When a person, used to silence

There is a problem in Zhihu:

"How did you find out that you had completely lost someone?"

A high praise replied:

"When I say nothing and the other person is just silent, I know that everything is irretrievable."

Since when did you prefer to stand alone rather than tell people?

Since when did you prefer to swallow your grievances rather than explain too much?

Over time, there are things that are secretly hidden, there are difficulties to carry alone, and there are tears that flow by themselves.

In fact, each of us is becoming more and more silent,

But it is because I have seen through some things that do not need to be said, and some things that cannot be said, and gradually, they all become unwilling to say.

Silence is a person's greatest dead heart.

Zhou Guoping said in "Scraps of Paper in the Wind":

"In the midst of the deepest suffering, there is no groaning, no crying, and silence is the last dignity of the desperate.

In the most terrible humiliation, there is no curse, no sigh, silence is the highest contempt of the Avengers. ”

The more we experience, the more we understand that there is no real empathy in the world, and embracing silence is a compulsory lesson on our growth path.

The water is clean, not because it has no impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate.

No matter how turbid the water is, as long as it has been precipitated for a long time, it can become clear.

All your silence is a process of cultivating yourself, and when you think about it in the future, it will become a gift.

May everyone who knows how to be silent be able to calmly overcome the ups and downs, and everyone who strives to live will be treated gently by the world.