Text / Wake up
Editor / Little Love Letter
In 2010, the ceiling of the cross-over drama "Myth" premiered on CCTV eight sets, and Bai Bing, the actor of the beautiful and generous Princess Tu'an Yu Shu in the play, became the dream goddess of countless people.
Just when everyone thought that Bai Bing would become popular with the next resources, she disappeared into the public eye as if she had "evaporated" in the world.
When it was time to see her again, the goddess who had once been reincarnated had become a supporting role.
In 2020, after ten years of Bai Bing in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", she recreated the outfit of Yu Shu in the "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", just when everyone wondered why the white ice of that year suddenly disappeared, she revealed her divorce from Ding Yi in the show, and said:
"Many people think that I am a rich lady who is well-bred, and I am particularly wronged in my heart."
As he spoke, he shed tears of grievance.
The marriage with Ding Yi not only ruined her career, but also ruined all her expectations of love, and her ex-husband Ding Yi was the "culprit" of all this! ”
01
When Ding Yi met Bai Bing, his career had just ushered in a turning point, not only taking some hard photos for the fashion magazine "GQ" and "Men's Health", but also being named "Top Ten New Male Models in China" by the Hong Kong fashion magazine "MR".
Although Ding Yi had his own world in the fashion industry at that time, compared to the hot white ice at that time, Ding Yi's career was really not worth mentioning.
At that time, Bai Binggang's popularity rose because of his appearance in "Myth", and then he starred in the love drama "Bitter Coffee", and the star path can be described as unlimited.
Stills from Bitter Coffee
However, it was these two people who had a huge gap in their careers that met in Hong Kong, and Ding fell in love with Bai Bing at first sight and soon began a passionate pursuit.
I have to say that Ding Yi is indeed very good at pursuing people, extremely romantic to Bai Bing, sending flowers and sweet words are basic operations, and all kinds of considerate gentleman's behavior is even more heartwarming for Bai Bing, so it didn't take long for Ding Yi to chase After Bai Bing.
But this relationship is not optimistic about the public, and Bai Bing has also been criticized by many people, after all, the gap between the two people's careers is too large, and most people think that Ding Yi's pursuit of Bai Bing is an ulterior motive.
Obviously, in the eyes of outsiders, the two people are not a match, but Ding Yi did not pay attention to the rumors about the outside world.
Even not long after they were together, they violently proposed to Bai Bing on the Empire State Building in New York, and announced to the world that he was going to be with Bai Bing.
At this time, Bai Bing also really liked Ding Yi, so she also agreed to Ding Yi's marriage proposal with great expectation, she believed that Ding Yi would give her happiness, and also believed that Ding Yi would be someone she could rely on.
Therefore, she is willing to announce her marriage with Ding Yi in the golden period of her career.
It's just that at that time, Bai Bing couldn't find time to hold a wedding that belonged to them because of his work, so the two of them only held a wedding banquet at the Shangqiu Huachi Guangdong Hotel under the arrangement of their parents.
The vigorous love without a romantic wedding may have implied from the beginning that their ending was a regrettable ending.
02
After marriage, Bai Bing gave birth to a very cute daughter named Yiyi, and the world of two became a family of three, happy and happy.
As soon as Ding saw that Bai Bing had given birth to a daughter for him, he remembered that whenever Bai Bing mentioned that there had never been a wedding, he specially participated in the program "Come On, The Groom", ready to organize a dream wedding for her.
However, it is not easy to organize a wedding, but there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts, Ding Yi from the venue to the wedding dress, from the flowers to the lighting arrangement, everything is big and small.
What is even more touching is that Ding Yi thought of Bai Bing and always wanted to be able to watch himself dance.
Although Ding Yi unanimously believes that he is not good at this, in order to make up for the regret in Bai Bing's heart, he decides to dance for Bai Bing.
To this end, Ding Yi also deliberately found a dance teacher to make up for it, and the hard training was only to give his wife Bai Bing a perfect wedding.
"I rarely do this, but I want to do something for her."
Although the dance style is not very good, but the victory is in this heart, although Ding Yi has been doing his best to plan for this wedding, it is still a twist and turn,
First, Bai Bing may not be able to reach the scene due to scheduling problems, and then caught up with the typhoon and rain, and the wedding was once in trouble.
Fortunately, at the beginning of the wedding, Ding Yi and his supermodel groomsmen appeared on the scene on time, and Bai Bing, as a bride, also appeared in front of everyone as scheduled, at the wedding, Ding Yi had a rare affection for Bai Bing:
"White ice is the greatest gift from heaven to me, and I will take care of her, let her be a princess for a lifetime, and guard her forever."
That night for Bai Bing and Ding Yi, under the background of the atmosphere, it was the highest point of their happiness, and it was also the time when they loved each other the most.
But the happy wedding heat will eventually pass, and Ding Yi did not expect that this marriage would eventually come to an end.
The reason for the divorce many people speculate is related to the relationship between Ding Yi and Zheng Yuanchang, believing that Bai Bing was cheated into marriage, but a deep investigation will find that this matter may be just a fuse, and the reason why they really choose to separate is from themselves.
Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, the conclusion of two unrelated lives, but the gap between Ding Yi and Bai Bing is really too big.
"Love that is not on the same line is destined to last forever."
Ding Yi's parents are ordinary employees of an enterprise in Shangqiu City, Henan Province, and he graduated from Luoyang Normal College with a general family background and general academic qualifications.
The reason why he can be a model is nothing more than his own luck and God's appreciation of food, giving him a good skin bag.
However, Bai Bing, her parents cultivated her musical talent from an early age, studied piano in kindergarten, and graduated from Northwest University of Political Science and Law.
Bai Bing voluntarily gave up the opportunity to study at the Xi'an Conservatory of Music, and also gave up the invitation of the Beijing Broadcasting Institute to major in broadcast hosting, and these opportunities that others dreamed of were only a second choice for Bai Bing in life.
From a wealthy family, talented, beautiful as a flower, and her own luck, such a girl seemed to be God's darling, and Ding Yi seemed dwarfed.
The ancients said that the door to the door is not unreasonable, such a disparity gap, may be negligible in the period of love, but when entering the life of chai rice oil and salt, there will be a variety of irreconcilable inappropriateness.
Different frequencies of love, difficult to qinser and singing.
In addition to the three inconsistent views extended, of course, it will also cause Ding Yi's lack of self-confidence.
As a man, his wife's career and abilities are stronger than her own in all aspects, and over time there will be an indelible sense of inferiority, and gradually there will be various quarrels.
This is not speculation, but a true portrayal of the marriage of a strong woman and a weak man in real life.
Secondly, maybe it is the difference between before and after marriage, Bai Bing seems to be not very satisfied with Ding Yi when asked by Ding Yi's friend, Bai Bing just said lightly:
"He was romantic when he chased me, but after he got married, he found that he was not a romantic person at all."
You must know that even if Bai Bing has become an adult, even if she is a mother, she is still a little girl who longs for love and romance.
From childhood, he was pampered by the stars like the moon, but after marriage, he lived a plain and watery life, and the loss of this can be imagined.
For Ding Yi, Bai Bing must also have a certain gap before and after marriage, perhaps not as shy and cute as before marriage, not as understanding as before marriage, when the filter when in love fades, what remains is the most real appearance of each other.
If the love is deep enough to accept each other's truest appearance, this marriage can continue.
If not, in the end, it can only be one shot and two scatters, and it is clear that Ding Yi and Bai Bing chose the latter.
03
After the divorce, the daughter was raised by Bai Bing alone, and when the two people divorced, they were completely different from the vigorous marriage proposal when they first proposed, and they divorced quietly, without special information to everyone.
It wasn't until Bai Bing's "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" that the news was announced in front of the camera:
"My husband and I have divorced peacefully, and I raise my daughter by myself."
The title changed from husband to husband, strange and trance-like, as if they had never loved or met.
Although the marriage was over, it was impossible to deny that they had loved each other deeply, that their daughter was evidence of their love, and that they had done for each other.
Bai Bing chose to marry and have a daughter with Ding Yi during the rising period of her career, and the price of being with Ding Yi was that she lost the golden period of career development.
When she came back to filming again, she had already been eliminated by the rules of the old and new generations of the entertainment industry.
Bai Bing also knew the consequences, but she still agreed to Ding Yi's marriage proposal, regardless of the consequences, desperate.
A person who has loved with his heart, no matter what happened, no matter how long it has been, when he thinks about it again, his heart will still be a little touched.
When Bai Bing participated in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", the members of the same group participated in the competition playing and singing Liu Reuying's "Later".
"At first I didn't know what the song liked, but when I listened to it, I was already a person in the song."
Bai Bing listened and ran to his room to cry.
She may be crying about her dead youth, crying about her dead love, crying about the marriage she has lost.
I have to say that this failed marriage has a really big impact on Bai Bing, an irreparable career and an untenable youth, but what is more sad is that Bai Bing has a shadow on love.
Later, the 35-year-old Bai Bing participated in a blind date show "Suddenly Heartbroken", in which she met a very good man, but in the face of the man's show of love, Bai Bing chose to escape and refuse:
"I am actually a "difficult household" emotionally, it is difficult for me to trust a person, and it is difficult to be confident of re-investing in a relationship. ”
What is an "emotionally difficult household"?
Probably there was a failed relationship experience, which caused some kind of psychological trauma, insecurity, inability to open up to love, and even no longer believe in love.
Bai Bing has become a difficult household with emotional difficulties, as for Ding Yi, once he also deeply loved Bai Bing, organized a wedding for her, and the heart to learn dance for her will never be fake.
When Bai Bing stood in front of him in his wedding dress, the naked eye could see the light in Ding Yi's eyes, which was the look that a beloved person would have.
Once he also wanted to be a knight to protect the princess, and the words he said at the wedding were also sincere, but the vows were time-sensitive:
"The oath is something that cannot measure chastity, nor can it judge right from wrong, it can only prove that at the moment of saying it, we were sincere with each other."
Two people who once loved each other chose to separate under the arrangement of fate, which can only be said to be fate.
After the divorce, Bai Bing returned to work, and she was featured in the recent "Their Names".
Stills from "Their Names"
Ding Yi rarely appeared in public after his divorce, although he was no longer Bai Bing's husband, but he was still the father of his daughter Yiyi, and the breakdown of his marriage with Bai Bing would not affect his love for his daughter.
When his daughter graduated from elementary school, Ding Yi posted a photo with his daughter on social platforms with the text:
"Graduation, love you."
The little girl in the photo has inherited the advantages of her parents very well, looks very cute, sits with her father Ding Yi, smiles very happily, and it can be seen that Ding Yi and her daughter have a good relationship.
Perhaps Ding Yi is not a good husband, but he is now trying to be a qualified father and trying his best to make up for the harm caused to his daughter, which is still worth affirming.
In fact, the most innocent thing in marriage is the child, and in this marriage, the mistake may be that they only considered loving each other when they first got married, but did not consider whether they were suitable for each other.
A little more crazy, a little less thoughtful, and this is how to end up.
But life is originally a dream, everyone is constantly meeting, but also constantly missing, growing in the miss, but also becoming mature in a variety of stories, this is the meaning of meeting a person.
Although Bai Bing and Ding Yi and two people are separated, they also have a daughter, no matter what happens to the people of the previous generation, the child is innocent after all, and should not be a victim of their marriage.
Therefore, while everyone is trying to move forward, I hope that they can give their daughter a lot of love as they say, so that she can grow up healthily.