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Yang Dan, is the weather forecast host of CCTV, with a good voice that can "say the weather", she has walked into thousands of households and is well known by the audience.
In front of the screen, Yang Dan was deeply loved by the national public with his relaxed and smooth broadcast and confident and steady typhoon, and set an example for meteorological film and television workers across the country. In addition to weather forecasts, she has also served as the host of "Morning Forecast" and "First Impression" and other columns.
Although Yang Dan was elected "Miss China Meteorology", she rarely appeared in front of the public in her low profile. Yang Dan, who is full of career achievements, in real life, is also very loving and happy with her husband Tong Qiang.
Also at the Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Yang Dan and Tong Qiang met and fell in love, they once agreed to stick to Dink, but why in 2013, the two chose to give birth to a son, what is the untold story behind this?
01.
Yang Dan was born in 1973 to an intellectual family in Shaoyang, Hunan Province, the son of a senior engineer in a factory and his mother working in a library.
When he was a child, Yang Dan had a good voice, and whenever there was a literary and artistic performance in the school, Yang Dan would always appear on the stage. Although this stage is a bit small, it is a good accumulation of Yang Dan's stage experience.
Seeing that Yang Dan was quite talented in singing, his parents also sent him to learn vocal music. Originally, Yang Dan planned to take the road of music, and even in high school, she also planned to enter a music college, but because of her grades, she still rubbed shoulders with the conservatory.
Although she had no connection with the Conservatory of Music, she entered the Broadcasting Department of Beijing Broadcasting Institute, a school in the Field of Chinese Hosting.
Shortly after entering the university, Yang Dan captured the hearts of many boys with a Hunan folk song "Little Back Basket" at the school's literary and art performance.
The broadcast department of the Beijing Broadcasting Institute can be said to be the main force of CCTV and major television stations to transport hosts, and has trained many famous hosts, and the students of this department are basically the top and outstanding talents in all parts of the country.
The beautiful and versatile Yang Dan has naturally become the target of Beiguang and other college students, who want to pursue this beautiful talented girl.
Even if many people pursued her, she refused one by one, because before entering school, her father had warned her that she could not fall in love at school. Coupled with the fact that Yang Dan has been immersed in hard study, this has also made her a junior in college, and she still has not touched love.
Although she and her father agreed on three chapters, the excellent boy still broke into her vision.
One evening in October 1993, Yang Dan was studying in the dormitory, but was unexpectedly told by the people in the same dormitory that there was a boy downstairs looking for you and was planning to come up, but he was blocked downstairs by the dormitory aunt.
Hearing the words of his roommate, Yang Dan went downstairs confused, and when he saw the boy, the simple Yang Dan thought: I don't know him, I have never dealt with him, what will happen to him looking for me?
This boy is Tong Qiang, a foreign language student who is one level higher than her, and the dormitory building of the two is very close, and they have encountered each other in ordinary times, but they have passed by and have never said hello.
Looking at the beautiful Yang Dan, Tong Qiang took the lead in opening his mouth and said: Beijing Television station has a column that is recruiting hosts and asks for musical talent, don't you often sing at our school's literary and art evenings? I think you're quite suitable.
Then he said enthusiastically: I am interning there recently, if you are interested, I can help you contact and take you to the audition.
Although he was not very familiar with Tong Qiang, he thought that facing work after a year, which would be a good exercise opportunity, he happily agreed to it.
The next day, Yang Dan and Tong Qiang went to Beijing TV to audition.
The two also became friends because of this incident. Yang Dan felt that this boy was very enthusiastic and sincere, and he did not know that Tong Qiang was "drunk and did not mean to drink".
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One night not long after, Yang Dan was reviewing her homework in the school library, and when she came out after reading the book, she suddenly met Tong Qiang at the door.
Looking at Tong Qiang's hurried appearance with several books, Yang Dan also took the initiative to greet him and said: The library is about to close, why are you only here now?
Yang Dan, who was wondering, as soon as he finished speaking, Tong Qiang immediately turned around and talked with her as he walked.
After the two fell in love, Yang Dan learned that it was Tong Qiang's intention that time, and that night Tong Qiang just learned from Yang Dan's friend that she was reviewing in the library, and he deliberately came to create an "encounter".
It is precisely because of Tong Qiang's intentions that Tong Qiang accompanied Yang Dan all the way back to the dormitory, and the chat was very pleasant during the period.
With this "coincidence", Yang Dan also realized a subtle change. Because of Tong Qiang's enthusiasm and straightness, this also left a deep impression on Yang Dan, and thus he also had a good feeling for this boy who studied foreign languages.
After a month of contact, Tong Qiang began to ask Yang Dan. Tong Qiang first invited Yang Dan to dinner, because they were all students, and they did not have income, so they chose a Hunan restaurant near the school.
While eating, the two began to make small talk again. In this conversation, Yang Dan also had a deeper understanding of Tong Qiang. Tong Qiang's home is in Beijing, and his father is also a senior engineer.
Through contact, Yang Dan also felt that Tong Qiang was a very self-motivated person, because while learning foreign languages, he also mastered a lot of financial and IT expertise through self-study.
Tong Qiang has an optimistic personality, self-motivated and smart, coupled with humorous and funny speech, which makes the young girl Yang Dan also pregnant with spring.
With the success of a meal, Tong Qiang also asked Yang Dan to come out from time to time, and the two chatted, walked, ate and watched movies together. Although the two have not yet broken the window paper, they have a pair of tacit figures on campus.
Yang Dan, who is with Tong Qiang, feels very happy, and she believes that even if the two are not together, they are not lovers but will be good friends.
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During the winter vacation of 1994, Yang Dan, as in previous years, rushed back to his hometown in Hunan to follow his parents for the New Year.
Before leaving, Tong Qiang deliberately went to the train station to send her. Although the two have been in a relationship for more than 3 months and have each other in their hearts, because of their lack of "experience", they can only look at each other with a smile when they say goodbye, and they don't know what to say.
The two of them just stared at each other like this, until they were about to leave, Tong Qiang reached out and held Yang Dan, feeling the temperature on Tong Qiang's hand, which made Yang Dan's face suddenly red, with the heartbeat of his first love, and embarked on the road back to his hometown.
Yang Dan herself is an introverted girl, but since she interacted with Tong Qiang, she has been influenced by Tong Qiang's funny and humorous personality, and she has gradually become lively and cheerful.
After the beginning of the school, the middle school students went to Beijing to play, they looked for Yang Dan as a guide, did not expect that on the first day of seeing Yang Dan, the students were surprised and said: Old classmate, your change is really big, in the past you were so shy, in front of people have never liked to talk, now you can be more cheerful.
Yang Dan, who is quiet on the surface, is very rich in her heart, and she has fantasized since she was a child that she can travel around the world alone when she grows up and go to see the colorful world outside, but because of timidity, coupled with a poor sense of direction, she has never been anywhere except her hometown and school, even shopping in Beijing, she is afraid of losing herself.
Knowing that Yang Dan likes to play, Tong Qiang found an opportunity to take her to Wutai Mountain for a tour, and after playing happily for two days, Yang Dan also felt that Tong Qiang was a man who could rely on himself.
Although the process of playing was very happy, there was an accident on the way home. The two went to play on May Day, so when they returned, the train was also crowded with people.
In order to save money, the two also specially bought night tickets, looking at the carriage full of people, Tong Qiang's heart is also very unpleasant, after all, he took the initiative to ask Yang Dan to come out to play, and he could not follow himself in the carriage for a night when he went back.
Until he saw someone get off the bus halfway through, this made Tong Qiang hurriedly occupy a seat, allowing Yang Dan to quickly sit down and rest. And Tong Qiang squatted next to Yang Dan all night, like a flower protector.
Looking at Tong Qiang's careful care, this also made Yang Dan very moved, and he even had a feeling of being pampered.
When they returned to Beijing, the two were more closely connected and the relationship was further developed.
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In September 1994, Tong Qiang decided to go to a company in Guangzhou for internship and enter the social exercise in advance.
Before leaving, he specially invited Yang Dan to the Hunan restaurant where the two went for the first time, and after the two sat down, Yang Dan found that Tong Qiang was somewhat abnormal, which can be said to be unaccustomed.
Because in the past, as soon as the two met, Tong Qiang would make her laugh, but today was different, and his silent appearance also looked more serious.
In order to break this awkward atmosphere, Yang Dan jokingly said: Your expression today looks quite solemn, is there something on your mind?
Hearing Yang Dan's words, Tong Qiang's face tightened even tighter, and he said: "Yes, there is a very serious thing, I have always wanted to tell you, but I don't know how to open my mouth to you, I would like to know, in your heart, what kind of feelings you have for me."
Tong Qiang's words made Yang Dan shudder, but she pretended to be calm and said: You feel very good, since college, you are the best friend I know, and you are also the friend who can talk the most and make me feel happiest.
On the other hand, Tong Qiang still said very seriously: Now, I am about to go to Guangzhou for internship, I can't help but tell you, with you, I not only want to be your friend, more importantly, I am already in love with you, I hope you can accept my feelings.
Looking at Yang Dan's silence, Tong Qiang continued: Don't look at my humorous and cheerful appearance, but I am most afraid of others rejecting, if you do not agree, I will no longer have the courage to see you after I go to Guangzhou, and we will not even be friends in the future.
For Tong Qiang's serious confession, this also shocked Yang Dan, the two have been in a relationship for so long, she also has a good feeling for Tong Qiang, but also has a dependence, Yang Dan is indeed very afraid of losing Tong Qiang.
She looked up at Tong Qiang, that serious and serious look, not like she was laughing, red-faced, she had to nod her head in agreement.
After learning that Yang Dan agreed, looking at the simple and lovely Yang Dan, Tong Qiang could no longer bear it, and suddenly showed a laugh, and the seriousness was swept away. Looking at Tong Qiang's bad smile, Yang Dan knew that Tong Qiang made this a "bitter meat plan".
When Tong Qiang went to Guangzhou, he called Yang Dan one day and told her about his lovesickness. On Yang Dan's birthday in November, Tong Qiang also rushed back to Beijing from Guangzhou in advance, and specially bought a beautiful white gauze dress and scarf for Yang Dan, and even sent a bouquet of bright roses.
Watching her boyfriend come back thousands of miles away and celebrate his birthday, this made Yang Dan feel very happy, and he was full of joy and took the rose and gently bit it in his mouth.
Seeing that the beloved girl was so happy, Tong Qiang also quipped: I understand, you are a girl who likes to eat flowers, and you love flowers more deeply than other girls.
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When Tong Qiang returned from his internship in Guangzhou, Yang Dan also offered a scarf he had woven. Afraid of her lover freezing, Yang Dan also deliberately knitted wider and thicker, and her love for her boyfriend seemed to be woven into this thick scarf.
Taking over this "keepsake" of love, Tong Qiang was very happy.
In her senior year, through the contact of the school, Yang Dan went to the Xinhua News Agency Audio and Video Center for internship, because of her hard work, which also made the leaders value her very much, and they were ready to wait for Yang Dan to graduate, and then directly transfer her.
But in addition to Xinhua News Agency, new opportunities are also beckoning to Yang Dan. At that time, the National Meteorological Administration and the Central Meteorological Observatory went to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute to recruit weather forecast hosts, and the teacher asked Yang Dan to audition.
Although it was a noon weather broadcast program, during the trial broadcast, Yang Dan won the approval of the examiner with his fluent language and beautiful and generous image.
At the time of graduation, Yang Dan also faced a choice, on the one hand, Xinhua News Agency, on the other hand, CCTV meteorological program host, for a time Yang Dan was a little unsure, he consulted his boyfriend Tong Qiang's opinion.
In the face of Yang Dan's inquiry, Tong Qiang said: I think the CCTV meteorological program is more suitable for you, because if I go to a foreign country for business, I can also watch you on TV.
In addition to soliciting the opinion of her boyfriend, Yang Dan also called her parents to ask for their opinions, and the two old people's ideas coincided with Tong Qiang's.
In this way, Yang Dan entered CCTV and became the host of the weather forecast.
After the first appearance after work, Yang Dan caught up with a tropical storm forecast, the manuscript at that time was very long, nearly two pages, and there was a lot of content that needed to be memorized, because she had just touched it, so her knowledge of meteorology was very shallow, which also made her feel deeply stressed.
Because it was not smooth, this made Yang Dan look very depressed after work, and once doubted whether he could do the job. Looking at Yang Dan's frustrated look, Tong Qiang said comfortingly: Everything is difficult at the beginning, you did not do well today, because you are not good enough for meteorological expertise, and you are still just a newcomer, you have to learn more, paper to work hard, you are definitely the best in this industry.
With the encouragement of Tong Qiang, Yang Dan also regained his strength and found a large amount of meteorological data, as long as he had time, he would take it out to study.
Half a month later, Yang Dan was also very skilled, and began to go to the CCTV weather forecast program at 7:30 every night.
Soon, Yang Dan became famous throughout the country, and his reputation also rose rapidly, and he won the title of "Miss China Meteorology".
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After participating in the work, yang dan and Tong Qiang's love has become more mellow.
In 1997, after being in love for many years, the two chose to join hands in the palace of marriage.
It is said that there is a "seven-year itch" between husband and wife, but Yang Dan and Tong Qiang have not changed at all, just like when they first got married, living at home, living a plain and happy life.
Because of his indifferent personality, he did not have too much luxury in life, and he did not care too much about the things around him, which also allowed Yang Dan to free up "idleness" and always focus on the love with Tong Qiang.
Although the two have been married for 7 years, Tong Qiang still cares for her as he did when he was in love, and even takes Yang Dan everywhere to travel as soon as he has the opportunity.
As a northerner, Tong Qiang has always been very afraid of eating chili peppers, but after marrying Yang Dan, in order to follow his wife's habits, he deliberately "cultivated" to eat spicy, and gradually fell in love with eating Hunan vegetables.
In the trivial and trivial things of daily life, Tong Qiang's love for Yang Dan is revealed all the time.
Sometimes, Yang Dan called her husband in the unit, and after being accidentally overheard by colleagues, he jokingly said to Yang Dan: You have been married for so many years, how to call is as greasy and sticky as a hot lover.
And Song Yingjie once said figuratively: Yang Dan is always like a sunny spring without sandstorms.
Although the two have been married for so many years, Yang Dan has always felt like he is in love. Whenever it comes to marriage, Yang Dan sweetly says: Love is the best thing, and if you live a simple and happy life in love, you will always feel young.
Yang Dan and Tong Qiang are living sweet and happy, immersed in the world of the two without worry, but Tong Qiang's parents are very anxious, because the two have been married for so many years and have no signs of childbearing.
At first, Tong's mother thought that the two were busy with their careers, but with the passage of time, Yang Dan's age gradually grew, and she also began to struggle and worry about the fertility of her son and daughter-in-law.
In fact, Yang Dan and Tong Qiang had long planned to Dink, afraid that the old man would be sad, so he had not said it all the time, and shirked it with his work.
It's just that the old couple is getting older, plus looking at those playmates and friends, they all have grandchildren, they have a lot of fun every day, and they listen to their grandchildren call grandparents, which makes them very envious.
When they saw their sons and daughters-in-law, they were also very sad, and they looked forward to being a grandmother and holding their grandchildren every day, but it was this ordinary wish that was difficult for her to achieve.
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In 2012, Yang Dan and Tong Qiang have been married for 15 years, and Yang Dan is about to enter the forty.
Mother Tong and his wife were very anxious, and they also began to have frequent births, they found Yang Dan and Tong Qiang, and said: I know that you are living very happily, and the pressure of work is also fighting, but no matter what, you must consider the birth of a big thing, not for us, but also for yourself, when you are old, there is still a dependence.
At first, Yang Dan and Tong Qiang did not care, but seeing the pitiful appearance of those lonely and widowed old people, they no longer insisted, so they began to plan and gave up the idea of Dink.
In 2013, 40-year-old Yang Dan gave birth to a son, and finally became a mother, looking at her son's young face, at that moment, Yang Dan also felt infinite love.
For the arrival of the child, the whole family was happy, and Yang Dan at that time also had some guilt, fortunately gave up Dink and gave birth to a child.
Looking at the happy smiles of his relatives and husband, Yang Dan felt that the most correct decision in this life was to risk an advanced maternal age and give birth to a son for her husband.
When Yang Dan was confined, her mother-in-law took good care of her, and even her mother-in-law urged her to go to work, don't give up her career and dreams, the children and the family have her to manage, rest assured.
After having a child, Yang Dan also gradually focused on the family and children, and understood that the in-laws were right to promote her.
Perhaps the times are changing rapidly, but what parents want to see most is that their children will start a family and their children and grandchildren will be full. And it is normal that they will be troubled by the marriage and childbirth of their children.
The greatest filial piety of children to their parents is not full of achievements, but a happy family, the state of children and grandchildren...
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