For women, love and wealth are like fish and bear paws, which have been difficult to reconcile since ancient times. Some people give up wealth for love, some people trample on love for wealth, life is always imperfect, this is the world's norm.
But there are exceptions. For there is no shortage of God's darlings in this world. For example, India's "first lady of business" Nita, she combines beauty, love, wealth in one, living in a palace-style mansion, full of gold and diamonds, as well as endless love words, and several lifetimes of wealth can not be spent... Such a woman, who does not envy jealousy and hate?
What exactly did Nita do right to make her so lucky? India's rich people are so high-profile and show off their wealth, why do the poor in India never hate the rich?
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" data-track="4" > the spoiled wife of India's richest man</h1>
If happiness can be measured by wealth, then Nita is undoubtedly one of the happiest women in the world because she is married to one of the richest men in the world, Mukesh Ambani.
In India, known as the "Rockefeller of India", the Ambani family has been known as the "Rockefeller of India", and its family business, Reliance Group, has been founded in 1959 for less than 62 years, but its business has covered a wide range of sectors such as textiles, energy exploration, petrochemicals, biopharmaceuticals, retail and digital services, making it the largest private family business in India. At one point, its assets amounted to 4% of India's gdp.
In 2002, the elder Ambani died, and his two sons officially succeeded him. Soon, the brothers turned against each other over the issue of inheritance and divided the family property. Eventually the eldest brother, Mukesh Ambani, inherited the mantle as a faithful successor, while the younger brother acquired some other possessions. After the separation of the two families, the wealth of the two has been selected as the top 20 of the world's richest list. The ability of faithfulness to create wealth is evident from this.
As the richest man in India, Muksh Ambani was very generous to his wife, what hundreds of thousands of shoes, hundreds of thousands of designer clothes, millions of sports cars... It's not a gift at all. Because he also gave his wife a unique Mercedes-Benz sports car with 300,000 diamonds, a private jet worth more than 10 million US dollars.....
And the most popular thing is that he built a building for his wife. Nita allegedly once said that she could see the whole of Mumbai if you wanted to be at home. So Mukesh spent $1 billion to build a 27-story, 173-meter-high luxury building in prime locations in Mumbai.
The building is larger than the Palace of Versailles in France and is known as "the most expensive mansion after Buckingham Palace". The interior has everything, the luxury is comparable to the royal palace, and now the estimated market value has doubled. The Mukesh family consisted of only 6 members, but there were as many as 600 servants who served them, and even the British princess lamented the pomp and circumstance.
However, the family did not live here for long before moving back to the old house. Some people say that the feng shui here is not good, and some people say that Muksh's mother does not like it here, so now the mansion is basically idle.
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" data-track="6" > beauty, not a pass to the giants</h1>
Beauty is a stepping stone for women to change the fate of the class, but it is not a pass to enter and exit the giants. Indeed, Nita's appearance is very outstanding, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it with a smile. But that wasn't enough to change her class fate and marry her into India's first family.
Nita was born into a middle-class family in India. In India, an ancient country with a strict caste system and hierarchical system, it is very difficult to break down class barriers, let alone the first magnate in India. So what is the reason for Nita's success?
First of all, it is because of her exquisite and beautiful dance talent. Most Indian girls can sing and dance, singing and dancing without a word, which has become the standard plot of Indian movies. Nita is a dancer with great dancing talent, and under the personal cultivation of her mother, a dance teacher, she has achieved outstanding results in dance performance at a very young age.
Because she was too beautiful and danced beautifully, Nita soon became a well-known dancer in the circle. After graduating from a prestigious business school, she often participates in dance performances at some high-end cocktail parties outside of work.
Once, when she came home from an important ball performance, she unexpectedly received a strange phone call. It turned out that at the ball, his future father-in-law, Dirubay Ambani, the founder of the Indian Reliance Group, met her at the ball and identified her as the best candidate for the daughter-in-law of the Ambani family. That's why he asked someone to call and called Nita herself.
After his bridge, Nita officially met her future husband, Now the head of the Reliance Group, Mukesh Ambani, a legendary businessman who has repeatedly become the richest man in Asia. Imagine if Nita was just a socialite who admired vanity or misbehaved, even if she was as beautiful as a flower, could the rich man who was a merchant choose her? Can she still marry into the rich and enjoy all kinds of graces?
Therefore, beauty is not the main factor for her to marry into the rich. What she can impress the two richest people must be the beautiful soul under her beautiful appearance.
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" data-track="8" > woman's happiness code</h1>
Once you enter the giants, it is as deep as the sea. If the average person marries into the rich, it is not only difficult to adapt to the rules of the giants, but also may be disliked by the husband and the family after a long time. But after Nita married Mukesh Ambani, she was able to squeeze the marriage to death. Although her husband is rich in the world, she can also let him spoil her and love him for decades.
They had been childless for up to five years. This matter is placed in the ordinary rich family, she basically can not escape the fate of being abandoned. But Mukesh never blamed his wife, and in 1987, when the technology was not yet mature, he chose IVF and successfully raised a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and later had a son.
So, many people not only have to ask, what is the superiority of Nita, not only to let her successfully marry into the rich, but also to ensure that the marriage does not deteriorate for a long time?
First of all, the first secret to running a marriage is to be attentive. Especially in the home of the giants, if you want to have a long-lasting feeling, then you have to work hard and impress each other with sincerity. After all, they pay more attention to spiritual appeals than to material desires that can be easily satisfied.
On Muksh's 50th birthday, Nita invited a famous Indian director to make a film documentary for him, telling the story of her husband's hard work since he took over the family business after the death of his father. As a result, Muksh was greatly touched when he received this birthday gift, and said, "Sure enough, you know me best"!
In addition, Nita has a very prominent ability - shrewdness. In the public perception, Nita is just a simple silly white sweet who only spends money to show off her wealth, but the real she is a very business-minded elite, a veritable helper.
Previously, when the brothers were competing for family property, Nita had helped her husband expand the company's industry, such as the company's strategy of opening a retail chain, which she came up with. At the same time, she also regularly organizes charity events to enhance the public image of her husband and family. For example, sponsoring public welfare activities and opening schools is to win glory for her husband, but also to enhance her own soft power.
As a result, she was also known as the "first lady of Indian business" and appeared on the cover of Forbes Asia magazine before her husband.
<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" data-track="10" > why don't the poor in India hate the rich? </h1>
The Muksh family is not only rich, but also very ostentatious. Muksh's pet wife is not to be said, and the luxurious scene of him marrying his daughter shocked the world even more.
The Mukeshs' daughter, Isa, had just turned one year old when they gave her a stake worth 660 million in the company. When their daughter got married, they also invited celebrities from all over the world, including American politician Hillary Clinton, and American diva Beyoncé, who is said to never take business roles. Local celebrities in India are basically on call.
The wedding cost more than $100 million, and hundreds of chartered planes were used to transport wedding guests alone. Its degree of luxury is higher than the British royal wedding that loves pomp and pageantry.
The life of India's richest man is so extravagant and high-profile, don't Indians scold the streets? You know, such a "high-profile" enterprise and boss in China will not live long. At that time, a Chinese coal boss spent 70 million yuan to marry a daughter, and the star lineup was comparable to the Spring Festival Gala, and the result was criticized by public opinion. Today, such bosses have long disappeared.
What's more, India is now the country with the largest number of poor people in the world. In previous years, it was said that there were 800 million poor people, but now with the widening gap between rich and poor and the impact of the new crown epidemic, it is estimated that there will only be more poor people in India.
There is an interesting passage on the Internet that says that india's population is actually less than 100 million, and the rest are livestock. Although it is an exaggeration to say that 1.2 billion Indians live like livestock, it can be felt in the news media and film and television works that India's poverty is shocking.
In stark contrast to poverty, India's rich are getting richer. In the past two years, Mucosh's total value has exceeded 80 billion US dollars, ranking 12th in the world and 1st in Asia. India's second-richest man, Gautam Adani, is also worth tens of billions of dollars in a year. In India and around the world, there are countless rich people like them who have soared in wealth in recent years.
The richer people are, the richer they are, the richer they are. This is the law of society. But rich is rich, low-key no one cares, but so ostentatious, so that the hearts of hundreds of millions of poor People in India can bear it?
But what is puzzling is that the poor in India are very peaceful, neither hating the rich nor making trouble. In other countries, so many poor people who are naked and hungry are piled together, it is easy to do illegal things, such as retaliating against society and kidnapping rich people.
This has a lot to do with the belief in religion in India. As we all know, India is the birthplace of Buddhism, and most of the Indians today are religious, believing in the religious ideas of karma and karmic reincarnation.
On the one hand, they do not think that the cruel exploitation of the rich has led to their poverty, they will only blame themselves for the sins they have created in their previous lives, and the suffering in this life is to eliminate karma, and it is deserved. So they don't blame the government, they don't blame the rich, and they don't have the extreme mentality of killing the rich and helping the poor.
In the same way, in order to avoid suffering in future lives, they will be good people in this life who will keep to themselves. Therefore, they will not choose to retaliate against society in an extreme way, but will only silently pray for the blessing of the gods to liberate themselves from the sea of suffering.
It is for this reason that India's poor and rich, between different castes, between different classes, can coexist peacefully and live side by side. And if the rich can do more charity, it will also increase their good feelings in the hearts of the poor and be revered as living bodhisattvas.
In fact, this kind of Indian people's "peaceful and happy way" has indeed played a great role in the peace and stability of India, a country with a strict caste and class system, but at the same time it has hindered India's development and progress. If Indians don't break the shackles of fatalism and eliminate caste hierarchies, then there will only be more and more poor people in India. Class barriers will be pressed against them like mountains, and they will never be able to turn over.