In 1993, there were a bunch of people holding video cameras on the banks of the Three Gorges River.
Qi Qi patted a man and a woman on the boat.
Women are simple and beautiful, men are a little rude and impatient,
This is Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie.
The two were invited to shoot "The Love of the Fiberman",
Therefore, they also reached the peak of the music world.
But in terms of feelings, it is Lang who has no intention of having a concubine.
Yu Wenhua was hurt by emotions again and again,
Choose to spend the rest of your life with "netizens",
I also have to refuse to love Yin Xiangjie three times,
Is there really a fateful relationship between them?
01
In 1966, in a farm household in Tangshan, Hebei Province, the cry of a baby girl was heard.
This baby girl is Yu Wenhua.
The old father of the flower armor is near, although he has the joy of getting a daughter,
But at the same time there is a thick sorrow,
Because this family is so poor, and it is a persistent poverty.
Yu's father's generation was too poor because of the large population and the family,
Several brothers have never married a wife in their lives, and they still live with their wives.
When he got married and had children, he had five children in a row,
Yu Wenhua, the old man, is also croaking, how should this big family be fed?
For now, the whole family can only tighten their belts.
Yu Wenhua said:
"I never wore new clothes until I was 8 years old, and I picked up my sister's clothes all day long."
It is said that the children of the poor are early in charge,
Yu Wenhua has been doing farm work with his parents since he was a child,
Fetching water and watering the ground is all done in one go.
Waiting for the time when elementary school can't catch up with the busy work in the fields,
She carried a small bucket and followed the village maid to pick up coal cores and apricot kernels.
The coal cores that have been picked up are handed over to the family to sell,
After a month, you can eat some dishes with oily stars.
The apricot kernels he picked up let his brother smash them with a hammer,
Blistered in water to remove the bitter taste, it can be used as a snack to relieve the hunger,
Whenever this happens,
Yu Wenhua would take the almonds and run to the high slopes of the back mountain to sing loudly.
After all, for children from poor families, this is the only hobby that can be spent without spending money.
These hard years tempered Yu Wenhua's heart,
And singing has become the driving force for her to keep moving forward.
In 1980, Yu Wenhua, who had never been trained as a teacher,
Hard to rely on a natural good voice,
He was admitted to an art school in Hebei, focusing on drama criticism.
The parents at home heard the news of their daughter's high school,
Tears of joy on the spot.
Ancestral generations of farmers,
Where is a book reader?
The old father hurriedly sold the hens in the family, even with eggs,
No one in the family has ever been willing to eat these eggs.
They are all kept early to give Yu Wenhua the school expenses saved.
Yu Wenhua took the crumpled money given by his parents, as well as pancakes and pickles,
I embarked on the path of studying alone.
In order to reduce costs, Yu Wenhua never went to the cafeteria to eat during the school day.
It's all rolling pancakes and drinking cold water in the dormitory,
She spent all her energy on practicing drama evaluation.
The school teacher looked at this child as strange and sensible,
I also introduced her to the odd jobs that can subsidize the cost of living.
Even if it's like this, at the beginning of each semester,
Yu Wenhua's father still had to come from hundreds of miles away,
Drove a donkey cart to school to deliver dry food to the girl.
The old man who squatted at the gate of the school, with gray hair and was over seventy years old,
I am often talked about by my classmates.
"Who is this?"
"It seems to be Yu Wenhua's grandfather?"
"No, it seems like his father is coming."
Yu Wenhua got into his father's donkey cart with a smile on his face under the disdainful eyes of his classmates,
Shouted "Daddy" loudly!
Whenever this time, Yu Wenhua's father turned his head and was about to leave,
He was afraid that if he stayed longer, he would lose a bigger person to his daughter,
But Yu Wenhua said:
"My father is the best father, I also have to let them see, our old Yu family's daughters will definitely be available!"
Because Yu Wenhua is a grateful person, she understands the difficulties of her parents.
After all, in such poor days,
I haven't given up any of my sons and daughters yet, and this undoubtedly needs to be borne more.
The tenacity and selfless dedication of the father,
It played a very important role in her growth.
There is such a father who "does not give up",
Only after graduating from the art school, Yu Wenhua directly rushed to the China Conservatory of Music with high scores,
As a result, he became the only person in the village to go to university.
This time I went to Beijing to go to university,
Yu Wenhua also lied to his family.
said that the school saw that her grades were good, and the tuition fees were all waived,
All you need to do is fool yourself into eating and drinking in Beijing.
Simple parents have never seen the big world of Beijing,
I chose to believe my daughter's words.
However, he still found a neighbor to make up for it, and brought dozens of yuan of waist money to his daughter.
02
In 1984, 18-year-old Yu Wenhua only went to Beijing.
"At that time, my idea was very simple, I really couldn't eat, I would go and ask for food, and I couldn't be difficult for my father and mother anymore."
Fortunately, Beijing's consumption is high, and there are many industries that can make money.
In the four years of college, Yu Wenhua attended classes at school during the day and went to the radio part-time dubbing at night.
Sleep for four hours a full day,
After four years of college, Yu Wenhua lost twenty pounds and saved a lot of money.
This money can not only fully afford your own life,
I can also send a lot of it to my parents at home.
At that time, the old people in the village said:
"This girl of the Yu family has more achievements than a brat!"
After graduation, Yu Wenhua got the distribution notice of the Central Song and Dance Troupe,
Hurriedly went home overnight, wanting to share the good news with his parents.
After she thought about herself,
Finally, I can bring my parents to Beijing to enjoy happiness together,
My palms began to sweat with excitement.
But when I came to the door, I found a lot of white cloth strips hanging on the trees,
Yu Wenhua was shocked,
Pushing open the dilapidated wooden door, I realized that it was my father's funeral.
It turned out that when Wenhua was preparing for graduation,
My father's body began to have problems.
He was afraid of affecting his daughter's studies, so he kept letting his family press the news,
Finally, three days before her daughter returned, she died suddenly.
His father's death was a big blow to Wenhua,
Think about everything you do to make a good life for your family.
As a result, he was like the father of an old scalper all his life,
How can it not be heartbreaking to die like this without enjoying a day of happiness?
After his father died, Yu Wenhua ignored the opposition of his sisters,
Took my mother to live in Beijing,
At this time, her mother is her only spiritual support.
But a little girl doesn't even have a local hukou,
I also have to live with my old mother, which is as difficult as I can imagine in Beijing.
And at this time, a man named Li Fan,
It solved Yu Wenhua's urgent need.
Li Fan was not only born in an artistic family, but also studied in colleges and universities in his early years.
Later, he became a music editor of China Records.
When Yu Wenhua entered the song and dance troupe,
It was during his visit to the regiment.
Two people have a work connection,
It's been familiar since it came and went.
Li Fan believes that Yu Wenhua is different from other women who love vanity,
On the contrary, she is more simple and has a tenacity,
It's a type he's never seen before.
Maybe it's because of "freshness",
Li Fan took more care of Yu Wenhua in the early days of his acquaintance.
Even understanding the embarrassing situation of the mother and daughter in Beijing,
He also helped find low-cost rental housing and solve the problem of household registration.
Li Fan's goodness moved Yu Wenhua, who was alone at the moment.
More importantly, Yu Wenhua feels that Li Fan is also very talented,
Who can not be moved by such a caring and capable man?
Yu Wenhua's vision has proved to be correct.
In 1992, Li Fan selected materials in the song library,
I have listened to Yu Fenglan and Li Tianpei's version of "The Love of the Fiber Man".
He had a flash of inspiration, this tune is good,
It's that the singer's singing style is a bit problematic.
He hurriedly sent the music to his girlfriend Yu Wenhua and discussed it with her.
Yu Wenhua sang when he looked at the score, and when Li Fan heard it, this was the feeling!
I had to write this song for my girlfriend on the spot.
He also plans to ask Han Lei to sing as a duet for the man,
Han Lei is the male singer who sang "Borrow from the Sky for Another Five Hundred Years".
It's a pity that when Han Lei heard that the male protagonist was just as a backing singer,
I chose to decline the invitation.
After all, he is also a famous actor, how can he be a backing singer?
The big coffee is not willing to sing, the one who is willing to sing, and the remuneration must be high.
Li Fan picked left and right and took a fancy to Yin Xiangjie,
The biggest reason is because he is "cheap".
Besides, whether the song is good or not mainly depends on the female singer,
He is very confident in his girlfriend, so he is sure that there is no problem!
At the end of the year, Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie began to record the song "The Love of the Fiber Fu",
What's interesting is that the time of the two always bumps together,
They had to be recorded separately and then grouped together.
After this song was recorded, neither of them took it seriously,
But after the broadcast, it became a hit!
Sister, you sit on the bow of the boat, brother walks on the shore, love and love rope swinging around...
Li Fan seized the opportunity of the heat,
Hurriedly pampered his girlfriend and Yin Xiangjie to record a MV, which is conducive to creating continuous popularity.
03
In 1993, Yin Xiangjiecai and his partner Yu Wenhua officially met,
I also blushed on the spot,
Just because he fell in love with Wenhua at first sight.
This is also the recording process of the MV at the beginning,
The reason for Yin Xiangjie's irritability.
At the beginning, the director asked Yin Xiangjie to gain dozens of pounds,
This is in line with the image of the wiper in the song, which is fine.
As a result, when it came to the recording scene, the director came directly again:
"It's not enough for you, you have to take off your clothes, you have to be naked, and you have to take off your glasses, is this like a fiberman!"
So who wants to be ugly in front of the girl they like?
It's still bare-shouldered at the first meeting,
So during the recording process, Yin Xiangjie began to be inexplicably irritable,
He had many disputes with the director.
Although Yu Wenhua didn't know, he still kept comforting his partner,
He said that he would try to cooperate and asked him not to worry.
Yu Wenhua's words were like a warm current flowing in Yin Xiangjie's heart,
Later, the two people toured together after the fire, and they were recognized by the audience as two couples,
Even Yin Xiangjie's grandfather said:
"Why don't you bring your granddaughter-in-law and watch you on TV every day"
However, at this moment, Yin Xiangjie did not have the courage to confess to Yu Wenhua,
He felt that his achievements were not worthy of Yu Wenhua.
Until 1995, Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie because
"There is no rain and no wind in the sky"
When it swept the country again,
Both became the country's top singing artists,
Yin Xiangjie finally plucked up the courage to take a bouquet of red roses,
Confession to Yu Wenhua.
But Yu Wenhua said with an embarrassed face
"Fatty, thank you, but I'm married"
After hearing these words, Yin Xiangjie felt five thunders,
Obviously the partner doesn't even have a boyfriend, where is the marriage?
It turned out that Yu Wenhua and Li Fan were very low-key in the early days of their relationship,
Later, Li Fan took off for Yu Wenhua's career,
Three orders asked his girlfriend not to disclose his love life,
These are not conducive to career growth,
Then Li Fan's "It Doesn't Rain" became popular,
Yu Wenhua is grateful for her boyfriend's dedication,
The two hurriedly obtained a marriage certificate in a low-key manner, but they never found time for the wedding.
Yin Xiangjie's love is so late a step, and this step is lifelong.
Given that the two people have a comradeship,
After the confession failed, Yin Xiangjie did not embarrass Wenhua again,
The two of them partnered up again, and released the record "Stealing a Moon for Two Days",
Over there, Yu Wenhua is under Li Fan's plan,
entered the crew of "One Acre and Three Points of Land" as an actor, and also sang at the Spring Festival Gala,
Careers can be described as blooming everywhere.
Over the years, Yu Wenhua's admiration for Li Fan has grown day by day,
Simply take the words of your lover as a "token".
She not only walks at work at Li Fan's pace,
In life, he also takes good care of his lover.
Even if she eats an orange, as long as she is there, she will peel Li Fan and put it on the table.
Later, the birth of her daughter was also taken care of by Yu Wenhua alone,
In her opinion, such a life is also full of warmth and happiness,
But that happiness ended in 1999.
That day, Yu Wenhua wanted to parachute into Li Fan's company to surprise his lover
But I saw an unbearable picture,
That is the picture of Li Fan and supervisor Lin Lin cheating,
It turned out that Li Fan had known Lin Lin long before Yu Wenhua.
Two people or lovers relationship,
The reason why he chose to marry Yu Wenhua,
It's just because she's the right person for her.
Yu Wenhua was hit hard because of this, and he closed his door after divorcing Li Fan.
Li Fan also felt sorry for his ex-wife and chose to leave the house.
Yu Wenhua, who left Li Fan,
Not only to digest the pain of betrayal,
I also have to re-plan my career path.
At this time, Yin Xiangjie quietly came to Yu Wenhua's side again, and he told Yu Wenhua:
"Sister, don't be too sad, no matter what, you still have me by your side."
This is Yin Xiangjie's second confession,
Although not as straightforward as the first time, his heart did not change.
Yu Wenhua refused again
"I feel like I need to take a break and stop wanting to touch feelings."
Even if you are rejected for the second time,
Yin Xiangjie is still immortal, in the name of healing his friends,
Take Yu Wenhua and her mother to take a break and play,
Can be moved to move, this warmth still has not been transformed into love,
Because of Yu Wenhua's love,
In 2000, it took root again in a "Mr. Lee".
04
Yu Wenhua, who was immersed in a period of career confusion at that time,
Choose to chat online to relieve emotions.
She chatted happily with a netizen named Mr. Li,
This netizen answered her questions across the screen,
It also provided her with a lot of creative direction.
He suggested to Yu Wenhua,
You can find inspiration from your own mother and sing touching family songs.
Yu Wenhua turned around and saw his mother's back,
Still setting dishes for himself on the table, I suddenly had a lot of feelings in my heart,
So she went to the lyricist and wanted to make her idea a reality.
This is the prototype of the song "Thinking of Old Mother".
Later, netizen Mr. Li actually made up a score for Yu Wenhua and sent it over.
The two netizens have only met for the first time,
Mr. Li is the pianist Li Nian,
He also did not expect that the person on the other side of the screen was the big singer Yu Wenhua,
Maybe fate can't stop it.
In 2001, Li Nian's song "Thinking of Old Mother" was launched, which resonated again.
Yu Wenhua even proved his singing ability to the national audience,
Won the name of the folk queen of "embroidering flowers with her voice",
Later "Autumn Promise" and "Don't Remember Home",
It is also the painstaking work of Li Yan and Yu Wenhua.
This experience with Mr. Li,
And the experience with the ex-husband looks a little similar,
However, Li Yan did not seek rewarding efforts for Wenhua.
For Yu Wenhua,
Not only gave up his artistic career, but concentrated on becoming the man behind Yu Wenhua.
He also personally raised Yu Wenhua and her ex-husband's daughter, treating her as her own.
The two married in 2001,
After marriage, Li Nian in order not to let his wife bear the risk of advanced pregnant women,
Dink was chosen directly.
Not only that, but he also took on the job of taking care of his mother-in-law.
In order to let Yu Wenhua concentrate on his work, he ran at two o'clock in the company and at home.
At the company, he helped his wife with a career, and took care of his daughter-in-law and mother-in-law when he returned home.
Yu Wenhua enjoyed all the favor in this marriage,
It's no longer the little woman who used to look at her lover.
In order to express his love for Li Nian,
She chose to make this relationship public for the first time, and also held a wedding,
Just to let everyone witness her happiness.
Yin Xiangjie drunk at the wedding scene,
His third confession was rotten in his stomach like this, becoming an unspeakable pain.
However, later Yin Xiangjie was involved in drugs twice and became a bad artist.
Yu Wenhua has never left his partner,
did not stay away from Yin Xiangjie because of this.
Instead, many parties apologized for him on the public platform and asked for forgiveness.
After all, this kind of relationship is just a friendship forever.
After marrying Li Nian, Yu Wenhua once again transformed into a patriotic singer.
He also sang "I am a Communist Party member" at the party's anniversary party,
Then "Great Love Without Words" and "Under the Bright Sun",
Let her singing career continue.
In 2011, Yu Wenhua began to focus on public welfare and mining grassroots singers.
She saw it through the Internet,
Wearing a torn cotton jacket, the coat brother Zhu Zhiwen sings "Rolling Yangtze River East Passing Water".
Instead, I think of my own difficult history before becoming famous many years ago.
She called Wang Aihua, the director of the Avenue of Stars,
They went to Zhulou Village together to invite Brother Coat to the show.
It's such a seemingly small move,
Let Zhu Zhiwen, who was once laughed at by the whole village because of poverty, become a "peasant singer",
Became a well-known person in the country,
The family is living well.
How could this road not be the road that Yu Wenhua walked back then?
Yu Wenhua, 57 years old today,
Slowly reduce the number of appearances in front of the screen,
Begin to shift the focus of life to family life.
For Li Nian, she confessed affectionately:
"If there is an afterlife, I will be his wife"
Yu Wenhua's life is sad and bitter,
Fortunately, in the end, everything is bitter,
Behind the happiness,
And why not the result of her long-term persistence.