In 1993, Hong Kong media broke out that the rich Lin Jianyue spent a huge amount of 30 million yuan to buy a mansion just for the smile of King Bo Zuxian,
I also want to divorce my wife Xie Lingling for her.
Everyone is waiting to see Xie Lingling's joke,
Lin Jianyue's mother came forward to say that she only recognized Xie Lingling, the daughter-in-law.
Just when everyone was admiring Xie Lingling's status in the palace that would never fall,
Xie Lingling took the initiative to file for divorce and left the Lin family with her children.
28 years have passed,
How is Xie Lingling doing now, and how are her children?
01 Orchids that bloom in suffering families
In 1956, the Xie family welcomed their sixth child,
Although there are many ordinary children in the family,
But Xie Lingling has a well-behaved and obedient personality, plus a delicate little face like a doll,
Even after Xie Lingling, her parents gave birth to three more children, and their hearts inevitably favored Xie Lingling.
In 1964 good luck landed on this poor family,
The movie "Cousin Wanjun" wants to recruit young actors who were young to Wanjun in childhood,
"Cousin Wanjun" is a movie adapted from Qiong Yao's short story "Wanjun",
Although the space is small, it is very valued because this is Qiong Yao's first adapted work.
After Xie Lingling learned about this from the neighbors, she rushed home and begged her parents to take her to sign up.
The parents who have always loved their children answered Xie Lingling's request and answered.
In the evening, Xie Lingling's mother asked her husband's thoughts: "What do you think?" Do you really want Lingling to act in the future? ”，
"Where can it, who doesn't know about the selection of actors now,
I look at the hundreds of children to choose, although we are beautiful,
I can also go to school honestly from an early age, unlike other people's children who learn this and that from an early age.
Besides, Lingling is usually so obedient,
It's rare to say that you want to do something, how can you not agree. Xie Lingling's father said,
"Well, I'm afraid you really have the mind to let Lingling act,
But if she didn't choose, I'm afraid Lingling would cry again. ”。
"It's okay, little one, it's fresh for a while, stop for a few days and forget about it,
Okay, go to sleep, I'll sign up tomorrow..."
On the day of registration, the scene was crowded,
Xie Lingling's father asked her mother to wait outside, picked up Xie Lingling and squeezed into the crowd.
The result was beyond everyone's expectations, and 8-year-old Xie Lingling defeated thousands of her peers to become the actor of "Xiao Wanjun".
Xiao Wanjun stills
Qiong Yao was very satisfied with the casting of "Xiao Wanjun",
She commented on Xie Lingling: "She is so beautiful, the whole person seems to be carved out of crystal,
Her skin is fair, and she looks almost transparent in the sun!
I've never seen such a beautiful little girl! ”。
Since then, many of Qiong Yao's dramas have named Xie Lingling to play the female number one,
Xie Lingling is also known as the original "Qiong Girl".
Xie Lingling feels that acting, although she doesn't like it so much,
But it can not only subsidize the family, but also make parents like themselves more, why not do it?
But Xie Lingling herself did not expect that she could actually win the Golden Horse Child Star Award with "Xiao Wanjun".
With this award, soon some directors began to contact themselves, hoping that they could star again,
What no one expected was that a year later, Xie Lingling actually won the Golden Horse Child Star Award again with "My Daughter Ruolan".
With two consecutive Golden Horse Awards and Qiong Yao's evaluation of her, Xie Lingling's acting career is smooth.
Only so young to win the Golden Horse Award twice,
How many old actors can't get it once in a lifetime.
It can be said that Xie Lingling at that time was optimistic about the entire Taiwanese entertainment industry,
Everyone thinks that she will definitely become a superstar in the future,
Everyone is waiting for what kind of answer Xie Lingling will hand over later.
Even Lin Qingxia, who is eight years younger than Xie Lingling, said when she first debuted that Xie Lingling was her idol,
But it's a pity that Xie Lingling as an adult was not as dazzling as everyone imagined,
Interestingly, this person who failed to make Xie Lingling shine was Lin Qingxia.
Lin Qingxia and Lin Fengjiao, who debuted later than her, were called "Er Lin" by the media,
They "occupy" almost all the heroines of film and television dramas,
As long as they are there, other female stars can only compete for female number two
Lin Qingxia and Lin Fengjiao
But even so, Xie Lingling is still favored by the public,
Just when everyone was waiting to see Xie Lingling and "Er Lin" fighting,
But the news came out that Xie Lingling quit the entertainment industry and got married.
02 Give up your career and join the billionaires
Xie Lingling's beauty makes her side never lack suitors,
Lin Jianyue is not good-looking, but he is the son of Lin Baixin, the founder of Lai Sun Group,
A veritable rich second generation.
In front of Xie Lingling, Lin Jianyue also perfectly demonstrated his "banknote" ability,
Going out to shop, Xie Lingling took a few more looks, Lin Jianyue waved his big hand, and he wanted to buy the whole store,
Every date to eat must be in the most high-end restaurant, and the venue must be cleared so that Xie Lingling can see him at first sight,
Flowers, luxury cars, diamonds and more.
Xie Lingling, who grew up under the love of her parents, can hold this battle,
He thought he had met true love and said that he would marry him in everything.
Xie Lingling went home and told her parents that she was going to marry Lin Jianyue,
Xie Lingling, who thought that her parents would agree, was rejected.
"Why? I like him why can't I marry him?
Didn't you also get married because you love each other? Xie Lingling cried,
Xie Lingling's mother was also helpless: "Love? Where did you fall in love?
Lingling, we are an ordinary family, because you work hard outside, the life at home is a little better,
What kind of family is he, the son of a billionaire in Hong Kong, and there is no place to say if you are wronged in the future. ”
But Xie Lingling, who has been blinded by love, can't listen to her parents' advice,
Seeing that they did not agree, Xie Lingling wanted to marry Lin Jianyue more and more.
Xie Lingling did not think about tea and rice at home every day, washing her face with tears,
Xie Lingling's parents finally couldn't bear their daughter's infatuation, and nodded and agreed to their daughter's marriage.
Xie Lingling announced her retirement from the entertainment industry and married away from Taiwan to Hong Kong.
After entering the Lin family, I thought it would be like in the TV series,
Father-in-law will dislike her for being a star before,
But I didn't expect them to accept themselves quickly,
Especially mother-in-law Yu Baozhu.
Although Lin Jianyue's mother Yu Baozhu is only Lin Baixin's second-room wife,
But it's a good helper in his work.
Yu Baozhu has a strong personality and says nothing.
Although Lin Jianyue took over his father's family business in the later period, Yu Baozhu was the real head of the family in the Lin family.
In the second year after marriage, Xie Lingling gave birth to their eldest son, Lin Xiaoxian,
In the following years, she gave birth to four children in a row, including a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
Xie Lingling's continuous childbirth made Yu Baozhu very distressed,
She advised Xie Lingling to take good care of her body, and the child will have it in the future.
Yu Baozhu also asked Xie Lingling to learn investment with herself, so that she had enough confidence,
But Xie Lingling refused, she felt that the child was still too young and could not be separated from people,
Coupled with the fact that he has been acting since he was a child, he has not studied very well,
If the investment is wrong, I am afraid that Lin Jianyue will not be happy.
But the mother-in-law is kind to herself, and Xie Lingling also understands that in addition to taking care of the children,
Xie Lingling has been following Yu Baozhu.
Yu Baozhu must take Xie Lingling with her no matter what she does,
Although Xie Lingling said that she would not learn, she was by her side for all the decisions she made about the family business.
The problem of having a bad relationship with my in-laws that I was most worried about before marriage did not happen,
Instead, he was like a mother and daughter with Yu Baozhu, just when Xie Lingling felt that her life was complete,
Her husband Lin Jianyue gave her a fatal blow.
03 The reality of giving up your career
Lin Jianyue has always wanted to develop the company in the direction of entertainment, and in 1991, he succeeded,
But with the success of his career, Lin Jianyue began to spread scandals from three to five places.
At first, Xie Lingling didn't believe it, but as Lin Jianyue returned home later and later, she gradually became impatient with herself,
Often staying up at night, Xie Lingling understands that her love is over.
But love is over, marriage is not over, and there are so many children.
Xie Lingling can only lie to himself, he is playing tricks outside, be patient.
In 1993, Lin Jianyue made a big scandal outside,
At that time, TVB executives went to Taiwan to work and accidentally found Wang Zuxian, and he invited Wang Zuxian to go to Hong Kong for development.
Wang Zuxian's "jade girl" face, coupled with the strong support of TVB executives behind it, naturally became popular immediately.
Lin Jianyue fell in love with Wang Zuxian as soon as he saw her, and pursued Wang Zuxian madly despite his marriage,
Roses, luxury cars, diamonds, houses.......
Once chased Xie Lingling's trick, this time it was used on Wang Zuxian,
Even publicly stated in front of the media that as long as Wang Zuxian was willing, he could divorce immediately.
As soon as these words came out, Xie Lingling's illusion was finally punctured, and she could no longer lie to herself,
And Lin Jianyue still used the tricks he used to chase himself,
Just when Xie Lingling had an emotional breakdown, Yu Baozhu stood up,
She spoke publicly for Xie Lingling and scolded Wang Zuxian for destroying other people's families.
As soon as these words came out, Wang Zuxian was so ashamed that he withdrew from the entertainment industry, and he has not returned to Canada so far.
The mother-in-law spoke for herself, Xie Lingling was of course grateful and moved,
But after so many years, he and Lin Jianyue have no feelings for a long time.
She decided to divorce Lin Jianyue.
"Jianyue, let's divorce." Xie Lingling, who finally waited for Lin Jianyue to return, calmly said to him,
Lin Jianyue was like a cat whose tail was stepped on, and he directly broke out:
"What? What else do you want, my mother helped you talk like this, my face is lost, you don't have to step in. ”
Seeing that they were about to quarrel, Yu Baozhu quickly interrupted them:
"Okay, okay, you lost face outside, how can you get angry with Lingling when you come back, go back to your room."
After Lin Jianyue returned to the house, Xie Lingling walked to Yu Baozhu and knelt down with a "plop",
"Good boy, what's wrong with that? You hurry up. Yu Baozhu was shocked,
"Mom, I know that you have been kind to me over the years, and I am not an ungrateful person, but you can also see Jianyue's current appearance.
I used to be able to fool myself that he was just playing tricks, but now he says that kind of thing.
How can I stay in this house, don't I have dignity?
Do we want the children to grow up knowing that their father is making such a fuss outside, and we won't divorce?
Don't I deserve the respect of others, Mom, please, let's divorce," Xie Lingling cried,
Hearing this, Yu Baozhu couldn't help but hold Xie Lingling and cry together.
In the same year, Xie Lingling and Lin Jianyue agreed to separate, and two years later, they officially divorced, ending the 15-year marriage.
During the separation, Xie Lingling has been studying business with Yu Baozhu, and Yu Baozhu has been helping Xie Lingling plan her future life,
She planned the future for Xie Lingling, and even asked Lin Jianyue to give Xie Lingling 70 million yuan in alimony,
Lin Jianyue delayed the 70 million yuan of maintenance again and again, no way, Xie Lingling went to Yu Baozhu and begged her to give her justice.
Unexpectedly, Yu Baozhu directly asked Xie Lingling to go to the court to sue Lin Jianyue, and if he didn't give money, he would let the court enforce it,
Faced with the united front of his own mother and ex-wife, Lin Jianyue had no choice, so he had to pay the maintenance fee.
04 Raising children alone
After the divorce, Xie Lingling moved with several children,
During the day, she is still the gentle mother of the children,
At night, she always lost sleep, thinking of the tantrum with her parents when she was young in order to marry Lin Jianyue, and she regretted it even more.
Unable to sleep, Xie Lingling began to read, astronomy and geography, business psychology, what books to read, what books to read,
I also enrolled in an English class to study English.
Gradually, Xie Lingling also walked out of the shadow of divorce, taking the breakup fee to a shop,
She used the method that Yu Baozhu gave her, but failed, and she lost a lot of money.
Yu Baozhu comforted Xie Lingling after knowing it:
"You still have no experience in this aspect, what decision to make in the future, first ask me, I will help you check the gate,
However, business matters are originally incomprehensible, and it is normal to make a profit and lose money. ”
After repeated practice, Xie Lingling also began to become a veteran in business,
Yu Baozhu watched her hand over, and Xie Lingling was also very pleased.
。 With money, Xie Lingling did not want to enjoy it herself, but used it all to cultivate her children.
She raised her children separately according to their personalities, some to study business, others to study art.
But perhaps because of their childhood experiences, the love life of several children when they grow up is also learned.
The eldest son Lin Xiaoxian is as flowery as his father Lin Jianyue, and his first love is Ying Caier,
Later, he had an affair with Gillian, but he clarified that he was just an ordinary friend.
At the age of 30, in order to celebrate his birthday, Lin Xiaoxian chartered 11 speedboats to go to sea together, and also brought 100 models.
But in recent years, Lin Xiaoxian began to cultivate his self-cultivation and entered the company to work, and there were no more scandals.
The eldest daughter Lin Tian'er has frequently appeared in the entertainment gossip page of the newspaper for a long time,
But Lin Tian'er later fell in love with Sing Tao News Group's crown prince He Zhengde at first sight, and there has been no negative news since.
Now the two have a son and a daughter, and they are also happy.
The second daughter, Lin Xin'er, studied fashion design in the UK, and then went to the United States to study psychology.
The third daughter, Lin Ai'er, graduated from the law department of the Chinese University in Hong Kong and went to the UK to continue her law studies and later completed her doctoral program.
Lin Ai'er originally wanted to be a teacher,
But Xie Lingling hoped that she could enter the company to help her brothers and sisters, and Lin Aier entered the company from Xie Lingling's idea,
But she started as an ordinary employee and is now a senior vice president of the company, and she has suffered a lot along the way.
The youngest son, Lin Xiaoneng did not cause any trouble, and when he grew up, he also smoothly entered the company to work, and is now an assistant vice president.
Now that several children have grown up, their relationship with Lin Jianyue is not very harmonious,
Although Xie Lingling did not say anything bad about Lin Jianyue, they all watched how their mother became increasingly emaciated.
The scandal between Lin Jianyue and Wang Zuxian is flying all over the world, even if Xie Lingling has the support of Yu Baozhu, she will inevitably be laughed at by others,
After the divorce, Xie Lingling lived alone with 5 brothers and sisters, and she would always be pointed at when she went out together.
After her children grew up, Xie Lingling learned to paint with Huang Junbi as a teacher, originally just to relieve the bitterness in her heart,
But as time passed, Xie Lingling felt the charm of painting and fell in love with painting,
Xie Lingling later held art exhibitions, donated her income to charity, and built many hope primary schools in the mainland.
In 2005, Lin Jianyue's father Lin Baixin passed away,
Yu Baozhu even monopolized the power, and once again publicly said that the Lin family only had Xie Lingling a daughter-in-law,
Seeing his mother so strong, Lin Jianyue couldn't help it, although his girlfriend was not broken but never married.
Xie Lingling said that she is a very lucky person, but her success is not just lucky, luck gave me the ticket,
And I keep working hard to enrich myself and add value to myself in order to get what I have now.
Although Xie Lingling and Yu Baozhu had no relationship legally after their divorce, their hearts were closer.
Every year on Yu Baozhu's birthday, Xie Lingling will appear on the scene,
On the group photo of the birthday party, Xie Lingling is also next to Yu Baozhu,
Lin Jianyue was absent several times, and even if he appeared, he was only standing in the back row.
Exchange sincerity for sincerity,
Xie Lingling's kindness to Yu Baozhu, Yu Baozhu is in her heart,
The suffering that Xie Lingling has suffered, Yu Baozhu has also written down,
And Yu Baozhu helped Xie Lingling in all aspects of life, how could he not let Xie Lingling be moved,
When I divorced, I would rather want Xie Lingling than a son, which made Xie Lingling grateful.
Conclusion
Today, Xie Lingling has been divorced from Lin Jianyue for 28 years,
Although Lin Jianyue has not broken a woman around him, he has made a matter of illegitimate daughter,
But there is no one by his side, Lin Jianyue has long passed the age of flower armor now,
Perhaps in the dead of night, I will miss the days when I had a wife and children by my side.
Xie Lingling's five children have successful careers and filial piety,
Although he was decadent after the divorce, he quickly cheered up,
With a huge amount of alimony, he did not sit on the mountain,
Instead, I'm always learning new things to improve my content.
No one's life can not make mistakes, know to stop the loss in time after mistakes, and strive to improve themselves,
From being ridiculed and abandoned by a wealthy woman in divorce to now being a wealthy woman, it is also inseparable from Xie Lingling's efforts over the years.
I also hope that Xie Lingling can continue her colorful life, and do not feel sorry for herself because of a momentary failure,
The turmoil and setbacks you have experienced will become beautiful flowers that bloom on you.