There are thousands of troubles in the world, and there is always no escape from a love word.
People always like to escape from familiar places to strange places, and they are eager to meet new people on strange journeys, and when new people become old people, they return to this cycle again.
Everyone needs freshness, and the quickest way to get fresh is to meet different people, but not everyone has the ability to deal with complex relationships, blindly pursuing freshness, and will only play with fire.
This young man who was traveling encountered such a thing.
Since two years ago, the post-00 guys car and motorcycle self-driving tour of the country, at that time he still has an inch, the face is young, two years later he has replaced the motorcycle with a car, the face is also old and more than ten years old, unkempt look, saying that he is 40 years old is not excessive.
Along the way he met too many things, met too many people, stopped at every place to rest for a few days, and made different friends, but he had a principle, never had a substantial intersection with these people, and he liked to go on the road alone.
It wasn't until more than a month ago that he met a 50-year-old woman on his travels, and after introduction, he learned that this 50-year-old woman was from Zhejiang, worth a lot of money, and was a legendary rich woman.
The two talked happily, and the rich woman took the lead in breaking the deadlock, she put forward a request to travel with the guy, the guy did not immediately agree, but made a request to the other party: Can I go to the place where you live to take a bath.
The boy had been on the run and hadn't showered in a long time, as could be seen from the way he was dressed and the color of his skin. The rich woman readily agreed to his request.
Entering the room, the young man found that the rich woman was not simple, because she was very well equipped, and she also carried with her tent sleeping bags and other items, and the rich woman admitted that she had gone out with others.
After taking a bath, even if the two people were thoroughly acquainted, the rich woman's request was naturally granted. Just like that, the two of them set out on the road together.
Along the way, the two know each other better, but there is always a layer of something between them, which is awkward in the eyes of the man, he is not willing to puncture, but in the eyes of the rich woman it is very obstructive, she is more willing to come closer.
Two people have been together for a long time, just like two people living together, setting up tents together, cooking together, chatting together, watching scenery together, doing everything together except sleeping.
The rich woman was very interested in many things along the way, trying to show the appearance of a little girl, the boy gradually developed a disgust for her, he did not know where this disgust came from, he knew that the rich woman had done nothing wrong, but he resisted her approach for no reason.
The contradictions between the two are more and more, and finally the boy finally can't stand it, he began to face his heart, there is a huge difference in his age with the other party, if he continues to walk all the way, I am afraid it is difficult to ensure that the situation is not out of control.
He asked the client to be separated, and the rich woman made it clear that she wanted to continue with him. After a few days of maneuvering, the two decided to go down together.
The two people's lives are still the same as before, both contradictions and inseparable from each other, and every time a little contradiction occurs in the palate, they can always reconcile in time.
After a brief honeymoon period, another serious conflict broke out. The rich woman gave the guy a set of pajamas and a pair of couple's slippers, and the boy's face changed when he saw it, as if his dignity had been violated.
The two had a big fight again, and the rich woman was angry and crying, it seems that this time she was really sad and finally broke up.
After a few days of calm, the young man found that he had a wonderful feeling for the rich woman, and could neither accept the other party's show of love nor leave the other party. In this tangled mood, he decided to get the rich woman back and get back to good. Although the rich woman was very angry, at the insistence of the young man, she decided to go on the road with him.
These two people who are completely different worlds met during the journey, and have experienced a sad and happy clutch for more than a month, and the relationship has not been able to go further, and there is no way to completely break up, if this continues, the end may be more difficult to end.
The reason why human beings divide feelings into different types such as love, friendship, and family affection is because human beings cannot handle an unclear feeling, and a feeling must have a clear positioning to be able to make people feel at ease.
Their feelings are very complicated, if they must be classified, they should belong to an unequal love relationship, and the rich woman shows obvious good feelings for the young man, but the young man is unwilling to respond to this feeling positively because of the age difference.
This kind of asymmetrical feelings can not be long-lasting, usually there are only two endings, either bravely breaking through the taboo and going to the other shore, or not happy and scattered even friends can not do.
It doesn't matter whether the guy's experience is real or scripted, because we're going to focus on the phenomenon.
There are indeed similar phenomena in society, which happen almost every day, encounters between strangers and strangers, how strangers get along with strangers, how strangers and strangers end this relationship...
Many people just embark on the journey with a lot of blood, full of longing for the unknown, they have never considered how to deal with the unknown event that is about to happen, like a blind man breaking into the jungle, the danger is greater than the mystery.
After the freshness, the calm you is the real you.