The princess is willing to kiss the ugly frog, and the small probability event will probably only happen in a fairy tale, but in real life, we actually see the real case.
Li Fuzhen
In 1999, Li Fuzhen, a "three-star thousand-dollar gold", insisted on marrying a poor boy security guard despite his family's obstruction.
For the sake of this security guard, Li Fuzhen was willing to reduce his self-worth and find a new way out for him.
However, what people did not expect was that when Li Fuzhen was pregnant, the security guard betrayed her.
There are even some secrets that are not known.
What is curious is that "Qianjin" fell in love with "Security", what exactly did he love?
Li Fuzhen's background
Samsung's boss is named Lee Kin Hee, who not only has superhuman business acumen, but also has a certain prestige in politics. As a rather face-saving figure, Li Jianxi's wife is certainly not bad.
His wife is the curator of the Samsung Art Museum and was also born into a wealthy family.
The marriage of the two is a strong combination.
From 1967 to 1989, his wife gave birth to four children.
Li Fuzhen is the second oldest, with an older brother above and two younger sisters below.
Because the family conditions are too good, Lee Ishi hee is afraid that the children will be hurt.
So protect the children tightly.
Li Fuzhen is not only well-behaved and sweet-looking, but also ranks among the best in his studies, which is very pleasing to his father. Every time Li Jianxi came home, he had to take Li Fuzhen's small hand and play with Li Fuzhen.
The idea he instilled in Li Fuzhen was to keep a low profile and not to be ostentatious.
Since elementary school, Li Fuzhen's classmates have not known what her father is doing.
Once in class, the teacher asked everyone about their home.
Li Fuzhen said: "My dad just did some small business. ”
Until many years later, when the classmates learned of her origins, they were very surprised and could not see it at all.
At the age of 19, Li Fuzhen was admitted to the famous Yonsei University through his own efforts.
She was not proud of this, but studied her homework more diligently and precipitated herself.
During her time at the school, due to her excellent performance, she successfully went to the United States for further study at MIT.
After graduation, she went directly to work for her own company, Samsung.
In general, in such a family, parents will assign a good position to their children.
But Lee Didn't do this, but let her daughter start from the lowest level of work.
When he first entered the workplace, Li Fuzhen was sorting out materials every day, doing some chores, and even sometimes helping leaders run errands.
Just as the so-called "tiger father and dogless daughter", in just a few years, Lee Ken-hee's daughter Lee Fu-jin also rose from the bottom to the top with excellent ability and decisive style, and finally became the president of the Silla Hotel.
It should be known that from its inception to the present, Samsung Group has never had a female administrator, and Li Fuzhen is the first.
Being able to make such achievements to help Samsung Accelerate the process of "Secondary Entrepreneurship", Li Fuzhen was once regarded as "Little Li Jianxi" by the outside world.
From this title, it can be seen that at that time, many people already tacitly agreed that she could compete with her brother Lee Jae-yong for the position of heir.
However, with his son on one side and his daughter on the other, the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are full of meat, and the old father, Lee Kin Hee, seems to be more concerned about the latter.
Seeing that Li Fuzhen's position was getting higher and higher, and there were more and more public occasions that needed to be entered and exited, out of concern, he asked people to find a bodyguard to protect his daughter's personal safety at any time.
As a result, no one expected that this inadvertent decision would actually be the beginning of pushing Li Fuzhen into the endless abyss.
The beginning of the abyss
In 1995, Lee Fu-jin volunteered at the Disabled Child Protection Agency in Sang-dong, Seoul, and happened to meet Ren Youzai, a bodyguard who had just entered the company.
The other party looks mediocre, the education, conversation and family conditions are average, compared with the rich children she has seen in the past, it is completely a heaven and an earth, there is no comparison at all.
But the strange thing is that Li Fuzhen was in these days of getting along day and night, and slowly moved his heart to Ren Youzai.
Although the other party has bad conditions and does not have much money, let alone talk to herself and talk about finance and business, Li Fuzhen just likes it, she has money and background, and what she needs is someone who can comfort herself when she is lonely and depressed.
Coincidentally, these Ren Youzai all fit.
His gentleness, low profile, honesty, and understanding made Li Fuzhen feel that he had never been cared for so much.
She was immersed in this romantic "princess and poor boy" romantic love, and seemed to have forgotten how much resistance she was about to face.
After talking about an underground love for four years, Li Fuzhen did not want to hide it any longer, and she truthfully informed her father Li Jianxi of her love affair, indicating that she must be with Ren Youzai, and the two would also get married and establish a family.
It is said that after hearing the news, the three-star president who was in the mall sat quietly in the café for a long time until it closed.
It is conceivable that this parent, who pays great attention to patriarchy and door-to-door pairing, will never agree that his daughter's good match should be a better person.
When the matter spread within the family, Li Fuzhen's mother and other siblings expressed their opposition, and the management of the Samsung Group firmly disagreed.
In order to make her daughter quickly change her mind, Li Jianxi also locked her up at home and arranged for many excellent rich children to get along with her, but Li Fuzhen couldn't see it at all, her stubbornness was vividly reflected at this moment, and the relationship between father and daughter had never been so tense as it is now.
Li Jianxi couldn't understand how such an excellent daughter could look up to a poor boy, but he had no choice, after all, he was busy with his career when he was young, and he didn't give his daughter enough father's love, which was indebted to her.
Knowing that his father finally relaxed, Li Fuzhen was naturally very happy, but the next development of things surprised everyone, and the man's family did not agree.
Ren Youzai's parents knew that their son was going to marry the big miss of the Samsung Group, and they were not happy in their imagination, they knew very well that the two families were not right, and there would be many problems in reluctantly marrying.
Ren Youzai's father died when he was young, and his mother raised him to adulthood, and the family was too poor to graduate from high school. Limited by his academic qualifications, he often works at the bottom of the ladder, but his family is still destitute.
In order to reassure them, Li Fuzhen personally came to persuade the two, and her sincere attitude also impressed Ren Youzai's parents, and the two families thus formed an in-law.
Group photo of the two families
In 1999, when the media exposed the news that the Samsung princess and her bodyguard were about to hold a wedding, it immediately set off a huge public opinion storm throughout South Korea.
No matter how much the outside world is buzzing, in August of the same year, the wedding of Li Fuzhen and Ren Youzai was held as scheduled.
Lee Fu-jin and Ren You-jae
It can be seen that the couple is very happy and happy, and the parents of the two families also took a group photo, but it is obvious that Li Jianxi, as the parent of the woman, although people arrived at the scene, their hearts were ten thousand disagreements, and they did not have a good face the whole time.
Broken married life
Since the daughter chooses to "marry down", to a certain extent, it will affect her status and reputation in the group, and she will also be criticized behind her back, so it is necessary to improve the ability of the "son-in-law" well, at least so that the two look compatible, and he can also help his daughter share some pressure in the future.
Considering this, Lee Kin Hee took the initiative to send Ren Youzai to study abroad.
However, for Ren Youzai, who has zero experience and only has a high school degree, the process is too difficult, he does not know English, he does not speak much, and sometimes he feels headaches when he flips through books that he has never read.
In order to get out of the predicament, Ren Youzai gave birth twice, and later Li Fuzhen did not want to see him hurt himself again, so he arranged for him to be vice president of Samsung Motor.
For such a "parachuted" boss, although the employees did not dare to discuss it publicly on the surface, they were very unconvinced in private, they knew that Ren Youzai was the son-in-law of the president, and he came here only by the so-called "nepotism".
Ren Youzai can also see some clues, forced by the Li family to do these things, he is very reluctant, Ren Youzai also wants to work hard, but the strength does not allow.
In sharp contrast to him is his wife Li Fuzhen, under her management, the company's turnover has reached a new level, and her status in the family has also improved a lot.
On the one hand, the outside world criticizes himself, on the other hand, he is an increasingly excellent wife, Ren Youzai's self-confidence has been exhausted, and his personality has gradually changed.
He began to drink wildly, and every time he came home, he would quarrel with Li Fuzhen, and sprinkle all his dissatisfaction and anger on her outside.
What is even more excessive is that after Li Fuzhen became pregnant, Ren Youzai actually intensified his efforts and also committed domestic violence against her.
There was a problem between the husband and wife, naturally unable to hide from the attention of the family, as a father, Li Jianxi, all he could do was knock on the side, or not let other children take Li Fuzhen's old path.
For example, the third daughter, Li Suxian, was married to Jin Zailie, the second son of the president of the East Asia Daily under his arrangement.
However, when it was the turn of the younger daughter Li Yinxin, it once again broke his heart, because like her sister Li Fuzhen, she also had to be with a poor boy, and after failing to get the consent of the family, she chose to end her life in an extreme way.
The impact of this bad news on the Li family and the whole of South Korea is no less than that of Li Fuzhen's marriage, and South Korean netizens are shocked and extremely unoptimized about the marriage of Li Fuzhen and Ren Youzai.
In 2014, a desperate Li Fuzhen filed for divorce
The road to divorce twists and turns
What kind of divorce lawsuit would involve five years?
In 2012, Li Fuzhen, who was unwilling to swallow his anger any longer, chose to separate from Ren Youzai, and in 2014, Li Fuzhen filed a divorce with the court on the grounds of personality incompatibility and applied for custody of his son.
At that time, the outside world thought that under the pressure of the Samsung Group, Ren Youzai must know how to accept it when he saw it, but in fact, from this time on, he exposed his true face.
Pictured is Lee You-jae
Ren Youzai did not agree to divorce, would not give up custody, and even said that he would do his job in the company until all the problems were resolved.
At the time, it was estimated that if the two did not reach an agreement in the process of divorce mediation, Then Ren Youzai might file a custody lawsuit with the court, and he might be able to file a claim for 1.2 trillion won, which was close to 7 billion yuan.
In early 2016, a South Korean court finally rendered a first-instance judgment on the divorce case of Lee Fu-jin and Ren You-jae, allowing the two to divorce, and as for the son who is still in elementary school, he is also raised by Lee Fu-jin.
Neither of them appeared at the scene that day, but the entrusted agent appeared in court, and the woman said that she could let the man visit once a month, but the man only wanted to keep his family and did not want to give his son to the woman, so he appealed again.
As a result, the case entered the retrial phase.
In 2017, a South Korean court made a retrial judgment on the divorce case, the marriage between the two was dissolved, the child was still raised by Lee Fuzhen, and 8.6 billion won was distributed to the man.
For this result, Ren Youzai was still not satisfied, and he appealed for the second time.
At that time, in the face of reporters' questioning, Ren Youzai also complained many times, saying that it was extremely difficult for him to be the son-in-law of a rich man, and when his son was born until he was nine years old, he could not see his grandparents without the permission of the Li family, until two years ago, when their grandchildren met for the first time.
The truth of the matter, can not only listen to his side of the words, but for Li Fuzhen, seeing this man so stubborn, she finally recognized the true face of the other party.
The entanglement of these years has exhausted her, and she does not know when she will give up.
Father Lee Kin-hee's health has become worse and worse, and his brother Lee Jae-yong has also been arrested by the inspection team on suspicion of bribery and false testimony, and the Li family has entered an eventful autumn.
Just when things were in a stalemate, in October 2018, South Korean media suddenly broke the news that the previous sleep-sharing case related to female star Zhang Ziyan shocked the whole country, which also involved Ren Youzai.
According to the survey, in the year before Zhang Ziyan's life, she had made 35 phone calls to Ren Youzai, and the two often talked for up to five minutes and at least one minute.
What is even more unexpected is that at that time, his number was still registered with Li Fuzhen's name, which is why when the incident first broke out, Ren Youzai was not found.
As soon as the incident was exposed, Ren Youzai instantly became a scumbag who cheated in marriage in the eyes of everyone.
In 2019, the marriage between the two was officially dissolved, and Li Fuzhen paid Ren Youzai 14.1 billion won. The 20-year marriage came to an end.
Li Fuzhen was finally free
But Ren Youzai's play has not yet been performed.
He instructed the nurses to report Li Fuzhen's long-term abuse of narcotic drugs and promised to give the other party a generous reward after the success of the incident.
The false planting of the stolen goods made Ren Youzai's face completely exposed.
But Li Fuzhen had already taken him for granted, her career kingdom was so huge, she didn't want to waste a little time for such a person.
What is even more ironic is that Ren Youzai also said that he had never loved her, and everything was Li Fuzhen's entanglement with himself.
summary
The failure of this marriage is essentially a mismatch of ability, pattern, and cognition.
In fact, the old saying is not completely unreasonable, it does not only refer to the proportionality of economic strength, but the multi-dimensional, multi-level fit of two people or even two families.
The American writer Seyrell said: "The success of marriage depends on two people, and if it fails, one person is enough."