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"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

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Zhou Guoping wrote in "Man and Eternity":

The ideal couple relationship is a combination of lover, friend, and partner, combining the warmth of the lover, the tolerance of the friend, and the thoughtfulness of the partner.

The recent hit "Goodbye Lover 2" has caused discomfort in many people.

Because there is a couple inside, the way Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting get along is too suffocating.

In Sun Yi's words: "Did she save his life?" ”

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

The next sentence should be, she was going to do this to him.

Also because of the woman's various caustic performances, the whole network is persuading Song Ningfeng to divorce, but the answer he gave turned out to be: not to leave.

This answer is very meaningful.

In the face of such a partner who doesn't care about himself, why is he reluctant to leave?

01

Who is Song Ningfeng?

Song Ningfeng, 41 years old, actor.

I really don't know who it is just by looking at the name.

As his wife Zhang Wanting said: he is not popular, he is still poor.

But he's not simple.

His ex-wife is Qi Xi.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

Qi Xi & Song Ningfeng

What a literary actress, who just won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress.

and secretly had a child with another actor with a very personal personality, Wang Chuanjun.

Song Ningfeng's ex-girlfriend is Zhou Xun.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

Zhou Xun does not need to be introduced, that is also a rare talent, Chinese actress has won all the film queen slams except her, the other is Zhang Ziyi.

Huang Jue was still Song Ningfeng's hair, when Huang Jue also came to the scene of "Goodbye Lover 2".

In front of Fa Xiao, Zhang Wanting did not save face for Song Ningfeng at all.

The most infuriating ones are.

Zhang Wanting looked at Song Ningfeng's face and said, "I gave you a face." ”

Then openly disparaged him and said, "I found you such a tow oil bottle." ”

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

Even Song Ningfeng played frisbee with others for a while, and his mood relaxed, and Zhang Wanting was not happy.

Not only angered Song Ningfeng, interrupted him 7 times in a row, but also forbade him to speak, and even played frisbee with him, she did not let go.

Huang Zhizhong analyzed that her behavior was Song Ningfeng's happiness, which could only be given by her, and no one else.

This practice is very possessive.

02

Zhang Wanting's domineering is because of low self-esteem

Why is Zhang Wanting like this, let's analyze it.

Her biggest name may be Mei Ting's agent.

As an agent, she is a professional.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

But as an agent, there must be a strong factor in her personality, and her strength can be seen with the naked eye.

At the beginning, when they knew each other for a month, Zhang Wanting became pregnant.

So the two received a marriage license when the child was eight months old.

For Zhang Wanting, she said that the two of them were very strange and unfamiliar.

In reality, it is really not familiar, the child comes too quickly, and the two people are because the child has to be together.

But in Song Ningfeng's heart, he was grateful to Zhang Wanting.

Because she was willing to bear a child for him when she had nothing.

Song Ningfeng was originally the kind of literary and artistic young man in his bones, and he had a temperament that did not eat fireworks.

This may be the reason why he and Qi Xi can't get to the white, because in a family, if both of them are literary and artistic, who will pick up the fireworks.

Therefore, as an agent, Zhang Wanting may have been suitable for Song Ningfeng from a professional point of view.

But she has low self-esteem in her bones.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

Why?

Because she knows very well that although Song Ningfeng has been tepid over the years, his girlfriends or wives in the past are very powerful.

The circle around me is also either rich or expensive.

And when Zhang Wanting appeared in Song Ningfeng's world, it was when Song Ningfeng was at its lowest.

He was divorced and his career was not going well.

Even if he is divorced, there are many men like him who chase him.

So for Zhang Wanting, she found Song Ningfeng and earned it.

If it weren't for the fact that Song Ningfeng was at the trough of her life, maybe this position wouldn't be her turn at all.

And she also mentioned Qi Xi more than once, saying that Song Ningfeng had not forgotten her.

This is all a woman's very unconfident side.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

And her method of chasing Song Ningfeng is also relatively old-fashioned.

She chose to tie him up with a child, and she became pregnant after knowing him for a month, which is quite fast.

However, this child is very important to 40-year-old Song Ningfeng.

After all, I am at this age, my marriage is not smooth, my career is not smooth, and having a child is also a comfort.

This is also one of the reasons why Song Ningfeng is willing to endure.

03

Why is Song Ningfeng willing to endure?

The child just said is just one of them.

In fact, the second reason is very realistic, that is, Zhang Wanting is richer than Song Ningfeng.

Zhang Wanting has said more than once that Song Ningfeng: no money, no popularity, and old age.

This is why Zhang Wanting is inferior, but also loves to belittle him.

Low self-esteem is his inner struggle, but belittled him is indeed because Song Ningfeng did not do well and paid very little to this family.

Forget if you pay less, but Song Ningfeng is still a stuffy gourd, which makes Zhang Wanting unbearable.

Because neither material value nor emotional value is obtained.

These two Song Ningfeng did not give her, so this made Zhang Wanting very crazy, and she needed to use a particularly extreme way to attract Song Ningfeng's attention.

Even, she also said that she sometimes wanted to jump directly from the stairs and make Song Ningfeng feel guilty for the rest of her life.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

Because you can't get feelings with a sense of existence, you will be hysterical like this.

It also shows that she was originally with Song Ningfeng because of feelings, although the two are very strange.

Then there is the third reason, that is, Zhang Wanting loves Song Ningfeng, but she loves inferiority and meanness.

She said at that time the scene of Song Ningfeng's marriage proposal.

He was wrapped in a bath towel, took out the diamond ring, and told her who had borrowed the money from the diamond ring, and then redeemed the original investment.

He also went out of his way to buy her a diamond ring, and she gladly accepted the affection.

In this materialistic society, a woman can unconditionally accept a man who has nothing, and we cannot say that this is not because of love.

Moreover, from Song Ningfeng's point of view.

He really paid very little for this family, and Zhang Wanting gave almost everything for this family.

Since Zhang Wanting had a child, she not only changed her cloakroom into a children's room.

He also sold a lot of his bags and clothes.

Almost the entire family is taken care of by itself.

So Song Ningfeng didn't want to divorce, because there was a woman at home who was worried about everything, and he could save a lot of worry.

And for these disparaging invectives, perhaps he is used to it.

He didn't feel much either.

04

Song Ningfeng is not unloving, but he doesn't know how to express

Zhang Wanting was hysterical again and again, just because she couldn't get emotional value.

But Song Ningfeng is not without feelings for her, but does not know how to express it.

Song Ningfeng looked very wooden on the outside, but in fact, he was carefully observing the other party.

There are two more warm details in the program:

One is that when the husband and wife exchanged roles, Song Ningfeng imitated Zhang Wanting, and his way of speaking, actions, and tone were very similar to Zhang Wanting.

Everyone next to them, including Zhang Wanting was very surprised, too similar.

At that time, Zhang Wanting saw Song Ningfeng imitating herself, and she was actually a little moved.

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?
"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

She kept laughing because she always thought that the other party didn't care about her, it turned out that the other party was so familiar with her every move.

Another detail is that Song Ningfeng climbed onto the terrace and said loudly to Zhang Wanting: "Thank you, thank you for everything you have done for this." ”

"Goodbye Lover": What does Song Ningfeng love about Zhang Wanting?

At the end, he added: "Don't separate, okay?" ”

Zhang Wanting's moist eyes at that time were moved.

It's just that she, who has always been strong and used to poisonous tongue, of course will not easily soften, she only replied, depending on her mood.

05

The truth is actually to make her husband popular?

In fact, some people say that Zhang Wanting is a gold medal agent.

She knows best how to hype, make the show fire, and make her husband fire.

So she knows how to drive the topic, and she used her words and deeds to push this show to a climax, and the mango station with the greatest revenue should be very happy.

But the other person who gained was her husband.

Her meanness makes her husband out of the loop.

Originally, as an agent, she didn't have to come to such a show, and she didn't have to show so many unbearable sides of herself so realistically.

But she showed it without concealment.

If she is to be able to get her husband out of the circle again, she sacrifices her image.

Then I think she really loves Song Ningfeng.

Although the way she gets along with Song Ningfeng is indeed suffocating, perhaps a person with a strong personality like her has always spoken like this.

For this matter, I would say that she is an excellent agent.

If it was as Song Ningfeng's agent, her purpose this time had been achieved.

But as a wife, she should also learn to speak well.

After all, Song Ningfeng is unwilling to divorce her, except for the above-mentioned children, money, and Zhang Wanting's efforts.

There should be some feelings.

For each other and children, you should also learn to talk well to your partner.

Carnegie said: If you want to be a good conversationalist, start with a listener.

The first step Zhang Wanting should also learn is to listen to the other party finish the words first.

Two people can be together for a long time, nothing more than endless words.

Like Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting, when they were together, Gao Yuanyuan said that because they always had endless words together.

So, these words need to be spoken for a lifetime.

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