#头条创作挑战赛 #
Writing has temperature, hot spots have attitude, and the distance between me and you is just one "concern".
01
This year, for Liu Wei, was really too difficult.
On February 24, Liu Wei shared a dynamic with his mother on his personal account, with a caption:
My mother has given me a lot of love since I was a child, and now it is my turn to take care of her and love her.
I hope that everyone will pray for her, and she will definitely save the danger and recover.
Then, that night, Liu Wei said in the live broadcast that he had disbanded the work team and would temporarily withdraw from the entertainment industry to fully take care of his mother who had recurred cancer. He also thanked his artist friends who had helped him recently.
Among them, Wang Yanlin, Xiao Shenyang and others also looked for local professional hospitals for him, and Xie Na also called him to express his concern, which made him very moved.
Under Liu Wei's careful care, her mother's condition improved for a while, but she did not expect to return to the light.
On April 14, Liu Wei's studio published an obituary, saying that Liu Wei's mother, Ms. Zhang Ying, died of ineffective medical treatment at the age of 63.
After that, Liu Wei was depressed for a long time, almost insulated from the large screen.
Unexpectedly, seeing him on the hot search again was actually another sad news.
On October 21, Liu Wei's studio published an obituary again, saying that Liu Wei's father, Mr. Liu Ye, died of ineffective medical treatment at the age of 67.
Subsequently, Liu Wei posted three photos of himself and his father in his personal account, with the caption:
At five fifty-nine in the morning, I became an orphan and I would love myself well.
Just 12 hours before his father died, he also sent a message to pray for his father, hoping that he could have his own heavenly appearance and get through the Nanguan (difficult pass).
It can be seen that his mood at that time must have been extremely bad, otherwise there would not be so many typos.
But in the comment area, some netizens broke the news: My father's condition is so serious, Liu Wei was still bringing goods in the live broadcast room on the night of the 20th, I don't know if I saw my father for the last time?
I just want to say that Liu Wei's filial piety is beyond doubt.
Remember, when he announced in the live broadcast that he would temporarily retire from the entertainment industry and take care of his sick mother, a netizen left a message below:
In this ever-changing circle, retiring is likely to mean that there is no chance again.
This kind reminder is clear to Liu Wei, who has been in the entertainment industry for 17 years before he has achieved today, he knows better than anyone.
It's just that career can wait, but family affection can't wait.
Compared with the Japanese side, life is more about leaving the scene in a hurry.
Because, for Liu Wei, family affection will always be the pain of his childhood.
02
Liu Wei was born in Anshan, Liaoning in the 80s with a golden key.
Mom is a wonderful costume designer and Dad is a businessman. Such a combination has allowed him to have no worries about food and clothing since he was a child, and his family conditions are better than those of his peers around him.
Moreover, my mother's voice conditions are very good, and Teresa Teng's singing voice has been discovered by talent scouts, but unfortunately she did not debut because of a lack of pitch. Although Dad can't sing, he is good at musical instruments, especially the saxophone plays well.
Therefore, Liu Wei has spent his mother's singing voice and his father's saxophone since he was a child. Perhaps it was at that time that the seeds of music were planted, and Liu Wei, who can now control any genre.
But such a happy time came to an abrupt end when he was two years old.
The parents ended the marriage with a divorce certificate due to the breakdown of their relationship, which also announced the breakdown of a family.
Poor Liu Wei, born with a golden key, failed to have a happy childhood.
When his mother left Guangzhou in order to make a living, he became a left-behind child and depended on his grandmother.
Liu Wei once said that because of the lack of family affection, his childhood was sensitive and inferior.
Although his grandmother treated him very well, without his parents by his side, he had no confidence in doing anything.
Occasionally fight with classmates, even if the fight is won, the other party's "I'll go back and tell my mother to go" will make him cry bitterly.
And if you lose, you don't even want to hold your mother crying.
During that time, Liu Wei was also particularly afraid of holding parent-teacher meetings.
Every time there is a parent-teacher meeting, a classmate will ask him: Why is your grandmother here, your mother and father?
Liu Wei didn't know how to answer, so he had to hold his face red, and his grandmother saw that he was being bullied and wanted to go up and theorize. As a result, Liu Wei pulled the corner of his grandmother's clothes and asked: What about my mother?
Looking back on Liu Wei's childhood, running through the bullying of classmates and his own inferiority, it is almost a haze.
But years later, when Liu Wei told these stories on the show, he forced a smile, as if he was telling someone else's story.
Nabokov once wrote in his book:
There are three things in life that cannot be saved: time, life and love. You want to stay, but you drift away.
Therefore, when his mother's cancer returned, the first thing he thought about was not himself, but companionship.
Because he doesn't want to lose his mother again, he doesn't want to leave his regrets to his future self.
03
Not everyone can wait to say goodbye to you.
The most painful thing in this world is that the son wants to be raised and does not wait for his family.
I still remember when Fei Yuqing was on fire, he suddenly announced in a personal letter that he would quit the entertainment industry.
After the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar. After all, his songs have influenced generations of people.
But Fei Yuqing looked at all this very indifferently.
In a personal letter to fans, he said:
When both parents died, I suddenly lost my place in life, without their attention and sharing, the gorgeous stage made me feel more lonely.
He dedicated his life to the music scene, but after the death of both parents, he gradually drifted apart.
He said that he has no regrets in life, but when he thinks that his parents are gone, he will always be lonely. I finally understood that I no longer chase fame and fortune, and stop to really taste life.
It's just a pity that the parents are no longer visible.
Before Yue Yunpeng became a big name, in 2013, he went to Germany with Deyun Society to perform.
On the stage, Yue Yunpeng laughed and scolded, gags, until the curtain call, there was no sad expression on his face.
The performance was very good, and the audience applauded.
Until the final curtain call, when thousands of people began to sing "Song of the Five Rings", Yue Yunpeng, who was the lead singer, failed to hold back and cried out at once.
He said that just the day before the performance, his father died suddenly, but he did not even see his father for the last time.
Guo Degang told him at that time that he could buy a plane ticket back at any time, but Yue Yunpeng chose to stay in order for this performance to go smoothly.
Before the performance, he headed in the direction of his hometown and kowtowed a few times to the photo in front of his father. As soon as the performance ended, he immediately bought a ticket back to China and knelt down in front of his father's spirit.
But later, whenever he talked about it, Yue Yunpeng regretted it, even if no one in the family blamed him.
Years later, he asked someone to write a song for his father, called "If There Was an Elevator to Heaven":
If there is an elevator to heaven, I want to see you at all costs,
Let you see my results, is it considered to have a little outlet,
If there is an elevator to heaven, I will definitely go to see you at all costs,
Let you see my sons and daughters, who look like me and like you.....
There are no flowery words, no excessive embellishments, only endless thoughts about my father.
Years later, when Yue Yunpeng appeared on Venus' show, Venus asked him: Is the drama greater than the sky or the parents greater than the sky?
Yue Yunpeng said without hesitation, asked me a few years ago, I may say that the drama is bigger than the sky, but now, my parents are bigger than the sky.
The "lateness" at that moment finally became the deepest pain in his life.
Bi Shumin said in the article "Filial Piety":
I believe that every sincere and loyal child has made a grand wish of "filial piety" to his parents in his heart, believes that he will grow up in Japan, believes that the water will come to fruition, and believes that he will be able to fulfill his filial piety calmly when he returns home with success.
It is a pity that people forget, forget the cruelty of time, forget the shortness of life, forget that there is kindness in the world that can never be repaid, and forget the fragility of life itself.
04
Looking back at Liu Wei today, you know how difficult it is to "let go" when your career is on fire.
Many people know Liu Wei because he is a variety show, as long as he is in the place, he will not be cold, he always has a way to make the atmosphere on the stage hot.
But who ever remembered that Liu Wei debuted in the summer of 2005, on the stage of the most popular show "I Type Me Show", and he was the champion that year.
After winning the championship, the company sent him to South Korea to study. But after returning from more than a year of study, Liu Wei found that the entertainment industry in the mainland had long changed, and he had long been forgotten by the audience.
During that time, he didn't sing or film, he was a marginal figure in the entertainment industry, and in order to change to a new brokerage company, he also put himself in huge debts.
In order to pay off his debts, he tried many ways to make money, and even opened an online store. But before the store opened, it was defrauded of 5,000 yuan.
In order to return to the stage, to host, to imitate, to set the atmosphere, for a while he would often hide in the corner alone and cry, because after each hosting, his throat hurt so much that he couldn't sing at all.
Later, Liu Wei finally ushered in the opportunity. On the stage of "Variety Coffee Show", he imitated Wu Mochou's performance, which was really amazing, and no one could fault it.
His career began to slowly improve, and more and more variety shows invited to him, but almost all of them let Liu Wei be a "supporting role" as a comedian.
Fortunately, Liu Wei has no stand, in order to strive for more stage opportunities, he began to learn to throw and pick up stems, and brought his humor cells to the extreme.
Slowly, he stood on the stage of CCTV with his own efforts, making his mother happy and proud of him.
You know, this step, Liu Wei has walked for 17 years.
But now, because he takes care of his parents, he has lost the aura of the former little prince of variety shows, and spends more time live in his own boutique.
Finally, someone gave him free publicity, and he was grateful and warmed for a long time.
And those who questioned that his father was still broadcasting live before he was seriously ill were just trying to make a little more money to pay for his father's medical expenses and his own life.
Although life kissed him bitterly, he always sang about life.
In fact, we love our parents more than we think.
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