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Love is like the wind, invisible, untouchable, but can be felt through some things. The wind is coming, and the swaying flowers and trees can be reflected.
And fall in love with someone, and his words and deeds will tell you.
As Thurber Jade White said, "Love has a wonderful magic that makes one person fall for another." ”
Love will gradually change a person, and the original childish person will become mature and responsible. In his heart, you have an important position, and if you want to give you the best of everything, he will gradually implement it into action.
When a man loves someone deeply, he will become very "willing". Men are so "willing" to you, they are really moved, and they want to grow old with you.
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In the TV series "One Life and One Life", Zhou Shengchen is a two-point and one-line life mode before he meets the time.
But after being with Shiyi, he is always "willing" to spend energy to understand Shiyi. It is not difficult to see that Zhou Shengchen is deeply in love with Shi Yi.
When Zhou Shengchen came downstairs to Shiyi Work, he did not call her, but quietly waited and observed.
He didn't want to bother her, because he didn't like to be disturbed by others when he worked, and he felt that he didn't want to be disturbed when he was appropriate.
Sending Shi Yi home, Zhou Shengchen did not rush to leave, but observed Shi Yi's living habits.
Finally, he knew that it was time to go home and wash up in about ten minutes, and the customary washing time was about 25 to 38 minutes.
Uncle Lin couldn't help but ask, young people are in love and like to observe from a distance? Zhou Shengchen said that he just wanted to know more about her living habits and understand each other in order to be beneficial to getting along and reducing friction.
Understanding is the best love.
When you love someone, you will be "willing" to spend energy.
When a man is moved, he will not help but take the initiative to get close and understand her preferences, just to be able to understand her better.
When one person does not love another person enough, he will not be willing to spend energy on her.
Two people together, do not know each other well enough, will always quarrel over trivial things, each other is not willing to make concessions in love.
The more you love, the more you will give her the most tolerant side.
Love is constantly heating up under mutual understanding. A man who pays his heart, his eyes and heart must be a beloved woman, and he will definitely be "willing" to spend energy to understand her and understand her.
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Love is the presentation of trivial life.
Men who love you deeply, "willing" to spend time with you, do what you like to do, and give you meticulous care and care.
In the TV series "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Yicheng met Ye Xiaolang on a work mission, and the two quickly fell in love.
In the winter, the two people eat baked sweet potatoes together, sing karaoke on the side of the road, and shout their ideals to the river.
For this feeling, Qiao Yicheng is "willing" to spend time and accompany each other to do trivial things.
He obviously left work very late, and he would go to Ye Xiaolang's dormitory to help her move. He not only has to take care of work, but also deal with the chores of his younger brothers and sisters, but he will still squeeze out time to accompany Ye Xiaolang.
Love is not necessarily the output of sweet words, nor is it necessarily how much money is spent on the other party.
The trivial things in life will also make people feel very happy, feel each other's company, and constantly close the distance between the two hearts.
Love is cultivated by both parties, and perhaps only when we are really together and experience some things together will we truly appreciate what love is.
The growth of love is inseparable from accumulation, integrating each other into their own lives and supporting each other, which is what love should look like.
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No matter how passionate love is, it must finally return to the reality of life. In the face of chai rice oil and salt, the material basis is particularly important.
Men who pay sincerely, "willing" to struggle. In his heart, he absolutely does not want his lover to suffer with him, so he is willing to continue to fight to give her a future.
Boccaccio once said, "True love inspires, awakens the sleeping strength and hidden talents within him." ”
Love or no love, not by words, but by action to prove. Falling in love is not just two people together, but more importantly, learning to take responsibility in love.
"Willing to" work hard to present the future for love.
The man who loves you will plan his lover into his own life plan, even if the road to happiness will be difficult, but he will not give up on it, will not concede defeat. Even if you fight hard, you will be given happiness.
If, in a relationship, the man is "unwilling" to fight for you, and there is no you in his future, then it can only mean that he does not love you enough.
Because, deep love, will make men long for long-term companionship, will long for each other to be able to share in the trivial life, whitehead.
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The word "willing" means that men will let go of a lot and replace it with a stronger sense of responsibility.
Anne Lades said: "Love is fiery friendship, quiet understanding, mutual trust, shared enjoyment and forgiveness. Love is faithfulness that is not affected by time, space, conditions, or environments. Love is about learning from each other's strengths and acknowledging each other's weaknesses. ”
Once love sprouts, the growth rate is very rapid, and when a man is willing to make changes for a woman, she must feel it, like a shadow exposed to the sun, with nowhere to hide.
The appearance of a man who loves a person hotly and deeply is "willing to give".
Love is not a sweet word of two words, nor is it blindly asked, but willing to pay, willing to spend time with each other, willing to work hard, and present a future for love.
When you meet a man who is "willing" to spend energy, time, and hard work for you, you must cherish it and do not live up to his long-term affection.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.