After the baby is born, do you see this human cub in front of you and feel magical and interesting, down-to-earth and anxious?
Life pregnancy is so magical, seeing the baby born healthy to have a real sense of solidity, but in the process of taking the baby, you may encounter various "parenting problems".
As a person who has come over, Jingma will take you to understand the new member of the family, from body shape to sound, to perception, many seemingly "abnormal" phenomena, but for newborns are normal, after reading you will understand.
Body type: Newborns are always with their hands clenched in fists and their bodies curled up in a clump
Did you find that your baby is like this?
In fact, this is normal, don't worry.
When a newborn is lying in your arms or in a crib, he always curls himself up in a ball. It looked like he was in the womb, his arms and legs pressed against his body.
Two small hands clenched into fists, if you gently straighten his fingers with your hands, it is also OK, if you put your fingers in the palm of his hand, he will also hold your fingers tightly.
Two small legs, bent inwards, look like a small frog.
It's all normal, don't worry too much, it could take a few weeks for his body to gradually unfold from this familiar "fetal posture."
Beijing mother reminds: At this time, do not give the baby leggings, do not wrap a particularly tight "candle bag", are not conducive to the development of the baby.
Sounds: In addition to crying, newborns also make sneezing and burping sounds.
The newborn baby, incomplete development, can not speak, almost no expression, and will not hum to watch the mother to play to the mother.
However, at this stage, in addition to crying, the baby will also make some other sounds, such as purring, screaming, sighing, sneezing, and burps.
Jingma's reminder: Most of the sounds made by the newborn baby, like the actions he suddenly makes, are actually reflections of the surrounding interference.
Vision: Newborns can only see objects in the range of 20-30 cm, and black and white are blurred
Have you noticed that your baby's gaze is always not quite right, and his eyes cannot be focused?
This is because the vision development of the newborn baby is not complete, and the baby's vision ranges from 20-30 cm away from the baby, which is almost the distance to the mother's face when it is held and fed by the mother.
When the mother is a little farther away, the baby's line of sight may begin to drift, sometimes it looks a lot like a cockfighter's eye, my son was a year old, I struggled with this problem for a long time, and later saw from the book that this is normal.
Jingma's reminder: "The American Academy of Pediatrics Encyclopedia of Parenting" mentioned that before he was 2 months old, this situation did not have to worry. By 2-3 months, as the eye muscles mature and vision improves, your baby's two eyes can be focused in one place for a long time. However, if your baby does not have this progress for two or three months, consult a doctor in time.
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Sense of smell and taste: It is possible to distinguish between breast milk and other liquids
I heard a friend say before: a newborn baby is so smart that he can separate his mother's breast milk.
In fact, this is because the baby is distinguished by smell and taste, because breast milk itself is sweet, and small babies are born to like sweets, which is also nature, just enough to be satisfied.
Touch: The most important sensation in a newborn
Even new parents have heard of touching their babies and having more skin contact with them.
This is because the most important sensation in a newborn is the sense of touch, and the baby has been living in a warm and moist amniotic fluid environment in the mother's womb before birth.
But after birth, the new environment of the outside world will give the baby different tactile feelings, sometimes feel that the air is very cold, lying on the stomach of parents and very warm, but also like to be wrapped in a soft blanket, the feeling of being surrounded by the warm arms of parents not only makes him warm and comfortable, but also has a sense of security.
Beijing mother reminds: after the baby is born, you can often give the baby a touch massage, often do skin contact, wear soft cotton clothing for the baby, do not bind the baby's hands and feet, let him wave, kick and feel the world around him, which has a role in promoting the baby's development.
After reading this, do you think that this familiar and somewhat strange little baby in front of you is not so difficult to maintain?
In fact, as long as you understand more about the growth and development rules and characteristics of the baby, maintenance knowledge, it is not so difficult to take the baby.
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Written at the end: What does your baby look like in the confinement? Also welcome to share what your baby looks like, your experience and feelings about taking a baby