began the operation, and he was surprised to find that a foreign body was stuck in the woman's vagina, causing the cervical opening to not expand.
In the face of repeated inquiries from doctors, the woman said that she had picked up a spring while working in the workshop, washed it and put it in her body, which she thought would achieve a contraceptive effect.
It turns out that this is what she called "Sheung Ring"... Not only was the doctor stunned at the time, but I also refreshed my understanding again. Not only was the doctor stunned at the time, but I also refreshed my understanding again.
This woman's case, although one sighing and one shocking, but in the final analysis, is inseparable from the lack of sex education.
Especially after seeing a set of data, you will find that even in today's open era, the ignorance of sex among boys and girls is still not an isolated case, and a survey of 4 middle schools in Chongqing by China Sex Science magazine shows:
76.1% of junior high school students do not know the harm of "human flow";
67.3% of junior high school students and 45.5% of high school students are ignorant of contraception;
61.1% of junior high school students and 53.6% of high school students do not know how to prevent STIs;
64.6% of junior high school students and 48.2% of high school students do not know how to prevent sexual assault.
Thinking back to when we were young, almost all children were "picked up in the garbage heap" in the mouth of their parents, so that every time I passed the garbage can, I couldn't help but look at my "origin" twice... For children's curiosity, parents generally prevaricate with a sentence of "you are still young".
Family education is basically blank, and school education is not much better. In elementary school, our understanding of sex mainly stops at the level of "men and women should go to the toilet separately". In middle school, the so-called sex education is an extra book on physical hygiene, and the teacher also asks him to go home and read it.
By the age of 18, most people's sex education seems to have turned to movie and television halls and game rooms, some rely on the Internet to download at home, and some well-known AV female stars in Japan have become the "enlightenment teachers" of Chinese sex education...
So the sex education of our generation, in the end, mainly relies on "self-exploration, self-taught, because our generation has not received this kind of formal education since childhood, many people often have psychological barriers when facing children, do not know how to speak." Fortunately, nowadays, the whole society has paid more and more attention, and there are more and more ways to tell us how to talk to children about "sex".
See how people in India do it, Indian textbooks or special TV series for adults to discuss with children.
India's Father and Son Sex Teaching is also a good miniseries that explores serious children's sex education in a comical and funny way.
The mother of 7-year-old boy Pap is about to give birth to a second child. Outside the hospital, he threw a big question to his father - dad, how was the baby born?
The father did not choose to listen to the grandfather's opinion, saying that the child was a gift from God, nor did he think of perfunctory past, but very seriously introduced the child in an easy-to-understand way.
Unexpectedly, the child continued to ask unyieldingly, and the father could only break it and knead it and continued.
Anand is an enlightened and wise "father", he discusses "sex" with children, so that children understand those "sensitive" issues from an early age, and establish a correct concept of sexuality, of course, thanks to the fact that India has such a good script, in fact, when we educate children, when encountering unspeakable problems, picture books are a particularly good aid, in addition, some animations and videos are also good choices. A while ago, a fun short film for children's sex education in Japan "Life Birth Story" was filmed like an epic, interspersed with inspirational and love plots in anime, which is interesting and impressive!
The problem of sex education of our countrymen, there are still some college graduates, even graduate students who are married, and they can't have children for a few years, and then go to the hospital to find out the reason, it turns out that the woman is still a virgin, they think that they can get pregnant by holding hands .......
Sex education is actually a common topic, after reading so many shocking data, I feel that this problem is still worth taking out, and then discuss with you, I don't know what kind of good methods you have in terms of sex education for children, or some confusion, even if you complain about what is missing in the current school education, you are welcome to leave a message.
This is not the other, and I hope that such a tragedy will not happen again.