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"Gu Yan Song" says:
White rabbit, go east and west.
Clothes are not as good as new, people are not as good as old.
It is human instinct, especially in the complicated entertainment industry, divorce is commonplace, and marriage feels like a child's play, but there are also some old drama bones that never leave.
Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao are like this, they only love each other all their lives. Since they met in 1990, they have been together for more than 30 years, their sons are adults, and they still love as passionately as they did at the beginning.
Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao
Speaking of Liu Peiqi, everyone is familiar with him, he is a national first-class actor, a performance artist with both virtue and art, and has starred in more than 100 classic film and television dramas in 37 years of art.
For example, "No Regrets Tracking", "The Day of Leaving Lei Feng", "The Gate of the Mansion", "Chief Justice", "White Deer Plain", "That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full", "Dragon War" and so on.
Liu Peiqi is a veritable acting actor.
He has won the Best Actor Award of the Chinese Film "Golden Rooster Award" and the Outstanding Actor Award of the 9th Chinese Film "Huabiao Award", and is a "double actor" and a great good actor with acting skills and reputation in the entertainment industry.
Compared with Liu Peiqi's fame, Meng Tianjiao is "nameless", because she is not an actress at all, she is just an ordinary person and an ordinary wife.
But for Liu Peiqi, she is not ordinary at all.
For Liu Peiqi, the most correct thing to do in this life is to stick to their love, and the proudest thing is to marry such a wise and virtuous wife.
01
When I met Meng Tianjiao, Liu Peiqi had not yet become famous.
Liu Peiqi was born in Tianjin in 1958, with many brothers and sisters, plus eight parents.
Liu Peiqi's parents like to listen to dramas and often take him to see plays at the Great Chinese Theater, so Liu Peiqi has developed a strong interest in music art since he was a child.
So he followed the radio to learn crosstalk, commenting books, and learning to sing Peking opera.
Liu Peiqi, who entered middle school at the age of 13, was excavated by music teachers and selected into the school propaganda team to learn dance.
At that time, Liu Peiqi's dream was to become a ballet dancer, but the conditions were limited, so he focused on learning national dance, which also laid a solid foundation for him to embark on the road of art.
In 1975, Liu Peiqi was admitted to a military literary and artistic troupe in Tianjin and became a literary and artistic soldier.
However, because he was young and frivolous, he was not used to seeing people who did not know how to pretend to understand, and who could not pretend to be good, so he offended many comrades-in-arms.
In Liu Peiqi's own words, "I am a long-term rebel", so he was assigned to the cooking class to steam steamed buns, which practiced his craft of steaming steamed buns, and so far his steamed steamed buns have been appreciated by the crew.
Liu Peiqi Cowen Troupe wants to stand on the stage to perform, but now he deals with noodles and steamed buns every day, he is a little depressed, and he is a little confused about his future.
Until he watched the drama "In the Silent Place", the dream in his heart could not be hidden.
This drama was performed six times in a row, Liu Peiqi watched six times and cried six times, he was deeply convinced, and his inner desire to perform was about to come out.
In 1979, Liu Peiqi was admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
During her time in school, Liu Peiqi's tattooed personality in the Art Troupe was somewhat restrained, and she served as a class leader for four consecutive years, ranking first in the cultural courses of professional courses, which can be said to be quite excellent.
But at that time, he was not "welcomed" by the teacher, because his class leader was not the teacher's helper, but the "handguard" of his classmates, some classmates did not want to run exercises, he lied for him and said that it was stomach pain, some classmates skipped class, he lied that classmates had diarrhea ...
And so on, every day.
In addition, Liu Peiqi is also very righteous.
There was a youngest and good-looking classmate named Wu Ruofu in the class, because he was favored by the teacher, so classmates often bullied him, either hiding his books or blocking him in the toilet.
Liu Peiqi is naturally not used to seeing it, so he often protects Wu Ruofu, so he has also become the "enemy" of those people, but he and Wu Ruofu have become good brothers for life.
In 1983, Liu Peiqi graduated from the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
He could have been assigned to an art group in Beijing, but because he was in love at the time, the other party was assigned to the Xinjiang Military Region Repertory Troupe, and in order not to separate in love, he also followed his girlfriend to Xinjiang.
However, dreams are full, and reality is skinny. When he arrived in Xinjiang, his girlfriend got along with him for a while and broke up because the two were not compatible with each other, and in his career, there was basically no work for two years.
Frustrated in the mood and not smooth in the workplace, Liu Peiqi fell into a trough, he once suffered from depression, he couldn't figure out that he was not bad for anything, but he was worse than anything.
At that time, Liu Peiqi often sat dry and entered a state of depression, which was manifested by not saying a word for a day.
In 1985, the comedy movie "Two Sons Open a Store" starring Chen Qiang and Chen Peisi was prepared,
It just so happened that Chen Peisi knew Liu Peiqi, and he felt that there was a role in the film that matched his image very well, so he invited him to star.
This role is the "Shunzi" in the play, and the "second son" played by Chen Peisi is a friend.
Liu Peiqi cherished this opportunity, he went hard to perform, Chen Peisi is also very powerful, he gave Liu Peiqi a higher performance subsidy fee than others, others only 0.73 yuan a day, Liu Peiqi has 5 yuan.
Other actors were quite critical of this, but Chen Peisi shut them up with one sentence, which also brought tears to Liu Peiqi's eyes, he said:
You receive a monthly salary, and Liu Peiqi has no one to pay him, he has to support himself completely by filming, and he is not much to give him 5 yuan a day.
In this way, Liu Peiqi starred in her first movie.
02
In 1988, the Beijing Military Region Comrades-in-Arms Repertory Troupe recruited actors, Liu Peiqi learned about it and applied for the exam, fortunately he was successfully admitted, and he finally had a unit instead of an individual actor.
However, this has not fundamentally changed the situation of Liu Peiqi, who is still very poor, living in a dormitory with five colleagues and receiving a stipend of 100 yuan a month.
It is said that thirty years old, in 1990, Liu Peiqi was 32 years old, his career did not improve, love did not come, there was nothing, in that era he belonged to the absolute "older leftover man", the family urged marriage, he himself was anxious.
Because he usually fights righteously, friends also actively advocate for Liu Peiqi, and this autumn, Liu Peiqi met Meng Tianjiao under the introduction of a friend.
Meng Tianjiao was a cashier of the Beijing Film Pictorial at that time, she was very beautiful, four years younger than Liu Peiqi, and her figure was also very tall, bright eyes and teeth, Liu Peiqi was moved when she saw it.
Stills from the Peking Opera version of "The Gate of the Mansion"
And Meng Tianjiao didn't know whether she was attracted by Liu Peiqi's talent, or fascinated by his simple character, Liu Peiqi's persistence and stubbornness were bare-headed in the eyes of others, but they all became advantages in her eyes.
And most importantly, although the two are from different industries, they are like-minded and have the same affection.
The first time Liu Peiqi saw Meng Tianjiao, she felt that they could walk together because they both liked to watch "Dream of the Red Mansion".
How much do you like it? If Liu Peiqi only watched it two or three times, Meng Tianjiao was to the point where she could memorize it.
Just this one common hobby can bring them together.
In fact, they have a lot in common.
They like the analysis of works, they like Zhang Yimou's works, and Meng Tianjiao's analysis is logical and organized, which is even more level and depth than some actors, which alone convinced Liu Peiqi.
In this way, two people who seemed unequal to others came together and did not turn back.
Meng Tianjiao's parents were strongly opposed when they learned that she was dating Liu Peiqi, and in their eyes, their daughter's conditions were so good, they could find a better partner.
And Liu Peiqi wants nothing, in terms of appearance, he is not a standard handsome man with a good appearance;
As an actor, he has no masterpieces, and he is unknown;
In addition, he has many brothers and sisters in his family, and his salary is low, he has no economic foundation, and the actor is unstable, and the divorce rate is also high...
In short, Meng Tianjiao's parents were 10,000 points dissatisfied, and they were forcibly separated.
But Liu Peiqi is a persistent person, he did not back down because of this, he still often went to Meng Tianjiao;
And Meng Tianjiao also admired him more and more in her relationship with him, liked him, and she couldn't do without him, but what could she do if her parents didn't agree?
She stole the household registration book from her home, and a month after she and Liu Peiqi went to get a marriage certificate, she told her parents that the raw rice had been cooked and matured, and the parents had to accept their daughter's choice.
Liu Peiqi and Gong Li "Qiu Ju Fights Lawsuits" stills
To say, Meng Tianjiao is really brave, regardless of the opposition of her parents and family, she stole the household registration book and Liu Peiqi to receive the certificate.
There are no weddings;
No joy sugar;
No wedding photos;
There is nothing, some are a 9-square-meter wedding room allocated to Liu Peiqi by the unit, which is a real naked marriage, and she is gambling with her whole life.
However, she won the bet.
03
After marriage, Liu Peiqi's career began to reverse, first making a cameo appearance in Zhang Yimou's "Qiu Ju Fights Lawsuits" for 7 scenes.
Although there are only a few scenes, it is a small role, but "Qiu Ju Fights Lawsuits" has become a classic, and Liu Peiqi has made a great contribution.
After that, although Liu Peiqi's acting career still did not improve greatly, with the support and encouragement of his wife, he was full of confidence.
In 1994, in the movie "Second Sister", Liu Peiqi won four awards at the Locarno International Film Festival with her wonderful performance, and Liu Peiqi began to emerge in the film and television industry.
1996 was the year of Liu Peiqi's double happiness.
First of all, he gained attention with "No Regrets Tracking" in his career, and "The Day of Leaving Lei Feng" was named the actor, and then ushered in the crystallization of his love with Meng Tianjiao and officially upgraded to his father.
Stills from "China in the Story"
In 1997, Liu Peiqi was transferred to the Central Experimental Theater (now the National Theater of China), and was rated as a national first-class actor, and her career climbed again.
After that, Liu Peiqi's acting career, from movies to dramas and TV series, continued to play well, creating many classic roles for the audience, becoming an "evergreen" in the entertainment industry and deeply loved by the audience.
In 2013, Liu Peiqi also served as a director and starring for the first time, filming the warm inspirational drama "Happiness Depends on Each Other".
From actor to director, Liu Peiqi's success is inevitable, because he has been pursuing, has been surpassing himself, and has never given up, of course, the biggest contributor behind this is his wife Meng Tianjiao.
In 2018, at the TV series quality ceremony, Liu Peiqi won the honor of "Outstanding Old Drama Bone of the Year", and at the award ceremony, when delivering an acceptance speech, he publicly confessed to his wife, saying:
I also want to thank myself, thank my wife Meng Tianjiao, for her strong support for me over the years, but I am sorry that you have also been invisibly widowed.
This passage moved the guests and the audience present, a person can not forget to give a wife and publicly confess when he succeeds, this deep affection is rare, this perseverance is even more difficult.
However, love is mutual, and husband and wife should support each other, understand each other, and love each other.
Over the years, Liu Peiqi's career has developed better and better, it is Meng Tianjiao who silently pays behind his back, he has been in the crew for a year and a half, and Meng Tianjiao not only has to go to work, but also takes care of her son and takes care of everything at home.
She has suffered a lot of pressure alone, but she also knows that Liu Peiqi is also working hard for this family, so she has never complained.
Liu Peiqi can see his wife's dedication, and is also a responsible man, as long as he finishes filming, he will run home, tell stories to his son, play with his son, and help his wife share housework.
What's even more rare is that after he became famous, he still stuck to his original intention, no scandal, saw clothes suitable for his wife, no matter how expensive they were, he would buy them for her, and when he heard which actress said which cosmetics were good, he would also send the same cosmetics to her, more than thirty years, this habit has not changed.
There is another very enviable point between Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao, that is, tolerance.
In terms of life ability, because of her good background, Meng Tianjiao's ability is worse, but she has been actively working hard to do it, and Liu Peiqi feels very good.
Because ability is secondary, attitude is the main thing, no matter how bad the ability is, as long as you work hard, it doesn't matter if you do it well.
And the important point is that he never blames the other party for not doing well, but personally does it, as long as he is at home, he takes care of three meals a day, so Meng Tianjiao does not hesitate to praise him as a five-star chef.
Husband and wife appreciate each other and understand each other, which has become a magic weapon for their family harmony, and the sense of family responsibility makes their small home more and more solid and warm.
Of course, they will also have disagreements, such as Liu Peiqi can't see that her brothers and sisters are living hard, so she often lends a helping hand, but Meng Tianjiao has a different view on this, of course, she is not opposed to him honoring his parents, she just feels that it is necessary to divide the situation.
However, in the final analysis, she did not really prevent Liu Peiqi from helping and assisting her family, on the contrary, she herself is constantly doing it and constantly supporting, which makes Liu Peiqi very moved.
So he never hides where every penny goes, although he can hide it completely, which may also reduce some contradictions and disagreements, but he did not do it.
Because he felt that this was very stingy, very boring, and he felt that not hiding it was respecting both himself and her.
Liu Peiqi sighed that she was lucky to find Meng Tianjiao as a wife, she was understanding, reasonable, took care of her son and educated him very well, and supported him unconditionally, without a word of complaint, very great, he felt very proud of it, so how to love them is not exaggerated.
For the preservation of the relationship between husband and wife, Liu Peiqi has her own opinion, I think this is suitable for every couple, if they can do it, then there will be many more happy families in this world.
He said: "There is no major issue of principle between husband and wife, it should be more able to tear off the mask to open up communication, communication and collision, can't it be over?" Do you still have to find out what to do? That's exhausting! ”
This is the truth, husband and wife should talk more about love, less fight to win or lose, sometimes you win the reason, lose the family, the gain is not worth the loss.
Looking back on the love between Liu Peiqi and Meng Tianjiao, at the beginning of their acquaintance, he was unknown,
But because they are attracted to each other, they come together and fall in love, even if their parents oppose it, they cannot separate them;
Later, Liu Peiqi became popular, proved himself with one work after another, and created many classics on the screen, he still adhered to his original intention and thanked his wife for her dedication and fulfillment;
Although he could not accompany her from time to time because of his work, he remembered her preferences, knew the size of her clothes, and remembered to buy and bring back to her wherever he went;
When he returned home, he did not have a grandfather's shelf, but took care of three meals a day, shared it for his wife, played with his son, and told him stories.
Liu Peiqi once said that she didn't know what attracted Meng Tianjiao in the first place, so that she could not turn back for herself.
I think it is his character and that responsibility, whether it is a difficult situation, or with the improvement of his living standards of fame, the passage of time, his care for his wife, children and family, has never changed.