The "breakup tide" in the entertainment industry overshadowed the wave, and netizens have expressed that "I don't believe in love and marriage anymore!" Turning off the disturbances and chicken feathers on the Internet, I suddenly remembered a "clear stream" - Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming.
They first met each other, one is a highly educated "Bai Fumei" Hong Kong sister, the other is a nameless "black boy" who graduated from junior high school, for their union, everyone has "sang down", but they have been married for more than twenty years, and they are still as loving as ever. Liu Qingyun is in the entertainment industry with beautiful women, but he is a "spoiled wife crazy demon" with zero scandals; Guo Aiming is now in his fifties, but he jumps when he walks, always with a sweet smile like a little girl on his face. What is the secret of this fairy marriage evergreen?
1. What makes a steel seal for marriage is not only a tangible marriage certificate, but also an invisible boundary contract.
Cecilia Cheung asked Liu Qingyun when filming "New No Love": "Why don't you look at me?" Liu Qingyun said, "I have a wife." Liu Qingyun has cooperated with many beautiful stars to make movies, but he is a scandalous insulator. Tang Wei, Li Ruotong, Wen Bixia, Ye Xuan regard him as a male god in his heart, and he only has his wife Guo Aiming in his eyes. Yingying Yanyan in the entertainment industry, his eyes never stay, he is indifferent to all the opposite sex, and is only gentle with one person - his wife Guo Aiming.
Wu Jing was on the "hot search" again some time ago. At the Beijing International Film Festival, a beautiful woman tried to hold his arm twice during the group photo session, but he cleverly avoided it. Wu Jing always remembers that he is married and never blurs boundaries, and netizens praise him as a "male goalkeeper". Zhu Yawen refused to hug Wu Xin in the game section of "Happy Camp", and he also said in an interview that limited and precious sexiness, in addition to releasing some on the character, the rest will only be given to his wife.
On the stage of the talk show, Yang Mengen left a classic sentence: "In this world, there are no naturally good people, only civilized people who are restrained." People who treat marriage well have a ruler in their hearts, they are always vigilant in their hearts, they will not give the opposite sex any ambiguous opportunities, they hang "I am married" on their lips, the marriage contract is not signed, but they are always relieved, love is given to the partner, there is no extra to share with any of the opposite sex.
As Xu Xian of the Yueming version said: "If you meet a more beautiful and better woman, naturally there will be a more beautiful and better man to match, what do you have to do with me?" Calling him three thousand weak waters, I only drink one scoop, and my heart is only in one place. ”
2. The magic of running a marriage is the wisdom of knowing people in a relationship.
Some people say: A good marriage is for people with magic powers, and Guo Aiming is the magician of this beautiful marriage. When Liu Qingyun was nameless, her "fiery eyes" made her accept Liu Qingyun's confession, firmly believing that he was her own M.r right, and resolutely married Liu Qingyun during her rise despite the opposition and confusion of the outside world. After marriage, in order to support her husband's career, she gave up her career of rising to heaven, returned to the family to lay a good foundation for her husband, invested in real estate with a "open and hanging" mind, and did not miss a hand, and guided her husband to switch from the TV circle to the film circle, using "gold finger" to achieve the "dark horse actor" in the Hong Kong film industry.
At the 34th Hong Kong Film Awards ceremony, Liu Qingyun won the best actor for "Eavesdropping 3", and he usually does not smile, and emotionally thanked his wife on the podium: "Every time I fly a spaceship to an unknown corner of the universe, she has a way to let me return to Earth safely." Liu Qingyun mentioned in the interview that when he is emotionally unstable, his wife will always calm him and cheer him up; Usually discussing family affairs, his wife will not command orders strongly, and give data and reasoning in a methodical way to persuade him to be willing to do what she says. It sounds amazing that this woman is actually her wisdom in managing life and marriage.
3. Love is the heartbeat of the first encounter, and marriage is the same frequency going hand in hand.
I brushed a wedding slogan on the Internet, which was particularly heartwarming: love is the heartbeat of the first encounter, and marriage is the same frequency going hand in hand. The same direction, the same frequency, it doesn't matter who is higher or lower at a certain time, the important thing is that we will always walk side by side towards a better future and achieve a better each other.
This passage is perfect to describe Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming. When he first met, he was moved by her who coexisted with beauty and wisdom, and after getting married, he worked hard to film and ponder his acting skills, and finally won a Golden Horse Award, two Academy Awards, and four Hong Kong Film Critics Society Awards for Best Actor under the courage of catching up day after day, year after year... These brilliant achievements pushed his career to the peak, and Liu Qingyun's worth soared, and he was no longer an inconspicuous "black boy" in other people, but a "dark horse actor" praised by everyone. Now he is standing beside her, and no one says that it is Gao Pan, but only praises the fairy couple.
Some people say: The best love is evenly matched, and it is taken for granted. Although the status of the two people is very different at the beginning, as long as the husband and wife are of the same heart, be each other's best supporters, collaborators, companions, work together, and go hand in hand, they will accompany each other on the road of marriage, resonate with the same frequency, and go far.
"May there be one heart, and the white head will not be separated." May you and I be able to keep the bottom line of marriage, make good use of wisdom and heart, forge ahead with our partners, and harvest a marriage that works hand in hand, and a partner who will not get lost.