In the summer of 2013, Qin Hao, who was trapped by love, called his mother and said, "Mom, I'm in love."
Mother Qin asked in surprise and delight, "Yes, who?"
Qin Hao summoned up enough courage to reply: "Her name is Yi Nengjing."
Who knows, Mother Qin froze instantly, her first reaction was to disagree, and the second reaction was to shout on the phone with her throat drawn: "Why are you looking for such a famous one?"
That being said, for the sake of her son's face, Mother Qin still wanted to know the specific situation, so she asked: "How old is she?"
Unexpectedly, Qin Hao actually did not know Yi Nengjing's age, and he was instantly overwhelmed by his mother's question, and he couldn't answer for a long time.
After hanging up the phone, Qin Hao had mixed feelings, and in the dilemma, he didn't know how to appease the two most important women in his life.
The two most important women, one is her mother and the other is Yi Nengjing.
Qin Hao was afraid that his mother would mind Yi Nengjing's love history of divorced and gave birth to a son, and he was afraid that his mother would not agree with the two of them being together, and he couldn't think of a way to convince his mother after racking his brains.
At the same time, Yi Nengjing's side was also not easy to deal with, because Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing had only known each other for less than three days since the time of the call.
In three days, Yi Nengjing gave Qin Hao an ultimatum: either get married or stop interacting.
Qin Hao, who finally saw the childhood goddess, was unwilling to miss his beloved, so even if they had known each other for less than three days, they still called their mother to inform them of their love status, and immediately took Yi Nengjing to their hometown to meet their parents.
At that time, Yi Nengjing was 46 years old, and seeing a man 10 years younger than her so impulsive, she felt unprecedented sincerity.
After returning to her hometown, Mother Qin saw Yi Nengjing's admonition, which instantly made her cry.
This exhortation was not said to Yi Nengjing, but to Qin Hao.
After eating that day, Qin's mother pulled the two together, holding Yi Nengjing's sign language and reminding Qin Hao seriously: "Son, you are still young, if you break up in the future, you can still find it, Xiaojing can't find it, you think about what if it drags on for another four or five years?" You have to think clearly, you can't hurt people. ”
Yi Nengjing listened to these words in the kitchen, and burst into tears instantly.
Qin Hao thought about what these two women said repeatedly, followed his mother's advice, and decisively decided to devote his life to protecting Yi Nengjing, and this choice changed his life.
Yi Nengjing, who is alone, began to wander at the age of 14, and she has never felt the love of her father and mother, and here in Qin's mother, she felt the warmth of family for the first time.
After that, she put aside all her worries and talked about sweet love, without worrying that she would be deceived by money, nor did she have to worry that her past would be rejected by the man's family.
In fact, the first half of Yi Nengjing's life was really not glorious, on the contrary, it was full of various scandals and farces.
Born in an ordinary family, she has competed with 7 brothers and sisters for favors since she was a child, but she is the one who is least treated by her parents.
This family, which did not have a trace of warmth, fell apart with the divorce of the parents.
After that, Yi Nengjing remarried to Japan with her mother and moved to a strange family life.
Her stepfather was not friendly to her, and when she was a child, it was the norm to be hungry and unclothed, and the shame of being forced to eat dog food often happened.
While Yi Nengjing was living like a nightmare childhood, Qin Hao enjoyed a life of two-way material and spiritual satisfaction in the loving family of his parents.
He is the only child in the family, and his parents have given him all the favor and attention, and he is happy and happy.
Yi Nengjing, who was forced to grow up, survived until the age of 14, and was fed up with life under the fence, so he returned to his hometown alone and began to wash dishes and earn money.
After washing for more than a year, a chance encounter allowed her to meet the musician Liu Wenzheng, who took a fancy to this girl's stunning appearance and unique musical talent, and then invited her to develop in the entertainment industry.
Hearing that he wanted to be a star, Yi Nengjing, who lacked money, was overjoyed and immediately signed a contract to prepare for his debut.
Her first solo album "The Last Day of 19" became popular all over the country as soon as it was released, and was loved by fans from all over the world.
At that time, 9-year-old Qin Hao did not know Yi Nengjing, but looking at Yi Nengjing's sweet appearance in the poster and the singing voice in the tape, his heart instantly stirred, and he regarded her as his only idol and goddess.
Yi Nengjing has stage talent, and with the help of Liu Wenzheng, her albums are one after another, and her fame and reputation are increasing day by day.
When her career blossomed, Yi Nengjing's love also sprouted, and she fell in love with the musical talent Yu Chengqing.
The two fell in low-key love, told their love with love songs, expressed their thoughts with love words, and were obsessed for 14 years, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
After all, Yi Nengjing is a drama without any background, and he has never been able to raise his head in front of his in-laws with a sense of superiority.
Being looked down upon can only endure.
She thought that Yu Chengqing was the light that lit up her life, so she tried her best to maintain the love between the two and gave birth to a son.
When Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing were inseparable in love, Qin Hao was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and followed the teacher's advice: only make good films, not bad films.
After graduation, classmates Liu Ye and Zhang Ziyi quickly gained a foothold in the entertainment industry, but Qin Hao adhered to the high literary and artistic character, pushing off 8 plays in the first year and 3 plays in the second year, for the simple reason that high-quality movies that are not the protagonists are not performed.
It is precisely because of this that there is this person in the entertainment industry, but it has become a state that no one knows.
When Qin Hao was helpless for the movie dream, the marriage of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing also ushered in a crisis.
The triviality of marriage intensified and cooled the relationship between the two, and the original hot love evolved into hatred for no reason.
Sad, in desperation, Yi Nengjing chose to develop in the mainland and temporarily separated from Yu Chengqing.
After the separation, rumors about Yi Nengjing were widely reported by the media, and finally, this less firm marriage finally collapsed after 9 years.
Obsessed for 14 years, married for 9 years, in the end, Yi Nengjing only changed his body.
Riddled with holes, she lost her proud young capital, lost her career, and instantly changed from a charming rose to a withered flower.
She didn't dare to love anymore!
So 5 years later, when she saw Qin Hao and was invited for dinner, although she had a good feeling, she felt that this little boy would not marry her, so she gave the other party an ultimatum after the 3rd day of acquaintance: not to make friends of the opposite sex, only to be friends with her future husband.
At this time, Yi Nengjing was 46 years old, sensitive and uneasy, she desperately wanted a marriage harbor, helpless to meet people, said that people who loved her one after another, but there was no one who really promised to marry her.
At this time, Qin Hao did not want to miss it, so he informed her parents that she had only known her for three days and made an appointment with her parents.
This behavior, like a needle of the sea god, gave Yi Nengjing's turbulent heart a destination.
Subsequently, she and Qin Hao fell in love while preparing for the wedding.
The literary and artistic cold male god, who has never accepted bad films, played a supporting role in her first film "I Am the Queen" in order to support Yi Nengjing.
After the completion of this play, Qin Hao lied that he wanted to hold a celebration banquet to trick Yi Nengjing into Turkey, and then took flowers in his hand and made a sworn oath to formally propose to Yi Nengjing.
After that, the two smoothly entered the palace of marriage and lived a sweet life in the world of two.
Here, the love between the two finally has a perfect ending, but after marriage, there is a very real problem in front of you: What about the children?
Qin Hao is not a Dink, he is the only child in the family, so he attaches great importance to the next generation.
Helplessly, Yi Nengjing was 10 years older than Qin Hao, and he was 47 years old when he got married.
47-year-old women have entered the menopausal stage, and wanting to have another child at this age is undoubtedly against the sky.
Qin Hao knew Yi Nengjing's difficulties well, so it didn't matter if he didn't have children.
Ke Yi Nengjing understands: only a child is the crystallization of the love between the two, and it can also ensure the durability and stability of the marriage, so she must give birth to this child.
Therefore, as soon as the wedding was held, Yi Nengjing actively entered the process of preparing for pregnancy, going to the hospital every day to prescribe medicine and take medicine and egg booster injections, until she was numb and fat into an aunt.
During that time, Yi Nengjing under the media lens turned into a slovenly scruffy woman, with a bloated body and a deformed face, all indicating that it is not simple to want to get pregnant.
One day in September 2015, Yi Nengjing felt unwell, tired all day, unable to sit still, and a lot of acne appeared on his face.
Qin Hao, who was eager to protect his wife, hurriedly took Yi Nengjing to the hospital for examination, and the result came with good news: she was pregnant.
Hearing this, the husband and wife held a headache and cried, and Yi Nengjing finally felt that she was a qualified wife at this moment.
In the days that followed, the two carefully guarded the fetus.
In June 2016, Yi Nengjing gave birth to her daughter millet grain in the United States.
At this point, the family of three was finally consummated, the big stone in Yi Nengjing's heart finally fell, and Qin Hao finally experienced the joy of being a father.
Since then, Qin Hao has directly turned into a good man at home, and does not pretend to be a high-quality artist, in order to support his wife and children, he takes bad films, acts in online dramas, and can also see his figure in protracted TV series.
I never expected that it was these bad dramas that really made him popular, "Hidden Corner", "Undocumented Crime", "Dear Child" ... Each of these is an unsurpassable classic.
But it is a pity that this marriage between women and men is not favored by the outside world, not only the audience, but even actor Huang Yi once jokingly said in the show that Qin Hao married a "mother", and Valentine's Day flowers were given carnations specifically for his mother.
As soon as this spit came out, Yi Neng's face was lost, and all the ridicule reached another height.
In fact, Huang Yi and other mocking audiences did not know that the most correct thing Qin Hao did in his life was to marry this "mother". Yi Nengjing is Qin Hao's blessing, Qin Hao is Yi Nengjing's redeemer, before the two met, one career was frequently frustrated, and the other love road was extremely bumpy;
After the two met, Qin Hao's career soared, Yi Nengjing's love got what he wanted, and the two achieved each other and warmed each other.
This marriage, paired!
What's more right is that Yi Nengjing once risked her life to give birth to Qin Hao's daughter.
If there is no daughter, Yi Nengjing will not be at ease in this life, and she will wash her face with tears under the double blow of inferiority and self-blame, she knows that love is not a kidnapping, let alone depriving Qin Hao of his right to be a father, so there is a high probability that she will propose to separate;
And being a father is every man's lifelong wish, for Qin Hao is no exception, when the feelings are strong, he can rely on full love and don't care about these, but in another ten years, when the passion returns to dull, what will be used to warm the family?
Therefore, the arrival of her daughter millet grain is a two-way salvation for the two, giving Yi Nengjing a sense of pride in being a wife, and also meeting Qin Hao's expectations, let alone disappointing the man's family.
The love and marriage of the two has now added another guarantee.
Now, the family of three has walked hand in hand for 6 years, and the marriage of Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing has also entered a 7-year itch.
In fact, there is no 7-year itch in a good marriage, only years and years accompany each other.
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