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Netizens said that reincarnation is a technical work, will reincarnate may stand on the shoulders of giants as soon as they are born, will not reincarnate, have no chance to see the world in a lifetime, and can only worry about chai rice oil and salt for a lifetime.
No matter what kind of feelings we have, this is a good thing, when reincarnated, more than 70% of life is defined, human beings are like this, generation after generation of efforts, microscopic point of view, our current efforts, is to lay the foundation for our children, the height of our efforts, absolutely the height of the child's starting line.
Educating children, of course, should pay attention to ways and methods, but when all parents begin to pay attention to the cultivation and education of their children, what do the children of parents who are not working hard enough in this life use to follow the children of parents who have worked hard for generations?
There is no comparability, because even if we try very hard now, there is no comparison.
Wang Shiling entered the best boarding alma mater in the UK and attracted much attention
Wang Shiling recently paid a lot of attention, the paintings have achieved certain results again, has been slimming down, after slimming down from a "little fat girl" to a beautiful girl with a "queen fan", and now enters the best boarding alma mater in the United Kingdom, looking at the exquisite facial features in the picture, the girl who stands tall and beautiful, there are two words in her heart: envy.
Li Xiang disclosed the interior of Wang Shiling's dormitory and campus environment on the social platform, and the room where Wang Shiling lived was the room where Princess Anne once lived in 50 years, and this scene can probably only be seen in the movie.
Li Xiang's education method has always been controversial, Wang Shiling has been concerned from a small range to a large range, starting from the first season of "Where Daddy Goes", her clothes are concerned, her personality is concerned, her emotional intelligence is concerned, her jewelry is concerned...
Many netizens said that Li Xiang was too high-profile, wearing tens of thousands of clothes for children, wearing tens of thousands of jewelry for children, and letting a small child carry tens of thousands of handbags...
The shining point in children comes from the education of parents
In fact, if we don't pay attention to these prices, Li Xiang will still prepare for her daughter like this, if we don't pay attention to these prices, this price is no different from the hundreds of yuan of clothes worn by our children.
When we pay attention to the child's words and deeds, the comments generated are: the child is well educated, say goodbye to grandpa, and will say "you are fine at home"; When encountering problems, they will take the initiative to seek help, which is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence; When I was called "big star", I seriously explained, "I'm not a big star, I'm a little princess"...
Although it is said that children will also have some personal small tempers, such as getting angry and taking off their clothes, directly throwing their clothes on the ground, whose children do not have their own small tempers and ways to vent their tempers?
When my child lost his temper, he still kicked me with his little foot, although he had hit her little ass a few times for this, and although he had restrained himself, he would occasionally do so.
We can't automatically ignore all the shining points in the child's body because of the material appearance, and the shining points in the child's body are not innate, not innate, and are guided and educated by the mother.
The starting line of the children of ordinary people is completely different from the starting line of rich families
We are all ordinary families, and the starting line of our children may be just whether to let the children enter the kindergarten a year earlier, which school to choose for the children, what specialties the children learn, whether to let the children learn Chinese characters in advance, whether to let the children memorize ancient poems, and so on.
For parents with different levels, their starting line is another, they pay more attention to the child's pattern and vision, the child's social, with the foundation they laid for the child, the child's social circle will naturally improve.
When faced with such a situation, some people may shout "unfair", in fact, there is really nothing unfair, take Li Xiang, 22 years old to rely on their own skills to buy 400,000 cars, when she was 22 years old, 400,000 and the current concept of 400,000 is completely different, at that time 400,000 is still quite valuable, can already buy a very good house.
She worked hard enough, hosted the acting, invested, saved her first pot of gold, and the road after that became smoother and smoother.
In fact, her parents are not ordinary people, and she has won at the starting line compared with many other peers.
Why Wang Shiling has such resources and life is naturally related to the family background of her parents and parents.
Therefore, everything that Wang Shiling enjoys in life is accumulated by both parents from generation to generation, and if we can think like this, we feel that this matter is very fair.
Of course, the parents' resources will try to bless the child, as long as the child does not have maintenance, the child's life must be much easier than the father's.
We don't do salted fish, we have to work hard, but also for the sake of the children
Let's talk about a real-life example, Xiao Liu's parents are farmers, there is no cultural level, Xiao Liu is also generally literate, came down early to work and work, and then caught up with the demolition, Xiao Liu's family instantly became a local tycoon, demolished four houses, parents and he have never seen so much money.
With so much money, I feel that this life is enough, Xiao Liu's parents do not have to continue to work, Xiao Liu does not have to work, in turn he can drive a luxury car around to eat, drink and have fun.
Married a beautiful wife, raised two children, has been relying on eating and drinking and having fun, the cost is very large, and later thought of allowing children to go to better schools, but because the two people do not have a clear understanding of education, and do not have a certain degree of knowledge, can not correctly guide the children, can not give children good guidance in learning.
The money is getting less and less, the children are getting bigger and bigger, and then the children are forced to transfer to ordinary public schools to continue their studies, and the grades are still a mess.
Although he has been rich for a short time, because his own ability has not kept up, he has always had a heart to make salted fish, so sooner or later he will lose his family foundation, and the child can only start from scratch.
Look at another old Zhang, did not read books, middle-aged luck to catch up with the demolition, he quietly continued to live the original life, but in the child's learning more attention, to the child to prepare an education fund, the child transferred to a good reputation of private schools, the child admitted to a good university, inherited the quality of the parents' efforts, step by step down to work, to now the family is rich, the children have entered the best school, has a completely different life.
These are two typical examples, the examples are very simple, but the contrast is sharp, talking about these two examples, is to tell parents, stop complaining, even if the current conditions are the same, or there are better conditions, if we do not work hard as parents, willing to be salted fish, then the child is still likely to start from scratch. How hard we work now, how lucky our children will be in the future.