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When it comes to Liu Peiqi, everyone is familiar with him, he is a national first-class actor, a performance artist with both virtue and art, and has starred in more than 100 classic film and television dramas in 37 years of art.
For example, "No Regrets Tracking", "The Day of Leaving Lei Feng", "The Gate of the Mansion", "Chief Justice", "White Deer Plain", "That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full", "Dragon War" and so on.
Liu Peiqi is a veritable acting actor.
He has won the Best Actor Award of the Chinese Film "Golden Rooster Award" and the Outstanding Actor Award of the 9th Chinese Film "Huabiao Award", and is a "double actor" and a great good actor with acting skills and reputation in the entertainment industry.
In his career, Liu Peiqi has achieved great success, and emotionally, he has also gained a happy family.
He often laments that he has married the right wife, although the two have differences in some aspects, such as the treatment of relatives, the two often disagree, but his wife Meng Tianjiao's approach makes her very moved.
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The year she met Meng Tianjiao, Liu Peiqi was 32 years old, and she was still an unknown little actor, so she had nothing.
They met through introductions.
Meng Tianjiao is four years younger than Liu Peiqi, a native of Beijing, with good family conditions, and is a cashier of the Beijing Film Pictorial.
As far as Meng Tianjiao's conditions are concerned, it is easy to find a young talent, she not only has a good face and a tall figure, but also is very talented and likes to read literary works.
And Liu Peiqi is not a standard handsome guy, the job is unstable, the family conditions are not good, at that time he was still living in a collective dormitory, living with an allowance of more than 100 yuan a month.
Early photographs of Liu Peiqi
But it was such two people who fell in love, and Liu Peiqi later said that she didn't know what Tianjiao had taken a fancy to her.
But love is sometimes so inexplicable, unclear.
In fact, it is also clear that although Liu Peiqi at that time was not handsome and did not become famous, he had a distinct personality, perseverance and stubbornness, and many years of military career trained him to have good cooking skills and a tall body.
Of course, for Meng Tianjiao, it is more important to have a common topic, they all like to watch "Dream of the Red Mansion", on this work, Liu Peiqi read it two or three times, and Meng Tianjiao directly memorized it.
The two have endless topics and endless days of chatting about this work.
In fact, the common ground between them is far more than this, although Meng Tianjiao is not an actor, she also likes to analyze works and likes Zhang Yimou's works.
And the organization of her analysis is very clear, even more level and depth than many actors, which alone deeply attracted Liu Peiqi.
The first time I saw them, I hated each other too late, and I felt that they could come together and have a common language.
Indeed, the deeper they get to know each other, the more they discover that each other is their favorite person, and the other party is like an endless treasure, surprising themselves from time to time.
People often say that falling in love should be the right door, but in fact, the most important thing is that two people have something to say together, have a common language, and can eat together.
Liu Peiqi Gongli "Qiu Ju Fights Lawsuits"
Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao confirmed their relationship, and the two who fell in love began to look forward to a better future.
At the same time, Meng Tianjiao also took him home to meet his parents, saying that the mother-in-law liked her son-in-law more and more the more she looked at it, but Meng's mother did not like it.
The first time she saw her, she asked her daughter to break up with him, and she opposed their relationship, because they were both particularly traditional people, and in their opinion, acting was not a decent profession, and the actor's love was not reliable.
More importantly, Liu Peiqi has many brothers and sisters, the family conditions are not good, the income is not high, and his daughter will have to suffer in the future with him.
Meng's mother forced her daughter to break up with Liu Peiqi, do you think this relationship is so yellow?
No.
Liu Peiqi is a persistent person, how can he give up easily, on the surface, although he promised Meng's mother to break up, but in private he still often went to Meng Tianjiao.
And Meng Tianjiao has long been emotionally inseparable from Liu Peiqi, and she also identified him, so they reconciled again, but they have been hiding it from their parents so much, and secretly is not a solution.
Meng Tianjiao was spoiled, and simply cut off first, she stole the household registration book from her home, and went to get a license with Liu Peiqi to get married.
A month later, they told their parents about it, and the parents who loved their daughter had to accept this fact.
In this way, Meng Tianjiao left her parents, left the house where she had lived for 28 years, and moved with Liu Peiqi to a single dormitory building divided by the eight major comrades-in-arms literary and artistic groups, and began their independent married life.
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Speaking of which, Meng Tianjiao is really a brave woman, desperate for love,
Even if there is no wedding, no candy, no wedding photos, nothing, it is a real naked marriage, she is betting her whole life, but she won the bet.
After marriage, Liu Peiqi's career ushered in spring, although he was busy in various crews,
But he never forgot that there was a wife waiting for her at home, and after filming, he ran home and did not participate in any irrelevant entertainment.
When Meng Tianjiao is on vacation, he will also take her into the crew, and wherever he goes, he cares about his wife.
When she was not around, if he saw beautiful clothes, he would buy them back for her, no matter how expensive, he would not blink his eyes, and he would weigh and weigh the money for himself.
If he saw what skin care products the actress in the crew used, he would also buy them home for his wife.
These have become the envy of others, but in Liu Peiqi's eyes, these are commonplace, a man loves his woman, there is nothing to praise, it should be.
There is another thing that Liu Peiqi appreciates the most, that is, tolerance.
He said that Tianjiao's living ability was a little poor, but she had been actively working hard to do it, and as long as he was at home, he took care of three meals a day.
In his view, a person's ability is secondary, attitude is the main thing, no matter how poor the ability, as long as you are willing to work hard, rather than not being lazy, it is easy to produce contradictions.
But Meng Tianjiao didn't, she has been trying to be a good wife and a good mother.
They know that a good relationship between husband and wife requires mutual tolerance and understanding, which has been practiced throughout their years together.
In 1996, Meng Tianjiao gave birth to a son and was promoted to father, and Liu Peiqi's sense of responsibility became stronger.
He only wants to strive for a better life for his wife and children, and his career has risen to a higher level this year.
As he became popular, he made more and more film appointments, but whenever he was free, he would run home, and he was used to playing with his son and telling him stories.
Once, he was out socializing with a friend, and when he heard his son's voice on the phone, his whole person was completely chaotic and he immediately ran home.
He is such a father, although he has little time to accompany his son since he was a child, but it does not affect their father-son relationship at all, and under Meng Tianjiao's education, his son looks very good.
Liu Peiqi is truly proud to have such a wife and children, and it is their unconditional support and understanding that has made his career.
In 2018, at the TV series quality ceremony, Liu Peiqi won the honor of "Outstanding Old Drama Bone of the Year".
At the award ceremony, in his acceptance speech, he publicly confessed to his wife, saying:
I also want to thank myself, thank my wife Meng Tianjiao, for her strong support for me over the years, but I am sorry that you have also been invisibly widowed.
This passage moved the guests and the audience present, and there must be a woman behind every successful man who pays her all.
Although he is also trying to be a good husband and father while supporting this family, he still feels sorry for them because he has too little time to spend with them.
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As a wife, Meng Tianjiao also touched Liu Peiqi very much, that is, in treating his family, she supported Liu Peiqi to be filial to her parents, and this is as it should be, she herself is also a very filial daughter-in-law.
But in terms of treating her relatives, she has different opinions from Liu Peiqi.
Liu Peiqi is a person who values family affection, he has six brothers and sisters in his family, grew up together since childhood, and has a very deep relationship.
In the years when Liu Peiqi chased his dreams, his brothers and sisters did not give him less support and encouragement, and later they all became their own families and had their own families, although they could not be together all the time, but they were all concerned about each other in their hearts.
Especially Liu Peiqi, he is a person with a strong sense of responsibility, he values the affection of his parents very seriously, he will not forget his own everyone because he has love and becomes a small family.
For him, as long as he is able, he cannot see his family being wronged, especially in life matters.
For example, his brothers and sisters are very poor, some are laid off, some are retired, and he does not want to see them live so hard after he becomes famous, so he often helps them.
In this regard, Meng Tianjiao has her own opinion, she feels that it is right to honor her parents, and the family can also help if they have difficulties, but they can't always help in life, and they don't need it.
In this regard, Liu Peiqi had a disagreement with her, because Meng Tianjiao's family situation was different from him, she could not understand her feelings, she was spoiled since she was a child, and there was no worries at home.
But he was different, he couldn't do it, once he heard someone say that when his brother pedaled his bicycle to sell sugar gourds, he burst into tears, this is how he felt about his family, but Meng Tianjiao couldn't understand it.
So on this point, he will never budge, but he also does it openly, and he will never hide where Meng Tianjiao goes every penny, because he feels that doing so is both disrespectful to her and disrespectful to himself.
And he also felt that it would be very dirty, although it might reduce or avoid some contradictions and differences, but he disdained it.
Perhaps, this is one of the reasons why Meng Tianjiao was desperate for him in the first place: men, with responsibilities and responsibilities.
Of course, Meng Tianjiao is not a petty woman, although she does not help her mouth, she has never stopped in action.
Over the years, she has been constantly doing and supporting Liu Peiqi's family in the aid and assistance.
Liu Peiqi is grateful, fortunately she is looking for Meng Tianjiao, not a small citizen who only recognizes money.
Meng Tianjiao was understanding and reasonable, consolidating the big rear for him and allowing him to rush forward without worries.
Looking back at the marriage of Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao, from love to staying together, they are not perfect people,
But they are willing to work hard for each other to become better people, they understand each other, tolerate each other, understand each other, achieve each other, a life of plain, but also achieve the most real and moving beautiful love.