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Text | Li Peishu
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Zhao Yazhi is 68 years old, because of proper maintenance and good attitude, she now looks like she is only thirty or forty years old, so she is called "ageless goddess" by many netizens.
Compared with many actresses of the same era, Zhao Yazhi is not only "not old", but also has achieved long-term popularity.
She has been debuting for 47 years and is still booming, even young audiences after 05 recognize her.
However, what many young viewers don't know is that Zhao Yazhi has experienced 2 marriages and has 3 sons.
Today we will talk about Zhao Yazhi's story.
See what she's been through?
How are her three sons doing now?
01
Zhao Yazhi, originally from Henan, was born in Hong Kong in November 1953, with an older brother above her, two older sisters and a younger sister below.
Although there are many children in the family, Zhao Yazhi has never been hungry since she was a child.
Her father is very powerful, a good businessman, and he uses his hard work to make the family worry-free.
With a father who can make money, Zhao Yazhi's mother became a housewife, taking care of and educating her 5 children at home.
What worries Zhao Yazhi's mother is that although Zhao Yazhi is a girl, she was very naughty when she was a child, like a tomboy.
When she was a child, Zhao Yazhi was wilder than boys of the same age, either her hands were scratched or her legs were scratched.
When it was time to eat, her mother had to shout her name at the door for a long time before she came home to eat.
What surprised her mother was that by the age of 13, Zhao Yazhi was like a changed person, she was no longer "wild", but became very ladylike.
For her daughter's sudden change, Zhao Yazhi's mother was taken aback, she thought that her daughter had fallen in love early.
In fact, Zhao Yazhi did not fall in love early, she just grew up and changed.
And since then, Zhao Yazhi has had a dream.
She wants to travel the world.
So how to achieve this dream? Zhao Yazhi thought of becoming a flight attendant.
In 1971, 17-year-old Zhao Yazhi encountered the opportunity to become a flight attendant.
This year, she graduated from high school and Japan Airlines recruited flight attendants in Hong Kong.
Hearing this news, Zhao Yazhi wanted to try, but was not confident enough.
Her mother saw her concerns and encouraged her to try it.
So, Zhao Yazhi participated in the interview and was successfully hired.
Before officially signing a contract with Japan Airlines, Yazhi Zhao went to Japan for training with the training course.
She learned Japanese, first aid, swimming and other skills.
She has learned to maintain her posture, and she is much more proficient in makeup, grooming, and dressing up than before.
At that time, Zhao Yazhi would not have imagined that these studies not only made her an excellent flight attendant, but also changed the trajectory of her fate 2 years later.
02
In 1973, 19-year-old Zhao Yazhi had been a flight attendant for 2 years.
The repetitive work made her feel a little bored, and it was at this time that TVB held the first "Miss Hong Kong" beauty pageant.
After Zhao Yazhi's mother learned the news, she encouraged Zhao Yazhi to participate.
Zhao Yazhi, who happened to be bored, signed up, and the training she received as a flight attendant helped her a lot to participate in the competition.
In the end, after passing all the way, Zhao Yazhi won the fourth place, and the first place was Deborah, that is, Nicholas Tse's mother.
As for why she only won the fourth place, Zhao Yazhi felt that it was because of her nervousness and jerkyness.
During the competition, the host asked her what kind of dress she liked? She nervously said that she liked long skirts, and as a result, she wore a miniskirt that day, and she was criticized by some for her inconsistent appearance and lost a lot of points.
Another reason she dropped points was that she was too honest. The host asked her why she came to participate in the Hong Kong sister competition? She said her mother had called her.
Her answer made many judges think she had no personality.
Although she failed to enter the top three, she has been favored by many advertisers and TV crews because of her outstanding appearance and temperament.
Faced with the invitation to shoot advertisements and TV series, Zhao Yazhi all chose to refuse, and she ran back to continue to be a flight attendant.
Zhao Yazhi's continued work as a flight attendant is related to her father.
Zhao Yazhi's father has always hoped that Zhao Yazhi can become a doctor, and it is precisely because of the fact that entering the entertainment industry is not the same as her father's expectations, Zhao Yazhi refused various invitations in the entertainment industry.
Therefore, after continuing to work as a flight attendant, whenever she had free time, Zhao Yazhi read books about medicine.
After a long time, Zhao Yazhi found that interest could not be forced, and she had no interest in medicine from the bottom of her heart.
It was also in this process that Zhao Yazhi's flight attendant work changed.
Her flight was changed to long-haul flight from Hong Kong to Canada.
This made Zhao Yazhi very uncomfortable, and being away from home for a long time made her feel homesick, and she knew that she was tired of flying around.
The emergence of this series of situations has made Zhao Yazhi have to rethink her future path.
At this moment, TVB appeared, and TVB invited her to be the host.
In the end, after careful consideration, Zhao Yazhi quit her job as a flight attendant and signed a contract with TVB.
After entering TVB, Zhao Yazhi did not immediately become the host, but asked to start from the grassroots level.
So she worked as an assistant choreographer for the famous director Tan Jiaming, responsible for production, assistant director, drama, props, costumes and other work.
After working as an assistant choreographer for a while, she gained a clearer understanding of the television industry, and she became the host of the game quiz show "Big Heart".
Because the work in front of the stage and behind the scenes had to be done, Zhao Yazhi found that she couldn't take care of her energy.
So she decided to concentrate on being an entertainer.
She not only hosted "Big Heart" well, but also starred in her first TV series "Riding the Wind and Waves".
This year, in 1975, 21-year-old Zhao Yazhi officially entered the entertainment industry.
It was also in this year that Zhao Yazhi got married.
03
Zhao Yazhi's husband, Huang Hanwei, is a doctor who is 10 years older than Zhao Yazhi.
Zhao Yazhi was able to marry Huang Hanwei, and her mother played an important role.
It was precisely because of their mother's matchmaking that Zhao Yazhi and Huang Hanwei entered the palace of marriage.
For Huang Hanwei, Zhao Yazhi is not exclusive, and coupled with the parents' liking and approval, their marriage has become a smooth thing.
After marriage, Zhao Yazhi gave birth to Huang Hanwei's eldest son Huang Guanghong and younger son Huang Guangyi in 1977 and 1980 respectively.
In this process, Zhao Yazhi became a first-line artist.
With her wonderful performance in dramas such as "Relying on the Sky and Slaying the Dragon", "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang", "Shanghai Beach" and other dramas, Zhao Yazhi has spread all over Southeast Asia and has become one of TVB's "Four Hua Dan".
When Zhao Yazhi's acting career ushered in a peak, her relationship with Huang Hanwei went wrong.
Huang Hanwei didn't want her to show her face, so the couple quarreled many times.
In addition, two scandals related to Zhao Yazhi also affected their marriage.
In the process of Zhao Yazhi's fame, she had an affair with two male stars, Zheng Shaoqiu and Huang Yuanshen.
Zhao Yazhi and Zheng Shaoqiu have cooperated in many dramas, such as "Revenge", "Tycoon", "Relying on the Sky to Slay the Dragon", "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang" and other dramas are classics of their cooperation.
Because they cooperated a lot, the relationship between the two was better, and their scandals grew, and even rumors developed to the point that Zhao Yazhi and Zheng Shaoqiu had an illegitimate child.
Compared with Zheng Shaoqiu's scandal, the scandal between Zhao Yazhi and Huang Yuanshen also caused heated discussions at that time.
It is rumored that Zhao Yazhi and Huang Yuanshen had an affair because of drama when they collaborated on "Peeling the Wrong Big Teeth and Removing the Wrong Bones" in 1978, and then Huang Yuanshen wrote a lot of love letters to Zhao Yazhi.
Unfortunately, these love letters were discovered by Huang Hanwei.
Rumor has it that Huang Hanwei severely beat Zhao Yazhi after finding a love letter at home.
In the face of scandals and bizarre "plots", Zhao Yazhi said "the clear man clears himself".
Under various factors, the relationship between Zhao Yazhi and Huang Hanwei is getting worse and worse.
Years later, Zhao Yazhi talked about the end of this marriage and said frankly:
"At that time, I realized that no matter how useful my career is, if I am not happy in life, I have nothing to do. The whole person is very hard, and the heart is also bitter. ”
Finally, in 1982, their marriage came to an end.
It's just that although the divorce was successful, Zhao Yazhi and Huang Hanwei must face a question: who will raise the two children?
They both want custody of their two sons.
For the custody of their two sons, Zhao Yazhi and Huang Hanwei had to go to court.
Years later, looking back on this past, Zhao Yazhi said that this was a very difficult and low period in her life.
It was during this period that a man named Huang Jinsun appeared beside Zhao Yazhi, helped her out of the trough, and brought her happiness.
04
A native of Hong Kong, Wong worked as a pharmacist in the United States before entering the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
Once he returned to Hong Kong, he met a filmmaker through the introduction of a friend.
Later, the filmmaker wanted to make a film involving many foreigners, and because Wong Kam-sun was fluent in English, he was invited to play a role, and he entered the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
In 1981, Huang Jinsun got the opportunity to star in "Female Black Hero Magnolia" directed by Wang Tianlin and To Qifeng.
Not long after the drama was filmed, Huang Jinsun was moved by the heroine of this drama.
The heroine of the play is Zhao Yazhi.
However, Zhao Yazhi was already married at that time, and Huang Jinsun could only hide this feeling deep in his heart.
What Huang Jinsun did not expect was that Zhao Yazhi divorced in 1982 and started a lawsuit for seizing children.
In order to be able to get close to Zhao Yazhi and help Zhao Yazhi, Wong Kam-sun studied hard legal knowledge, especially legal knowledge related to divorce and custody.
Finally, feeling that he had "achieved success in his studies", he found Zhao Yazhi one day, and he said that he would help her fight the lawsuit.
At first, Zhao Yazhi thought that Huang Jinsun was joking, but she chose to refuse.
But after she saw Wong Jin-sun take out a law book with dense notes, she knew that Wong Jin-sun was serious.
In the end, with the help of Huang Jinshen, Zhao Yazhi got the custody of her two sons.
After helping Zhao Yazhi regain custody of his two sons, Huang Jinsun found an opportunity to confess to Zhao Yazhi.
Zhao Yazhi rejected him.
Zhao Yazhi, who has experienced a failed marriage, does not dare to start a new relationship.
In the face of rejection, Huang Jinsun was not discouraged, he continued to be good to Zhao Yazhi, and was especially good to Zhao Yazhi's two sons.
He also said to Zhao Yazhi:
"Life is so short, what is suitable must be fought for, love is irrational, can not be analyzed slowly, so you must strive for your own suitable under no reason, even if it is a moment of romance."
For Huang Jinshen's kindness to herself and her children, Zhao Yazhi saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart, and her complete acceptance of Huang Jinsun stemmed from an earthquake.
One day, Huang Jinsun was at Zhao Yazhi's house, accompanying Zhao Yazhi and two children to play.
Suddenly, an earthquake came. Huang Jinsun asked Zhao Yazhi to hold her younger son and go first, and he escorted her eldest son to evacuate.
Zhao Yazhi, who was running in front, suddenly heard a loud noise, her heart was shocked, she was worried that something would happen to Huang Jinsun and her eldest son.
When she looked back, she saw Wong Kum Sun tightly holding her eldest son in his arms, and he had been scratched by a glass shard on his arm.
At that moment, Zhao Yazhi knew that she had found a man worthy of entrusting her life.
They fell in love and entered the palace of marriage in 1985.
At that time, the outside world was very unoptimistic about their marriage.
After all, in everyone's opinion, regardless of fame, social status, and appearance, Huang Jinsun does not match Zhao Yazhi, not to mention that Huang Jinsun is 7 years older than Zhao Yazhi.
However, no matter what the outside world says, Zhao Yazhi firmly chooses to be with Huang Jinshen.
When the outside world fabricated rumors of their divorce because they were not optimistic about their marriage, Zhao Yazhi said solemnly:
"We are not divorced and will not be divorced in the future."
05
After two years of marriage, Zhao Yazhi and Huang Jinsun ushered in the crystallization of their love, and their son Huang Kaijie was born in 1987.
After the birth of her youngest son, Zhao Yazhi decided to fade out of the entertainment industry and concentrate on taking care of her 3 children at home.
In Zhao Yazhi's view, taking care of family and children is more important than acting career.
Later, when the child was a little older, Zhao Yazhi began to take over the play, and as soon as she came back, she returned to the ranks of first-line actresses with dramas such as "Jinghua Smoke Cloud" and "Joking about Qianlong", and a "Legend of the New White Lady" in 1992 pushed her acting career to the peak.
What many people don't know is that because she has to take care of her children, Zhao Yazhi almost rejected "The Legend of the New White Lady". It was Huang Jinsun who asked her to film well and not worry about her children's affairs.
In order to let Zhao Yazhi develop her career with peace of mind, Huang Jinsun faded out of the entertainment industry and took care of his family.
For Huang Jinshen's dedication, Zhao Yazhi is very grateful.
After not being an actor, Huang Jinsun turned into a lawyer, and as long as he did not appear in court, he would accompany Zhao Yazhi to events.
Therefore, everyone saw Huang Jinsun accompanying Zhao Yazhi rain or shine for decades, and their happiness was enviable.
Therefore, many people are curious about how they maintain a happy marriage, and Zhao Yazhi answered this question, she said:
"Don't be a husband, be a boyfriend, and appreciate what he does. Happiness is not inevitable, love and career need to be managed, and my way is to be conscientious, considerate of my husband, and help him when he needs it. ”
To this question, Wong Kam-sun's answer is more "straight to the soul", he said:
"In fact, there is only one secret at the end of the day: 'The wife is always right!' ”
Now that Zhao Yazhi and Huang Jinsun have been married for 37 years, they are still as loving as ever, so what about Zhao Yazhi's 3 sons?
06
For her three sons, Zhao Yazhi never stipulated what kind of life path they had to take.
She taught them with her principles of being a human being to be a good and upright person.
Today, his three sons have grown up, the eldest son Huang Guanghong is 45 years old, the second son Huang Guangyi is 42 years old, and the youngest Huang Kaijie is also 35 years old.
They are all top students, one is more handsome than the other, and they are all the pride of Zhao Yazhi.
Huang Guanghong has done well in school since he was a child and now works at a newspaper.
Huang Guangyi studied in Canada in his early years, and after returning to Hong Kong, he worked as an executive in a company.
Huang Kaijie graduated from the University of Southern California in the United States, and later went to the Beijing Film Academy to study in the acting department and obtained a postgraduate degree.
Unlike the two older brothers, who have no interest in the entertainment industry, Huang Kaijie has a strong interest in the entertainment industry.
Like his mother Zhao Yazhi, he became an actor and starred in film and television dramas such as "Sorry, I Love You", "Immortal Time" and "Pacific Rim 2". Even he played Bai Suzhen's son Xu Shilin in the new version of "The Legend of the New White Lady".
Although Huang Kaijie does not have a fire yet, he has been working hard and still has a promising future.
With such excellent three sons, a husband who loves him, and a successful career, I have to say that Zhao Yazhi is really a winner in life.