The influence of the environment on a person is very profound, either changing one's habits or changing one's personality, and Setouchi in Japan has a say in this.
She was deeply influenced by her environment at an early age, so that when she became an adult, she became a very famous Buddhist in Japan and gained many followers.
But she is very different from other nuns, other Buddhists do not eat meat, not close to color, but Setouchi not only drinks and eats meat, but also indulges in male sex.
Many people who have not understood her deeply will criticize her as an unqualified believer.
Setouchi listened
But in fact, the reason why Setouchi became such a fierce character is inseparable from many experiences in her youth.
Today we will learn about this different nun.
The rebellious Setouchi listened
In Japan, whenever people mention "Hana Nun", the image of a person will come to mind, and this person is the famous Setouchi Shōnen.
People have mixed reviews of her, some say that she is true temperament, others say that she is extremely hypocritical, but hearing is false, seeing is believing, and what kind of person Setouchi is still needs to be understood from the beginning.
In the last century, Setouchi was born into a merchant family in Japan, and this family background made many people envious, but Setouchi was not happy at all, and all dissatisfaction stemmed from her parents' education of her.
Although Setouchi's parents are perfectly capable of financially meeting many of Setouchi's demands, Setouchi needs very little companionship.
His parents were busy with business and neglected to manage Setouchi's silence.
Even though Setouchi had invited her parents to attend parent-teacher conferences many times to see her perform, her parents rejected her for various reasons.
This hurts Setouchi's hearing, and she can only wait for her parents to leave work at the Buddhist supply store owned by her parents after school, but most of the time Setouchi listens to herself.
But this is not all bad, gradually, she has changed from a girl who needs the care and care of others to a strong woman who can solve many problems independently.
This kind of growth is experienced through countless setbacks, but problems also arise.
Two strong people can have great differences, even irreconcilable, when faced with the same problem.
There is a big conflict between Setouchi and his parents, who want Setouchi to develop according to their requirements.
But Setouchi, who has become accustomed to freedom, often contradicts them, and she flaunts pursuing her own life.
No matter how much fire her parents had, Setouchi insisted on her opinion, and occasionally she would run out alone if she didn't want to listen to her parents' nagging, running to a place where no one could find to digest her emotions.
In fact, both sides are not wrong, her parents want to make Setouchi better than she is, Setouchi feels that her parents didn't care about her when she was a child, and when she grows up, she doesn't need her parents' discipline.
The fault of both sides is that they did not consider the problem from the other side's point of view, even if they later realized their fault, but they would not lower their arrogant heads, they could only treat this incident as if it had never happened, and forget the past in a self-deceptive way.
In Setouchi's eyes, his parents are stubborn.
But in the eyes of his parents, how could Setouchi not be rebellious?
What made his parents feel even more powerless was Setouchi listening to what happened when he was in college.
Still
At that time, Setouchi was in her twenties, and she longed for the freedom of marriage and love, so she boldly pursued her teacher, which caused quite a stir at her school at that time.
Although it is not against Japanese law for teachers and students to fall in love, in people's minds, teachers are elders, and falling in love with elders sounds awkward.
What's more, the real age of the teacher is indeed more than ten years older than Setouchi's Serenity.
This relationship is not favored by everyone, and many people suspect that the teacher is playing with Setouchi's feelings.
Setouchi listened
There are also people who believe that Setouchi wants to graduate successfully with the help of his teacher.
Despite all kinds of rumors from the outside world, Setouchi doesn't care at all, and she firmly believes that love can cross age boundaries.
And her irrevocable action also touched the teacher, and they became a real couple.
They also walked down the street holding hands like other couples, and they were happy, but Setouchi's silent parents were in pain, and the family almost broke off their family ties because of this.
Still
His parents originally planned to let Setouchi be with someone of the same age, but Setouchi disagreed, turned around and was with his teacher, and even announced in a loud way that he would get married after graduation.
The parents really wanted Setouchi to think carefully, but how could Setouchi listen to them?
After graduation, she still married a teacher, but Setouchi was too simple, and this marriage brought her spiritual damage.
Feelings fail repeatedly
After marrying a teacher, Setouchi became a full-time housewife.
Setouchi listened
But in her day-to-day life, she realized that marriage is not the same as love, no matter how loving the two people are before marriage, this passion will be consumed by firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage.
After a long time, love is gone, but life has to go on hard, how can the young and energetic Setouchi live a life that ends at a glance?
A few years later, Setouchi filed for divorce from her husband, even though she already had children with him, even if the children needed maternal love, but she wanted freedom more.
How vigorously in love at the beginning, how painful it is now when they separate, Setouchi's decision was not only opposed by her husband, but also by both parents, who constantly accused Setouchi of being heard.
Perhaps they thought that Setouchi had something unspeakable, or that Setouchi had a crush on someone else, and they wanted Setouchi to calm down for a while before making a decision, but Setouchi resolutely refused.
Even though they blackmailed her with "Setouchi Silence's divorce means losing visitation rights for her children," Setouchi signed the divorce agreement without blinking.
And the "ruthlessness" of all this is only because Setouchi understands that even if she is divorced, she will still be the mother of the child, but if she does not divorce, she will only be the mother of the child.
She will lose all possibilities in life, gradually disconnected from society and contrary to the meaning of life.
Setouchi listened
Of course, this failed relationship was inevitably taken out by his parents as a model for educating Setouchi to listen to silence, but just as "Tao is different and does not conspire with each other", Setouchi has long ceased to desire his parents' understanding.
Setouchi feels that divorce is just a stage that some people go through, that divorce is not such a bad thing, that divorce is a kind of growth, and that it is also about teaching a person how to love.
Although her first marriage ended hastily, Setouchi was convinced that she would meet a love that truly belonged to her, and soon after, Setouchi received a love letter.
This love letter came from one of her ex-husband's students, Ryota, who turned out that this student had liked Setouchi for a long time and wanted to pursue her, but Setouchi was married, so he never mentioned it.
Still
Now that Setouchi is divorced, he finally dares to express this love, and at first Setouchi does not agree because the age gap between them is too great, but Setouchi can't resist his enthusiasm.
Compared with the previous relationship, being with this young man made Setouchi feel a lot of different fun, and the two soon fell in love, but this relationship was still opposed by the family.
Setouchi's parents are worried that she will be the same as last time, and Ryota's parents are even more opposed, just as Setouchi's parents opposed her marrying an older teacher many years ago.
The huge age gap is not acceptable to everyone, especially in the last century, people are still very conservative, and they will not change traditional perceptions.
Setouchi listened
Ryota had thought about fighting against his family for Setouchi Silence, but he was still a student without any capital, and the immense pressure exerted by his family forced Ryota to compromise.
In order to completely break off Setouchi's hearing, Ryota lied that he had changed his heart, and Setouchi heard that he no longer had any contact with Ryota as a result, and the relationship between them was as if it had never happened.
But in fact, both of them feel the pain of losing their loved ones, and Setouchi no longer believes in love, and in order to divert his emotional frustration, Setouchi puts all his energy into writing.
She wanted to make people feel the emotions of love through silent descriptions, and people were deeply affected by Setouchi's silent confession, and her books gradually became bestsellers.
Frustrated in love and proud of her career, just after Setouchi's silence gradually came out of the haze, she once again met the man she once loved, Ryota.
Take refuge in Buddhism and fall in love with red dust
With the passage of time, Setouchi gradually saw through life, and love is just one stop on the train of life, some people stop at this station, and some people hurriedly set foot on another.
Setouchi felt like a hurried traveler, and she would continue to move forward after enjoying different scenery at different stops, but she never planned to turn back.
The appearance of Ryota made Setouchi sway, one was the love of the past, the other was her own bottom line in life, Setouchi didn't know what choice to make, after a few thoughts, she still decided to gamble.
Setouchi listened
After all, it is a pity if you don't fight for feelings in your life, so she took Ryota's hand again, she thought that Ryota would still be the same as before, but Setouchi listened but forgot what it meant to be right and wrong.
The moon is still the sky and the moon, but people have long ceased to be the people they once were, Ryota has completely changed, once he was kind and upright, but now he spends his heart and swaying, taking the hard-earned manuscript fees of Setouchi and making other women happy.
Perhaps for Ryota, Setouchi's silence was a regret of his youth, and when the regret is filled, who can not remember the love he once had?
Setouchi has always been a person who can't tolerate sand in her eyes, and she can accept Ryota's lack of business, but she doesn't allow Ryota to be in the morning.
So, the completely dead Setouchi proposed to break up, and no matter how Ryota tried to keep it, Setouchi Satoshi ended her last relationship as firmly as when she made the decision, and also cut off her red dust path and chose to cut her hair to become a nun.
If a woman can stop coveting red dust, Ryota's damage to Setouchi's silence can be seen, so what changes have changed in Setouchi's listening life after becoming a nun?
Influenced by his family business, Setouchi has been obsessed with Buddhism since he was a child, but he never had the idea of joining.
It wasn't until the relationship with Ryota failed that 51-year-old Setouchi became a monk in discouragement, and she wanted to put away those mortal distractions.
Setouchi listened to the monasticism
However, Setouchi did not show any discomfort, and during his days at the temple, Setouchi lived every day to the fullest, cleaning his residence, cleaning the courtyard, and listening to the sutras.
In the quiet atmosphere, Setouchi forgets all the troubles of the past, and her life is once again lit with hope.
At the same time, she continued her writing career in the monastery, and in a few decades she wrote more than four hundred novels, almost all of them related to love.
Her works have become a favorite of many Japanese people, and some people even say that it is a regret not to read Setouchi's novels.
Setouchi uses her life experience to teach people how to love and how to behave when they are loved, and her persistence has been rewarded again and again.
Setouchi was awarded a national medal, which not only affirmed her, but also encouraged her to move forward.
When Setouchi was 96 years old, although her life was gradually coming to an end, her enthusiasm for life was still undiminished, and she participated in many shows in order to let more people know her.
In the show, Setouchi does not shy away from being a Buddhist family member but not abiding by the rules of the Buddhist family.
She always explained with a smile on her face, and told many hosts that even though she was nearly 100 years old, she still liked beautiful things.
In 2021, 99-year-old Setouchi passed away, such an interesting writer left the world she loved all her life, but presumably for her, this trip is not a pity.
Although there are still many people in society who despise Setouchi Serenity, Setouchi has lived out herself, and she never hears the voices of the outside world, and how many people dream of this alone?
Although Setouchi's silent childhood was not lucky, she grew into a tree in the face of adversity and was not shaken by wind and rain.
Although Setouchi's silent love has been repeatedly troubled, she still maintains her original intention of pursuing love, and at the same time does not forget to tell others that life is her own, if you want to try, go boldly!