In 1980, "Lushan Love" was broadcast, and for a time, Zhang Yu and the male protagonist Guo Kaimin became popular and became recognized as a "couple" in everyone's mind.
However, the two did not have an affair outside the play, but started their own families. Guo Kaimin came together in another play because of the love affair with Zhang Zhihua. Unfortunately, the two have only been married for 5 years and have parted ways.
In 1990, Guo Kaimin's career became very popular, and suddenly one day he went home to file for divorce, and Zhang Zhihua tearfully refused. She loves him and the family, and she hopes that Guo Kaimin can change her mind.
"I gave up my career for this family, gave up taking care of my own family, why did you do this to me"? Zhang Zhihua asked her husband bitterly, and Guo Kaimin shook his head and said, "There is no love between us anymore."
That year, they divorced, Guo Kaimin walked very crisply, but Zhang Zhihua did not come out of the shadow of divorce for several years.
It wasn't until the outsider painter Zha Guojun began to take care of her son that she understood that she should get out of the failure of her previous marriage and step into the next sweet life. A choice, let her suffer for half her life, a choice, but let her be loved...
01. Got married smoothly because of drama
Zhang Zhihua was born in Shanghai in 1958, and she looked very delicate when she was a child. A face is round, big eyes fluttering and blinking, and when her parents see her, they can't help but boast: "My daughter is so cute."
After entering elementary school, the teacher treated her very seriously, and there were cultural performances in the school, and she would be allowed to act every time. The classmates were jealous of her and mocked coldly, but Zhang Zhihua felt that she was capable of being valued by the teacher.
Because, her voice is very good, her academic performance is also very good, and she is not stage frightened as a little host. With these advantages, she herself is also a little proud, and often advises other students to study hard and strive to be admitted to a good university in the future.
However, within a few years, Zhang Zhihua was tired of going to school and she fell in love with acting. At a literary evening, she was a small host, but in the middle of the show, a program star could not participate due to physical reasons.
The teacher asked Zhang Zhihua to come on stage to substitute, because the time was tight, there was only one week to study. On the day he went on stage, Zhang Zhihua played well.
When she saw countless classmates applauding her, Zhang Zhihua was very excited in her heart, and she decided to go to a drama school in the future and become an actress.
After a few years, with the support of her parents, Zhang Zhihua successfully entered the Shanghai studio, and she also won a lot of drama contracts with her excellent results.
At the same time, the friendship between her and Zhang Yu and Guo Kaimin also changed.
After several years of struggle, they have some small achievements, but Zhang Yu and Guo Kaimin became popular because of the broadcast of "Lushan Love".
Although Zhang Yu has participated in several works, her popularity has always been inferior to the two. Guo Kaimin liked Zhang Yu, but she didn't like Guo Kaimin, so the two did not come together.
In the same year, after Zhang Yu rejected Guo Kaimin, Guo Kaimin and Zhang Zhihua participated in "Good Things and Many Mills" together. In the crew, Guo Kaimin plays the male number one, while Zhang Zhihua plays the female number one.
The two are colleagues, filming in the same crew, and have more and more contact.
"Guo Kaimin, this orange is too sour, I don't like to eat it, you eat it." Zhang Zhihua looked at Guo Kaimin with starry eyes, Guo Kaimin likes to eat oranges, he took it with a smile.
"It's not sour at all"! While eating, Guo Kaimin was still talking, and Zhang Zhihua giggled on the side. Her heart is very happy, although she did not eat oranges, but seeing Guo Kaimin eating happily, her mood will also be very good.
Guo Kaimin didn't find that the other party liked him at first, and when the play was about to finish, an actor from the same crew asked him, how does it feel to be in love with Zhang Zhihua?
"We're not in a relationship." Guo Kaimin hurriedly clarified, and only then did he recall that Zhang Zhihua's bits and pieces of him were so different.
After the filming, the two returned to work in the group, and Guo Kaimin found a good day and confessed to Zhang Zhihua. He struggled for a long time, but finally decided to take the initiative.
In fact, he himself knows that when he gets along with Zhang Zhihua, his mood will be particularly good. Perhaps, that's love!
03, divorced from her ex-husband for 6 years, and was heartbroken by her ex-husband
During the relationship between the two, Zhang Zhihua's parents knew about it and greatly dissuaded it, and there was only one reason why Guo Kaimin was not from Shanghai. For parents, they do not want their daughters to marry abroad, and in case of suffering, neither parent can help.
Zhang Zhihua was very stubborn, and finally told his parents that in the future, the two would live in Shanghai and would never follow Guo Kaimin to his hometown. His parents agreed, but Guo Kaimin felt uncomfortable because he was still worried about his parents.
In 1985, the two fell in love for the fifth year and finally successfully entered marriage. For love, Zhang Zhihua chose to take a temporary break and become a full-time wife.
But the life after marriage made her feel very tormented. "Zhang Zhihua, you have a lot of letters in your family again." The security guard outside the community shouted Zhang Zhihua loudly.
Zhang Zhihua held a large box to take the letter home and look at it, which was full of letters of love written by fans to her husband.
Her husband is filming outside and doesn't know anything at home, but she often receives letters of love from fans, and she can't say how uncomfortable it is.
Guo Kaimin occasionally goes home, sees letters written by others, and replies to them one by one. Zhang Zhihua was very painful, but she still accompanied her husband to write a reply letter to thank others for their support.
After a year of marriage, Zhang Zhihua became pregnant, while Guo Kaimin went to study at the film academy in Beijing. The two suddenly separated from each other, and Zhang Zhihua was even more worried.
There are so many beautiful girls in school, will the husband be moved? As her belly grew bigger day by day, she transferred this kind of thought to her child.
In the third trimester, Zhang Zhihua called her husband and asked him to go home to accompany him. Guo Kaimin directly refused, saying that she was filming and had no time to go home, and if she couldn't take care of herself alone, she would go to her mother-in-law's house to live for a while.
Zhang Zhihua did not want to return to his mother's house, so his parents worried about his marriage, so he struggled alone. She went to the street to sell vegetables, and without walking a few steps, she wanted to go to the toilet, but she still held back to finish shopping.
With a big belly and unable to see the road under her feet, she had to chop vegetables, cook, and clean alone.
In 1987, after Zhang Zhihua gave birth to her son in the hospital, Guo Kaimin went home to visit. Guo Kaimin's career is getting better and better, while Zhang Zhihua has become a full-time wife who has achieved nothing.
She began to wonder if her husband did not come home, whether he had a new love outside, and often asked friends about his situation in the crew.
Gradually, Guo Kaimin was also a little upset, feeling that the most basic trust between the two had been lost. His son is getting older and the family's expenses are getting more, and Guo Kaimin's money is quickly spent.
In two or three months, Zhang Zhihua had to ask her husband for living expenses, which made the relationship between the two more and more rigid. This kind of life is not what Guo Kaimin wants, and Zhang Zhihua also has resentment.
But she never filed for divorce, just endured in silence. "Zhang Zhihua, let's divorce"! After a quarrel, the husband sat on the sofa and thought for a long time, and finally filed for divorce.
Zhang Zhihua looked at the chill on her husband's face, and felt uncomfortable in her heart. Is this the result of her efforts over the years?
She questioned her husband why he said such cruel words, and Guo Kaimin directly said that the two had no love, so it was better to break up early and let each other go.
No matter how Zhang Zhihua retained, Guo Kaimin had already made up his mind. The two divorced soon after. After the divorce, Guo Kaimin completely disappeared into Zhang Zhihua's world, and he went to Hainan to work, thousands of miles away from Shanghai.
5 years after the divorce, Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun met, and the two married shortly after falling in love. Zhang Zhihua knew that after her ex-husband remarried, her heart couldn't stop the heartache.
She came home and cried, and her mother asked her what was wrong? She told her mother that for so many years, she had thought that she still had a chance to get back together with Guo Kaimin, but the other party's remarriage shattered all her illusions.
The parents felt sorry for their daughter, so they advised her to stop thinking about the past and find a good man to remarry as soon as possible. When the parents saw that their daughter had to go to work again and take the child, it was more difficult, so they offered to take their grandson and let their daughter come back.
Zhang Zhihua has been depressed for several years, and after her ex-husband remarried and had children, she became more and more entangled. On the one hand, she wants to start a new life, but she feels that she can't forget the pain caused by her previous marriage.
03, the second marriage painter Zha Guojun, a happy life
As my son grows older, so does the family's expenses. With a little salary from my parents, I can no longer afford to support a large family. Zhang Zhihua had to make a comeback, and she played a small role in "Children and Daughters".
The director saw that her acting skills were good, so he recommended her to another crew. By mistake, Zhang Zhihua filmed the movie "Mr. Zhao", for which he won the Swiss Best Actress Award.
Turning over overnight is about her good luck. Later, Zhang Zhihua kept making appointments and has always struggled in the crew. Careers are getting better, and new love is coming.
In 1997, when the painter Zha Guojun returned to China from the United States to visit relatives, he met Zhang Zhihua through the introduction of a friend. He has always lived in the United States and married a local woman, but later the two divorced due to personality incompatibility.
When a friend saw that he was single, and happened to know that Zhang Zhihua was single, he intended to bring the two together. At the first meeting, Zhang Zhihua did not have much good feelings for him.
Later, by chance, Zhang Zhihua heard his son mention that Zha Guojun had taken him to play in the playground. Only then did she find Zha Guojun and ask the other party why she was so nice to her family?
Zha Guojun said that although she didn't like him, he fell in love with her at first sight and felt that the partner in this life would only be her. Zhang Zhihua was a little moved, but she still didn't dare to remarry easily.
Zha Guojun knew that she was afraid of being wronged, so he often flew back to China to accompany his son in his spare time. When Zhang Zhihua was busy filming, Zha Guojun took his son to play basketball and go out climbing mountains together.
Slowly, the son had a good impression of Zha Guojun, and urged his mother to remarry quickly and not let Uncle Zha run away. At the end of the same year, Zhang Zhihua and Zha Guojun remarried, and both parents were very happy.
Zhang Zhihua did not have another child after marriage, and her mother-in-law also supported her. At the beginning, the two have been separated from each other, only when the children are on summer vacation, they spend more time together.
It was not until 2015, when Zha Guojun retired from an American university, that he returned to China to settle down and live in Shanghai together. Zhang Zhihua has filmed very few plays in recent years, and most of them have gone to participate in some small supporting roles.
However, he has a good performance in "Aunt", "Love Myth" and "Home of the Heart", and her husband often chases dramas at home to watch his wife's wonderful performances.
After her son got married, Zhang Zhihua was also idle, and she would make travel plans with her husband and see the mountains and rivers of the motherland together.
For Zhang Zhihua, the first half of his life was unfortunate, losing his career and family. But the second half of her life was happy, her career was stable all the way, and her husband also put her on the tip of his heart.
After 25 years of remarriage, Zhang Zhihua has worked hard, only a sweet smile on his face, and will never cry at midnight again.
Epilogue:
Remarried couples, the biggest problem is that there will be some mustard for each other's children. But Zha Guojun did not, he and his stepson get along like a biological father and son, and the two often go out to play ball and play sports together.
Sometimes, Zhang Zhihua will be jealous, feeling that the son he gave birth to, how can he have a better relationship with Zha Guojun? Knowing his wife's thoughts, Zha Guojun quipped: "You even eat your own children's vinegar."
Looking back on the experience of the first half of her life, Zhang Zhihua felt that in the second half of her life, she was favored by God and gave her such a good husband.