Lead:
Ever seen the saying: "In a relationship, is a third person allowed to exist"?
The answer is: "No".
In the relationship, it is undeniable that once a woman is wronged, she likes to talk to someone, and the object of the conversation is often the girlfriend or friend who can make friends.
But feelings are a matter of two people, even the best girlfriends and friends, they can't empathize, and they can't understand why they quarrel if it is a good relationship.
Seeing you quarrel in the relationship, they will only criticize the good and bad of the relationship from your point of view, and your joys and sorrows in this relationship often determine their attitude towards the man.
But feelings are two people's affairs, once the existence of a third person is added, then the best feelings will not last long. Because many feelings are separated because of the existence of a third person, which leads to a momentary impulse.
01.
At one o'clock in the morning, the ringtone of the mobile phone suddenly woke me up from the dream, and without looking at me, I knew who was calling at this time, and as soon as I answered the phone, the aggrieved cry on the other side came instantly.
That's right, across from my girlfriend, Little, she and his boyfriend quarreled again, I don't know when it started, they started arguing from the original sweetness to now without a few words.
Listening to the girlfriend on the other end of the phone counting the comparison between the boyfriend and the present, it is simply a world of difference, how to be good to her before, how to annoy her now.
Unlike the previous times, this time she counted her boyfriend and then asked me if he had no feelings for me anymore and didn't like me anymore.
After I listened, I quickly comforted her, saying that it may be because your boyfriend has been busy recently, and then your mind is sensitive, so it will appear as an illusion, isn't it normal for couples to quarrel?
02.
The girlfriend said that she had just called a friend of hers, and the statement was completely different from mine. She thinks that I am so aggrieved and sad in this relationship, why not try it separately for a while.
Hearing this, I woke up instantly, and quickly comforted my girlfriend and said, don't have this kind of thought, feelings can't withstand torture, especially now that you are in a dangerous period of feelings.
Seeing that she was so godless in her feelings, I quickly gave her a "mirror story" for science popularization.
In fact, the feelings of two people are like a "mirror", sometimes the weather is bad, the "mirror" will fog up, so that you can't see yourself in the "mirror".
But if you break the "mirror" on the gas head, then even if it sticks later, it will have cracks there one after another, and it will hurt others and hurt yourself at any time.
And your relationship with your boyfriend is like a "foggy mirror", so you don't have to be impulsive and break it, and finally my girlfriend's emotions slowly drop under my persuasion.
03.
But I couldn't sleep all night, and my heart was so depressed that I couldn't let go for a long time. While I was persuading my girlfriend, I was probably also regretting the self I once was.
In the past, I also had such a relationship, almost the same as the situation encountered by my girlfriend, at that time, I was also young and ignorant, and there were any grievances in my feelings, so I wanted to find someone to tell.
Unfortunately, I was not able to meet a me now, but I met a few of them like girlfriends, and this is how my relationship was persuaded by them.
Of course, this cannot be blamed on them, because they always think about the problem from my point of view, and do not think about the problem from the perspective of feelings.
At that time, my feelings were that of holding a "foggy mirror", and I couldn't see me clearly, so I chose to blindly follow the advice of my friends around me.
The "mirror" was broken, but it could not be glued later, so the relationship ended in this "broken mirror".
epilogue:
In fact, feelings are a matter of two people, if you can, please don't ask the third person, don't tell the third person.
Although I use the "mirror story" to persuade my girlfriend, if I can, I really want to warn her not to tell people about all the grievances and sadness in the relationship, even if this person is your best girlfriend or friend.
If I hadn't experienced my ex-boyfriend, maybe I wouldn't have used the "mirror story" to wake up my girlfriend, but instead did the same as her good friend who was friends: "persuasion".
In fact, they persuade you that they are just kind enough not to let you suffer so much in your relationship, but inadvertently do bad things.
Such as: people drink water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
But outsiders can't understand it, even the best girlfriends.
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