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Ren Duomei is a veritable fishing girl.
There is no love between her and Zhang Weichen, just an employment relationship.
When Ren Duomei abandoned her poor first love boyfriend to marry Zhang Weichen, she was destined to become a fishing girl.
Zhang Weichen asked Ren Duomei to be a full-time housewife after marriage, and Ren Duomei asked Zhang Weichen to pay himself 20,000 yuan per month, and after the transaction was reached, the two began to marry.
In the dozen episodes of "Their Names", we found that the intimate relationship between Ren Duomei and Zhang Weichen was respectful and respectful, and Ren Duomei was always gentle and atmospheric and did not quarrel.
Even if her husband and green tea are ambiguous, even if she also perceives something different, she is still patient, she should send food to her husband and send him food, and she should accompany her mother-in-law to the supermarket.
She showed her best side to her husband and mother-in-law, she felt that this was the work ethic that a housewife should have, but the essence was that she was currying favor with the Zhang family.
Because her husband and mother-in-law are her bosses, she must treat her boss well before she can get a salary, which is a principle that Ren Duomei has been adhering to since she got married.
In order to be a fishing girl, Ren Duomei even deceived Zhang Weichen's own father into dying, and she rarely even contacted her mother's family in order to be her fishing girl well.
She wants to live a good life, so she must cut off her previous life.
In marriage, Ren Duomei endured the control of her husband and the pickiness of her mother-in-law for her own interests.
From childhood to adulthood, she has longed for such a day for a long time, and now she has finally lived, so she cherishes it.
02
All the patience That Ren Tome did in her marriage was painful.
A marriage without love can do such a false thing.
It seems that Ren Duomei is very happy, free to live, free to money, in fact, her self-esteem and soul are tightly grasped by her husband and mother-in-law.
She asked for it.
She had wanted to live such a life in the first place, and now how painful it was, she had to pretend to enjoy it.
But she woke up.
She lives the life of a fishing woman because she craves security in her heart.
However, such a life without worrying about money did not give her a sense of security, but made her live a painful and wronged life.
She had always thought that this was the kind of life she wanted, but she wasn't happy in it.
What does this mean?
It meant that such a life was simply not what she wanted.
When I was young, I wanted to pursue what I had lacked since I was a child.
Now that she has matured, she realizes that what she pursues does not bring her happiness.
So what to do?
Start fighting back.
On the surface, Ren Duomei began to fight back because he listened to the advice of his friends, but in essence, it was because Ren Duomei matured.
Being a fishing girl is not because she is bad, but because her childhood experience has made her take a detour.
Only by taking detours can mistakes be discovered.
03
In recent episodes, Ren Duomei has begun to fight back against her husband's control and has also begun to fight back against her mother-in-law.
She no longer wants to be the babysitter who is left to be manipulated, her husband wants to eat sweet and sour fish, she politely refuses, her mother-in-law lets her make fish, she secretly adds more salt and lets them eat empty.
Instead of waiting at home for her husband to come home from work to eat, she went out and secretly started a career.
Ren Duomei's awakening makes many people very happy, after all, women who are engaged in careers are the most popular.
In fact, this is the process of a woman's growth and awakening.
Take Ren Duomei, for example, marrying Zhang Weichen and living the life she wanted, but she did not find her lack of security.
Zhang Weichen said that he loved her, but he was not clear with his little sister, saying that he was good for her and would not let her go out to work, and his heart was trying to control her.
She did not feel a strong sense of love from her husband, but felt a crisis.
The mother-in-law, bent on letting her take good care of her husband, does not drag her husband's hind legs.
Also let her have children, give birth to one for 500,000, give birth to two for 1 million.
The mother-in-law did not care about Ren Duomei at all, but only calculated and despised.
Because from the moment Ren Duomei became a fishing girl, in the eyes of the Zhang family, she was a nanny who could be manipulated with money.
They lack respect and care for Ren Duomei, lack the enthusiasm to become a family, and Ren Duomei can only be a vase and babysitter who always smiles in this family.
The relationship between their family, which seems harmonious, is actually cold without a little affection.
As she grew older, Ren Duomei slowly realized her mistakes, and her heart began to wake up, rather than being looked down upon by her in-laws all her life, it was better to stand up and be herself.
So what's behind the fishing girl's counterattack?
That must be a fishing woman mature, do not want to be a fishing woman.
I have tried the taste of unearned gain, and I have also tried the taste of being looked down upon, hypocrisy has been long, life is boring, it is better to live freely on your own.
When people are young, they are most likely to take detours, especially beautiful girls like Ren Duomei who have been injured in their original families and raised poorly, they will always use their posture to change the life they want.
All the gifts of fate have been secretly priced.
The marriage that Ren Duomei exchanged for self-esteem and beauty also has its price.
When she recognizes the price and decides to break out of the siege, she is her hero.
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