One day in 2000, singer Sun Nan suddenly proposed to the actor to buy red sister on her knees:
"Buy, will you marry me?"
Buy red sister did not think about it and agreed.
From the moment of the marriage proposal, they have known each other for less than 24 hours!
Sun Nan's courage stems from her childhood vows.
At that time, the family gathered in front of an old-fashioned TV set, watching the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and performing until the skit "Something You Call Me".
Sun Nan suddenly and excitedly pointed to the red sister in the TV set and said to her mother: "Mom! In the future, my wife will be her, and this will be your daughter-in-law. ”
The mother smiled and shook her head, obviously not paying attention to it.
But who would have thought that just five years later, the son would really bring this actress home.
In fact, compared with Sun Nan, the courage to buy red sisters is more worthy of admiration.
A man who had only known her for less than a day proposed to her, and she just agreed.
Sun Nan was not famous at that time, and she did not have money to do a wedding, so she paid for it herself;
At the wedding, Sun Nan received a phone call to leave the red sister alone, and she also apologized to the guests on his behalf.
In nearly 10 years of married life, buying a red sister's career is suspended, taking care of a family and children, and letting her husband concentrate on his career.
But in exchange for a complaint, it took her 4 years to come out.
Despite the torture, until now, buy red sister has not said a bad word about her ex-husband.
Now, 13 years have passed since their divorce, and looking at their situation, it is a world of difference.
I don't know if sun nan has ever regretted recalling their bits and pieces?
Mai Hongmei was born in Pingdingshan, Henan, and her parents are both music and art workers.
She inherited the good genes of her parents, and she was able to sing and dance well from an early age, and she was also beautiful and beautiful.
She was a sensible girl, and she had been concerned since she was a child whose mother envied other people's soldiers and liked to watch people in military uniforms on TV.
In order to fulfill her mother's wishes, Mai Hongmei was conscripted into the army at the age of 14 and became a dancer in the Northwest Military Region.
At the same time, Sun Nan also just graduated from junior high school, did not continue to high school, but entered the factory.
In just a few years, he worked as a welder, painter, carpenter, electrician, and painted pencils in pencil factories.
In fact, Sun Nan is a gifted child, his father is a well-known local vocal teacher, and his brothers and sisters have all been singers.
As the youngest son in the family, he relied on his father to name him Dabo, hoping that he would be as strong and powerful as the waves of the sea in the future.
Sun Nanqiang is not strong, I don't know, only that many years later it will be his marriage, like the waves of the sea" "three twists and turns".
When he was three or four years old, Sun Nan showed his excellent musical talent.
My father taught students at home, and he was on the sidelines.
Later, because of the harsh living conditions, the family of five was crammed into a house of only 9 square meters, and sometimes seven or eight students came in.
This made Sun Nan resistant to singing, so he entered the factory after graduating from junior high school.
The change happened when I was 18 years old, after Sun Nan was scolded for not being late on the bus for the Nth time, she began to reflect on herself, do I have to do this all my life?
Later, the pencil factory wanted to hold a literary and artistic performance, and the workshop director saw that Sun Nan often used a pencil as a drumstick to beat the paint bucket and sing, so he signed him up.
When performing the show, Sun Nan's sister was also offstage, and seeing that his brother was playing well, he asked him to go to Dalian's Hundred Flowers Art Troupe to apply for a drummer to try.
Unexpectedly, this attempt allowed Sun Nan to open the door to a new world, and he no longer had to squeeze the bus.
Sun Nan was also lucky, just in time for the popular drummer to open his voice and sing, Sun Nan also had the guidance of his father, and soon became famous in the local area and entered the coal mine literary troupe.
Until this time, Sun Nan stood on the same starting line as the 14-year-old Mai Hongmei.
But at that time, the 25-year-old buy red sister was already a hot female comedian at that time.
It was during a condolence performance, there was a sketch actor who could not take the stage because of diarrhea, the director looked for the right person to save the scene, and finally chose to buy red sister.
In this way, she did not even rehearse and starred in her first sketch "Female Soldier Variations".
I thought that this show would be the failure of the whole performance, but the result was unexpected by everyone, and the red sister also found her own comedic talent.
Later, she originally had stage experience and was effortlessly admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
After several years of polishing, her acting skills have become more and more mature, and she has gained the opportunity to appear on the big stage.
In 1995, she partnered with Guo Donglin to perform the skit "Something You Talk About".
She looks sweet and beautiful, smiles and has very crooked eyes, which is liked by many viewers.
The following year, she cooperated with Guo Donglin again in the CCTV program "Variety Show", bringing the sketch "Something You Call Me".
In the same year, Wang Wenhua, a well-known producer of CCTV, specially created a series of sketches for buying red sisters, "Xinjiang Sister Maimati".
After the show was broadcast, the name of buying red sister was all over the country, and at that time, some people even said that she would be the next Song Dandan.
At this time, there were still 4 years before she and Sun Nan met.
Before meeting Sun Nan, all the thoughts of buying red sisters were on career, and there was no time for love.
But Sun Nan, however, experienced an unforgettable love, and the scumbag attribute on his body was also reflected early.
At a Grand Prix in 1988, Sun Nan met Xin Xin.
The two of them often discuss music-related matters together, and over time they come together.
After four years of falling in love, Xin Xin went to Japan to study, and the two people who were originally like glue were separated from each other.
Soon after, Sun Nan also went to Beijing again from Dalian and found the singer Gu Jianfen.
Because he heard that Gu Jianfen was recruiting students, he wanted to try his luck.
Fortunately, under the influence of talent and hard work, Sun Nan worshiped the famous teacher;
After systematic study, Sun Nan entered the Central Song and Dance Troupe under the recommendation of his teacher, which made his old father, who had been a vocal teacher all his life, very pleased.
And he was getting closer and closer to the goddess of his dreams, buying the red sister, but he had no chance of contact at all.
At that time, Sun Nan's monthly income was about 1,000 yuan, although it was not much in that era, but it was not small.
Most of that money was used by him to make international calls to his girlfriend.
On the phone, Xin Xin often listened to him cry poorly, and she was so distressed that she ran back to China not long after.
Sun Nan was having dinner with his friend when he saw her, and he couldn't say anything excited at the moment he saw his girlfriend.
After that, the two of them lived together.
In 1993, Sun Nan went to Hong Kong to perform with CCTV, and was fortunate to be photographed and signed by the record company.
After that, Sun Nan began to run between the two places, and he had never felt so busy.
But he didn't hate it, because it proved that he was about to have money!
But before he could earn the money, he advised his girlfriend not to sing anymore.
In the three years of Hong Kong's development, Sun Nan has released three albums in succession, but the response has been mediocre.
He could only turn the spearhead and return to the mainland to develop, and asked his friend Li Jie to write a poem "Red Flag Fluttering" for himself.
With this song, he finally emerged in the music world and appeared on the Spring Festival Gala.
In 1998, he sang the theme song for Feng Xiaogang's New Year film "Not Seen, Not Scattered", and later with the movie hit, Sun Nan also became a hit.
He used the money he earned to make a down payment on a house in Beijing, and his girlfriend Xin Xin immersed himself in the joy of a better future every day.
But what she didn't know was that this house was not their marriage house.
In one show, Sun Nan had the privilege of coming into contact with The Red Sister, watching the teenage goddess sitting next to him, his little heart pounding.
By the end of the show, Sun Nan had less than 24 hours to propose to Buy Red Sister.
This is not surprising, because how to pursue the purchase of red sister has been rehearsed in his mind for many years.
For his out-of-line behavior, buying red sisters was particularly appreciative, and did not even consider it, and said it if he agreed.
The reason why she agreed to it was so painful was actually because the romantic pictures at that time satisfied her adolescent fantasies.
When she was 16 years old, when her love sinus first opened, she said to her mother:
"If my husband in my previous life came to me, he didn't need to know me much, and he didn't need to say anything more, as long as he said, buy you and marry me, I know that at this time my husband from my past life has come to me." 」
Therefore, she regarded Sun Nan as the "true son of heaven" and said to him: You don't have to care about anything, don't be inferior because you don't have money, because I have money!
Since then, whenever Sun Nan is mentioned outside, she is a happy look.
However, their happiness was based on Xin Xin's pain, and she never expected to break up with Sun Nan in this way.
Heartbroken, she still chose to heal her wounds alone, returned to the resident singing bar, and published a series of sad emotional songs such as "I have always stood where you hurt", bluntly accusing "heartless people are equally cruel and cowardly to everyone." ”
But Sun Nan's reply was that he did not know this woman, and the other party really borrowed him to hype.
It is hard to imagine what kind of torture this would be in Xin Xin's heart.
For the red sister, at this time, she does not know that the beginning of romance often does not have a romantic ending...
"After 9 years of marriage, Sun Nan has not even washed his socks, and I have washed his socks for nine years!"
No one knows how much the woman behind him has paid to buy a red girl if Sun Nan can become a household name singer.
In May 2000, at the wedding of Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei, a dramatic scene occurred.
On a phone call from CCTV, Sun Nan had to go out halfway, leaving only the buy red sister alone to preside over the overall situation.
Later, Sun Nan said that she wanted to make up for it, but she said with love: "I don't want it, I want him to regret it for the rest of his life." ”
After this, he bought a red sister to suspend his career, went home to his husband and taught his son, and gave birth to a son and a daughter to Sun Nan.
Although there is no emotional basis, their family is also happy and harmonious, and Sun Nan's parents are very satisfied with this daughter-in-law.
It is said that as a soldier, Mai Hongmei was originally unable to have a second child, but for the sake of Sun Nan, she took off her military uniform and gave birth to a son.
But her desperation could not be exchanged for Sun Nan's single-mindedness.
In life, he was a man with a strong macho mind.
Every time a husband and wife quarrel, no matter whose problem it is, the last person to bow their heads and apologize must be to buy red sister.
In the early interviews, Mai Hongmei always said: The husband is a particularly good person, as long as he is given a step, the solemn atmosphere that pervades the two will always ease up instantly.
Unexpectedly, their "illusion" of happiness lasted only 10 years.
In 2009, after buying a red sister just gave birth to her second child, Sun Nan divorced her and turned around to be in love with Pan Wei.
Pan Wei was the female anchor of tourism satellite TV at that time, because golf was related to Sun Nan.
She had been married twice, and both exs were very fond of her and were very understanding and supportive of his work, but both were eventually separated because of personality incompatibility.
After the comeback of buying red sister in 2008, the host filmed with both hands, often busy outside, and lacked communication with her husband.
Under the loneliness of Sun Nan, he mingled with Pan Wei and cheated on the real hammer in marriage.
However, in order to fight for custody, Sun Na bit back, claiming that mai Hongmei was unfaithful to herself in marriage, and also sued her in court.
During that time, the buy red sister was heartbroken, and almost jumped into the sea to save her life, and it was still difficult to hide her tears when recalling this past many years later.
"At that time, I had just given birth to my second baby, and my body was still bloated and desperate, so I wrote the names of my daughter Baoyao and my son's 'little husband' on the beach, and I also drew one with my feet, afraid that I would not be able to jump into the sea."
At Sun Nan's insistence, she was forced to be helpless and finally agreed to formally divorce in March 2009.
At the end of the same year, the marriage news came from Pan Wei, and Pan Wei also publicly praised that Sun Nan was a real man who "dared to love and dare to leave".
In the end, after torturing herself for 4 years, she chose to reconcile and raise the children together.
What Sun Nan didn't expect was that it wasn't long before his ex-wife became redder than before, but he was mushy.
In 2011, Mai Hongmei once again partnered with her old partner Guo Donglin and returned to the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
In the spotlight, buying red sisters seems to have been immersed in their favorite performances.
In addition, she has also participated in many TV series, such as divorce lawyers, beautiful life and other works, there are her figures.
After that, she completely turned popular, although not a big hit, but there are works broadcast every year.
On the other hand, Sun Nan, in recent years, as long as he appears in the eyes of the public, he is a variety of demons.
In 2015, during "I Am a Singer", he ignored the rules and temporarily withdrew during the live broadcast of the final.
In a follow-up interview, he admitted that he had already thought about retiring from the competition before the competition, but did not communicate with the program team in advance.
Thanks to Wang Han's emergency rescue, it did not cause a catastrophe.
However, when it comes to this matter, Sun Nan is complacent and says that he has achieved Wang Han:
"He didn't dare to blackface me, first of all, the ratings were very good, and then he should thank me so that the people of the whole country could see that he was not in danger."
This incident caused many people to be dissatisfied at the time, and Sun Nan's reputation also declined a lot.
However, since then, he has left the music scene and once again attracted everyone's attention because of a topic of "sending his daughter to female Durban".
In the days when he did not sing, Sun Nan has been committed to the promotion of "Chinese Studies".
He left everything behind and moved his family to Xuzhou to study with his children, and in three years, he and Mai Baoyao, the eldest daughter of Mao Hongmei, were arranged to enter a girls' moral school called "Huaxia Xuegong".
It is understood that the annual tuition fee of this school is 150,000, which is not something that ordinary people can attend.
On the surface, Sun Nan seems to be good for her daughter, but in terms of time, everyone has been arguing about this school.
The teachers here have no qualification certificates, the school does not have educational qualifications, there are basically no cultural classes here, all of them are female red, tea ceremony, guqin and other special courses, advocating the feudal idea of "three from four virtues" for women.
"I am going to heaven in the eyes of parents, hell in the eyes of students."
This is the text that Buy Baoyao once posted on her social media account, which shows that she was not happy when she first arrived in Xuzhou.
In fact, Buy Baoyao had her own dream of acting, and when she was about to enter high school in 2016, she was still looking forward to entering an acting academy in the future.
But Sun Nan said to the outside world that she liked Chinese studies and that she respected her children's wishes when she transferred schools.
Subsequently, some netizens pulled out Pan Wei to let Buy Baoyao go to the female Durban, but his daughter has been studying at an ordinary high school in Beijing and has begun to send her to study abroad.
When the education of the biological daughter and the stepdaughter is compared, the gap comes out.
For a time, there were many opinions on the Internet, Sun Nan and Pan Wei became the targets of everyone, and they were scolded by netizens as sieves from the inside.
At this time, the parties bought Baoyao to publish a long article, a sentence "I learned a lot here" subverted everyone's three views.
You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and since Baoyao himself is willing, we as outsiders don't need to say more.
Compared with their "hilarity", buying red sisters is low-key and happy.
While struggling for her career, she met her current husband, Sun Yulun.
The two people married in a low-key manner, and the other party spoiled her as a princess, and whenever she was photographed, she could not see the shadow of more than half a hundred years old.
Buy Hong Mei once said that when you hate a person, the best way to get revenge is to live better than him, and it is obvious that she has done it.
It has now been 13 years since the "divorce war" of that year.
Looking at their respective current situations, the gap is really clear at a glance, and for such a situation, in fact, everything has been foreshadowed.
You say, if you give her another chance, after hearing the words: "Buy, buy, marry me?" "At the time.
Would she still answer "yes" without hesitation?