If Wang Baochuan is the originator of the love brain, then Mano is the ancestor of the "gold worship girl" said by netizens.
The phrase "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" put an ordinary girl on the cusp.
Since then, her life has been like a roller coaster, she has also worked hard and wants to change her fate, but the label of "gold worship girl" has always followed her.
In the end, she understood that only by putting aside her reputation and being herself steadily, can she have a perfect ending.
1
The girl was Ma Nuo, born on February 17, 1988, in a dilapidated old alley on the outskirts of Beijing, but she was not an authentic Beijinger.
In the early years, her parents came to Beijing from their hometown of Anhui to work in order to make a living, and in this bustling metropolis, they had no education and no skills, and it was not easy to find a job.
In the end, it was possible to rent a cheap stall and sell fruit for a living.
Born into such a family, Mano lived a childhood, which was limited everywhere because of poverty.
"Once I saw a little girl holding a very beautiful rag doll, how envious I was." Whenever she said this, she was always filled with wireless emotion and sadness.
The flaws of childhood can never be filled, and perhaps it is because she is fed up with poverty that she has a wireless thirst for money.
In the deepest memory of Mano , his heart that felt inferior because of poverty was always trembling, and he never wore a new dress before he worked, some of which was not worn for her, and some of which his parents picked up from the trash.
What made her feel inferior the most was that in the sixth grade, her shoes were already torn and her toes leaked out, but her mother had no money to buy them.
It rained that day, and when she came home, her feet were already soaked, and her mother handed her a pair of shoes: "Hurry up and change them." ”
Mano froze immediately, she was only in the 6th grade, and it was actually a pair of very old pointed heels, thinking that some of her classmates were wearing handsome sneakers, and some were wearing beautiful little leather shoes, but this...
"High heels are not allowed in school." Mano said gamblingly.
But her own shoes really couldn't be worn, wearing high heels, she limped to the school, and the classmates immediately came up:
"Be careful, don't get your feet down!"
"You want to be a bride, you actually put on high heels!"
......
After a burst of laughter, Mano couldn't wait to find a hole to get into, and finally, at the teacher's request, went home and changed into those torn and wet shoes.
Since then, she has had an infinite thirst for money, she also wants to have rag dolls, princess dresses, beautiful little leather shoes... She wants a lot of things, and what she wants most is the envious eyes.
Because of poverty, because of low self-esteem, because there is no one to guide her, her personality is not only introverted, her academic performance is not worth mentioning, she is almost transparent in the class, has no friends, and does not like the teacher.
Becoming beautiful is her biggest dream, and the most intoxicating thing every day is to look at her gradually open face in the mirror, which has faded and become more and more beautiful.
After graduating from high school, she applied for the Beijing Modern Music Academy, thinking about her dream of becoming a star in the future, and in this year, her father, the pillar of the family, passed away.
Poor families are even worse off at this time, but life goes on.
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After graduating from high school, Mano began to work part-time, working as a waitress, a model, and an amateur singer, and finally managed to make up for her tuition.
In September 2006, she walked into the university gates, and unlike other girls, she spent most of her remaining time making money except for her studies.
She was well-proportioned, beautiful, and had a sad and stubborn temperament, and she was self-sufficient, and during college, she never asked her mother for a penny of living expenses.
After graduating in 2009, he became a graphic model, knowing that Emano's conditions may be considered the best among ordinary people, but in the beautiful modeling industry, it is really not worth mentioning.
The income of newcomers is already very low, and the money they earn is deducted by the company, and there is very little left in their hands.
She couldn't even solve the problem of food and clothing, let alone rent a house, but fortunately, her cousin temporarily took her in, but just promised: "Let's move out when your salary is high in the future!" ”
But for two days a day, two months a month, Mano never improved her work, and that day she was just about to go to bed when she heard her cousin-in-law and her cousin arguing: "What you eat is mine, and let your relatives live here for nothing, do you think I am a charity?" ”
After all, we all understand the truth of "saving the emergency but not the poor", that day, Mano's sleepless night, and indescribable sadness welled up in his heart.
She didn't understand that she was obviously working hard, but why was she still living so down?
Thinking of one of her colleagues, just because there is money at home, there is a special person to pick up and drop off at work every day, and the clothes are the best, obviously the work is not good, the boss is still polite to her.
Look at yourself again, look everywhere at the face of the face, who said that fate is fair? If fairness was on her own, she decided to take a new path.
In the morning, when she saw her cousin come to her house with red eyes, she immediately understood everything, and she forced a smile and said: "I have found a place, and I didn't tell you yesterday when it was too late." ”
In front of her were two suitcases, and her cousin nodded: "Take care of yourself!" In fact, both of them understand each other's difficulties in their hearts, but neither has the ability to help anyone.
Dragging two large suitcases with two hands, walking through the bustling streets, she looked so out of place.
She really wanted to cry for a while, but what was the use of crying? Did she cry less before? But nothing has changed.
She has to look for opportunities to make a good life, after all, she has good looks and figure, doesn't she?
It wasn't until it was almost dark that she rented a single room, or a basement, and needless to say, the humidity was the key, rat cockroaches, which made her the most unbearable.
During the day she worked as a model, and at night she returned to the house of less than 10 square meters to heal herself and wait for an opportunity.
She has told herself more than once in her heart that no matter what method, as long as I have money, as long as I have money, I don't have to live this kind of life anymore.
For a young and beautiful girl, there are many ways to change her destiny, and the best way is marriage.
She decided to gamble once.
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In 2010, people met Mano, a young, beautiful and very bold girl, in Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" program.
On the stage, her changeable shape, bright and confident personality, and the girl who used to cry secretly are worlds apart, and because of her unique personality, she has attracted a lot of attention.
"You're not talking to a fraction of mine!"
"My hobby is collecting DZ pants."
"Is your family rich?"
......
These sharp and direct words surprised people who were reserved and conservative, and a girl who actually said this in front of the public was simply a moral failure.
"Everyone is pretending to be serious, then I can only pretend not to be serious." Perhaps this phrase is appropriate for Mano.
That is, on the program on January 17 of this year, an unemployed male guest came, and his favorite girl was Mano.
"My hobby is cycling, I'm going to Beijing, we have time to ride together, okay?"
The boy looked at her expectantly.
"Then I might as well cry in a BMW!" Without thinking, Mano answered whether the lives of those who were unsatisfactory because of poverty came to mind.
The words have been spoken, not only the scene is boiling, but even the Internet has become a sensation, and Mano has since been labeled as a "gold worship girl".
"Rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" has become an annual golden sentence.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with loving money, and there is nothing wrong with Mano directly saying her request, the fault is that she is too direct and not subtle enough.
Money also accounts for part of the criteria for choosing a mate, but not all, but it puts money first in Mano's mind, right?
Because of this sentence, Mano also became the target of many people's attacks, and then even the rich male guests did not choose her, but received a lot of irony:
"Mano, you shouldn't stay here, you should go to the beauty pageant, let the rich choose, don't say it's okay to cry in a BMW, runny nose!"
"I want to find a girl with a little whiter skin, who feels like jelly, who can do housework, who would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle."
"The one named Mano, don't you want to sit in the BMW and cry? I have a BMW, do you want to ride? ”
.......
Endless taunts and uncuts.
And Mano did not lose control of this, standing on the stage, she still smiled slightly embarrassed, but she is a girl after all, she can disguise, but she can't do nothing.
When the host was the male guest: "Are you talking about Mano?" ”
"Yes, that's him I'm talking about." The arrogant attitude of the male guest once again stung her heart, this is the difference between having money and not having money.
Faced with this high-ranking face, Mano did not fight saber rattling, on the contrary, she said with an attitude that she had never had before, firmly and with grievances: "I am not what everyone thinks", and left halfway.
However, her story does not end there.
4
Mano withdrew from the stage of "Very Do Not Disturb", but her amount of information has not subsided, and she is still the talk of many people in the market.
It's just that people are slowly starting to analyze, and there is no such aggression as it was. In this era when material things cannot be poor, people have gradually understood Mano's ideas.
But in an interview, Mano said something that was even more surprising: "Actually, I was just joking, just to refuse the male guest." It is not to express that you want a BMW car, but to pursue a more reliable and stable life. ”
What she meant was that she was not blindly pursuing money and material life, but only using money to refuse male guests, or to use a popular phrase: "The best way to refuse men is to raise money." ”
It's just that after so long, her words pale and weak, and their credibility is not high.
"Be famous early", not how to be famous, as long as you open the popularity there will always be traffic, the melon-eating masses are not too lively, although those bad evaluations, like weeds, are inexhaustible.
But things are bound to backfire, and it also brings Mano greater and more popularity.
Strike iron while it is hot, for the eyeballs, many companies invite her to cooperate. Mano started a number of performances such as movies, web series, and TV series.
In May 2010, she participated in the program "More Jumping More Beautiful", but the first episode caused an uproar.
In the show, adapted from the bridge section of "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", Mano is set up as a gold-worshipping woman, and the male guest sends a BMW to him and so on.
In the end, because the content was vulgar, the thinking was not correct, and it was called to stop, it was really a wave of unevenness, and Mano's image had been fixed in people's minds, and later it was rumored that she played big names and other bad styles.
"The video on the Internet was edited, and when I went to the VIP room, someone secretly filmed me, and after I found out, I asked them to delete it, but then the data was restored.
I called the director and said, the director said that he was not responsible for the publicity, and would clarify it for me on the official website.
In the end, the phone did not answer. ”
But no one heard her explanation, and at this time, Mano was completely dead set on variety shows, and she decided to enter the film and television industry.
Since September 2011, she has been accepting invitations and working day and night, just to make money.
Without the talent to match, beauty is worthless.
Mano she is not a professional actor, she has no training as an actor, she has no strength, no background, and even that beautiful face is bleak in the film and television industry.
Just such an ordinary girl, with negative talk, how easy is it to be famous? It's not that she doesn't want to choose, it's that she doesn't have a choice.
In a short period of time, she has made a total of 16 micro-movies and TV series, basically performing some nameless little people, and making cameos.
Even so, the company is still using her only little "gold worship girl" label to arrange her some money-worshipping and unpleasant roles.
Over the years, the Internet's verbal punishment of Manor has never stopped, and even some marketing accounts have burst out large-scale photos of Mano, just to increase popularity and bluntly call her "hypocritical".
The drama path was completely broken, and her life began again.
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At the age of 30, Mano withdrew from the public eye, and the roads that appeared to be paved with flowers and applause were actually full of knife points underneath, and she could not reach the end of the road.
Fame and fortune are a double-edged sword, and if you have the courage to chase the bright, you must have the ability to withstand the darkness. And these darkness can make people rush and make people crazy.
Not everyone can afford to be famous, and returning to reality is her best bet.
It was only after she quit that she broke the reason behind the sentence of "Do Not Disturb" that year:
"The shows are all arranged, we are just acting according to the script, the male guest is playing the second generation of returned to the country, I received instructions from the director team to reject him in a joking way..."
At this time, people suddenly realized that she was not young and frivolous, but regarded blind dates as work.
Today, Mano is still single, but she no longer needs money as desperately as when she was young, and she lives comfortably and freely.
Away from the spotlight, she began to paint, travel with her mom and occasionally model for print advertising...
She prefers to watch various art exhibitions, and when she comprehends the essence of those arts, she goes more to the meaning of life.
She also registered a short video account to explain the model for fans, and now she is calm and calm.
As for how outsiders evaluate her, she also laughed calmly, no longer explaining, and no longer paying attention to it.
It's just that now people seem to have changed their original views on her, maybe whether there is a BMW or not is no longer important to her, and the ups and downs of more than ten years have long made her look down on the fame and fortune in the world.
Those lights will no longer sting her eyes, and only by being true to herself can she have a complete life.
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