As the book says: "Between men and women, it is better to maintain a simple relationship until there is no commitment to marriage, otherwise, there is really no turning back." —Platonic marriage
It's not just a piece of paper, it's a promise, it's loyalty, it's a sense of security. Of course, after the commitment of marriage, no one should get involved in other relationships for any reason.
It is not uncommon for stars in the entertainment industry to be suspected of "cheating". Some people are luckier, the other half responds decently, and the storm passes in a while. Some people suffer their own consequences, and the marriage change has taken a sharp turn with word of mouth. And Chen Xiaoyi is exactly in between.
The self-cultivation of actors
The name Chen Xiaoyi has always been entangled with some negative news of feelings in recent years. In fact, in terms of love life, Chen Xiaoyi is a successful actor.
Chen Xiaoyi was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama at the age of 19 and began to embark on the road to stardom, and Xu Fan was her classmate. Although Xu Fan later married Feng Xiaogang and became more famous, when studying, Chen Xiaoyi was better than Xu Fan, of course, Chen attributed this to Xiaoyi himself as a person who can work very hard and never use eight points.
Chen Xiaoyi starred in the TV series "Foreign Girl" in her senior year and successfully won the Feitian Award as a heroine. Compared with the dilemma of many science class actors who are unemployed after graduation, Chen Xiaoyi's acting career can be described as smooth. In addition, the timing of the broadcast of "Foreign Girl" was particularly good, and with the start of fame, Chen Xiaoyi also graduated.
After graduation, Chen Xiaoyi put all her energy into work, and she received the opportunity to star in a movie. "Divorce" is the foundation work for her career to take it to a higher level.
Although she failed to play the female number one, Chen Xiaoyi's superb acting skills made her still eye-catching even if she played a supporting role, and sure enough, the best supporting actress at the Hundred Flowers Award in the same year was Chen Xiaoyi.
Chen Xiaoyi's career path is really smooth, other people's lives are ups and downs, but her life seems to have been uplifting. The self-cultivation of the actor is reflected in the fact that she is calm and low-key in the early days of her career, but she can always be a blockbuster.
Today is not the same as before, tomorrow's yellow flowers
When sending blessings, people often say: I wish you all the best. Smooth sailing sounds easy, but who can?
Anyway, Chen Xiaoyi can't. Twenty years have passed, and Chen Xiaoyi is no longer the one who stood on the podium with her strength, upright and generous.
Today's Chen Xiaoyi has been married for many years, but she is often caught in peach news, and labels such as "unspoken rules" and "little fresh meat" will always be related to her. The golden period of the actress itself is not long, coupled with the speculation in Chen Xiaoyi's private life, the reputation was killed, and the acting resources gradually began to be greatly reduced.
Chen Xiaoyi has two more famous "scandals". One is the famous "kissing incident in the car" with director Xu Ang, who is also married. Chen Xiaoyi responded that it was a whisper borrowing and a misunderstanding. But what the truth is, she herself knows best. It is worth noting that during this turmoil, Liu Huining stood up to support his wife.
No matter how speculated the outside world is, if the feelings of the parties are not affected, no one can shake it. Liu Huining's response made the audience gradually let go of their guard against Chen Xiaoyi. But unexpectedly, a few years later, history repeated itself astonishingly.
Chen Xiaoyi was photographed shopping hand in hand with "Little Fresh Meat", this paragraph cannot even be called a "scandal", after all, kissing can be said to be a whisper, and holding hands seems to have no reason to explain.
But the married identity openly holds hands with others in public, and such unscrupulous behavior inevitably makes people wonder whether Chen Xiaoyi and her husband Liu Huining have long been married. At the same time, what makes people more suspicious is that this time not only Chen Xiaoyi did not speak, but her husband Liu Huining also did not respond.
But no matter what kind of hidden feelings there are, what is certain is that Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining have not divorced, even if they look like they are divorced, they still maintain a de facto marriage relationship, which inevitably makes people think, why is this? When did they become like this?
The story in between
The story of Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining is long because they have been married for 24 years. But their story is not difficult to tell, because they have been separated for 12 years.
Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining also owe the encounter to Liu Huining's good brother Zhang Jiayi.
At that time, Liu Huining was still an unknown little director, but his invitation to the already prestigious Chen Xiaoyi to make a film was rejected. Fortunately, Zhang Jiayi mediated between them, and Chen Xiaoyi accepted the film invitation. In this way, she starred in the drama directed by him, which was the beginning of their love, and this drama was "Old House".
After the shooting, the two also came together logically. But the two are really famous, and the opposition is loud for a while. But who is Chen Xiaoyi? Independent women must take charge of their own happiness. Chen Xiaoyi ignored everyone's obstruction and married Liu Huining in 1998.
Many female stars quit the entertainment industry after getting married and went home to meet their husbands and godchildren. A while ago, Tang Yan's fans also "scolded her on the hot search", saying that she had no career after marriage, and fans said that they hated iron and steel. It's also difficult to think about female stars, but it's just that mother's love overcomes career, and it can't work.
Chen Xiaoyi is like Tang Yan today, after getting married and having children, she focused her life on the family, her husband was away all year round, and taking care of young children became her job alone, and Chen Xiaoyi had a hard time in the years when the children were still young.
Maybe the child gradually grew up Chen Xiaoyi was willing to let go, maybe Chen Xiaoyi's own career awakened, no matter what the reason, Chen Xiaoyi finally chose to make a comeback. After her comeback, Chen Xiaoyi did not get closer to her husband Liu Huining, but because of her perennial filming, she had fewer opportunities to meet her husband.
The news that Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining are in the same frame has become less and less in recent years, and in the latest Reuters, Liu Huining has been in a wheelchair, and even so, it is still not his wife Chen Xiaoyi who is accompanying him, which inevitably makes people sigh.
Distance generates consumption
Distance does not produce beauty, only consumption. Perhaps the love between Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining disappeared in the years of separation. Maybe it's not appropriate to describe their relationship as "disappearing", at least so far, they still haven't divorced, but why? Because there is still love? Indeed, we do not know.
Love needs to be managed and accumulated, which is a simple truth, but many people do not understand. If you can be selfish in love, then marriage shouldn't. At least you should not selfishly pursue emotional freshness during marriage, which is not only a moral constraint, but also the basic bottom line of being a person.
Behavior like Chen Xiaoyi on the edge of the moral bottom line is undesirable.